This Time new year home, the biggest feeling, is the rural family, can not be without, son! You have to have a son!
This is why the countryside must have a son's wish, without a son will be extinct, can not be passed on; after the death of the parents who only gave birth to daughters, the uncle demolished the parents' old house, planning to build a new house, the daughter learned of it, rushed home to preside over justice for the parents, and snatched back the foundation.
Even if the daughter temporarily snatched it back, but the daughter can not always stay here, sooner or later will have to go back to her husband, and when she returns, relatives will grab the foundation to build a house.
Some people also say: Her parents are gone, why shouldn't her uncle come to the house? Please, can what you want be the same as what others are willing to give?
Some people also say: Parents are gone, there is no son, the land should be recycled, it is the country.
Do you agree with this statement?
So the idea of having a son in the countryside is also understandable, the countryside has some happy events and funerals, but also for men to contribute, and people with sons don't dare to deceive you, right? #Rural # #农村那些事儿 #
Netizen comments
In the countryside, according to Chinese tradition, when a daughter marries out of the country, her parents' house should be taken back by the patrilineal people. You can understand it from her grandfather's point of view, because the fast foundation is most likely purchased by her grandfather for her father, and it is better to leave it to people with foreign surnames than to give her grandfather's children and grandchildren
The land is state-owned, the individual only has the right to use, the girl marries out, the household registration is gone, if the parents die, the village will generally cancel the household to deal with it.
Homestead Farming land will definitely be re-allocated, and there is no problem. It is the son who moved the household registration, and this operation is the same [black line]
When my old father was sick in bed for more than 10 days, two sisters, one to give a 1,000 yuan, saw twice, 30 minutes each time; one saw twice, each time for 20 minutes, sent 2 pounds of apples, did not take a point, the logic of their hearts is that I do not have old belongings, so I am a guest, only do what guests should do, none of them have taken the initiative to accompany the elderly even if it is one night! Thin cool to this point, people are speechless!
Whether a person is affectionate or not is never related to gender; people are selfish, but not to the point of shamelessness; especially to their own parents, which is the biggest cause and effect of a child's life!
Every village has a family, our village has two families, one is the only boy because he has no money and became a door-to-door son-in-law, now the old man is almost eighty, the village is ready to send him to the nursing home, the other is unable to give birth to the only adopted daughter married, the old two also died for many years, a few years ago the house collapsed, years ago the brightening village was transformed into a flower bed.
You haven't seen anything more outrageous. Our family is not in the rural hometown at present, last year we wanted to build a house on the old homestead, and the approval has been passed. A big uncle with the same door said that he would build us with us and pay for it, and they would not come out or give it later. Another cousin, my aunt's second son, called my brother and dad and told them to go to their place to build, not in the same place, he had a homestead. His brother is 50+ almost 60 years old and has no house. Say this house later to his brother. There are many miracles every year, and last year was particularly many. Finally consider, so as not to offend people who have not built, have been dragging in.
It is this idea of having a son that leads to how many single stick villages ... In a society governed by the rule of law, who dares to bully whom? Continue to have a son, then no one will be able to find a daughter or daughter-in-law
Is the foundation private property? Daughters can inherit and sell if they don't need them. Even the son doesn't necessarily live in his hometown.
Think about who does not want a son, inherit the results of the efforts of several generations, the absolute family is definitely there, the absolute family is actually a big problem, but some people are not willing to admit it, it is recommended that the state agrees that the husband and wife can have a boy through technical means, then there will be no extinction!
If your family does not have a hukou in this village, the land must be returned to the collective, and you can only transfer the appendages of the ground to those who have a hukou in your village, and if you do not give your uncle, you must also give it to others, and if you can't keep it, you can either have more sons and move back.
The main reason why people who say that they are not envious of having sons is that they can't give birth to sons, and they can only comfort themselves to have daughters [laughs]
What should my daughter do? Stay here, or go back to your husband? My sisters have no boys, my parents live to become the most envied people in the village, there is a place in the village? All men are mortal? Whoever likes the old countryside that cannot be demolished will occupy it, and if his descendants live until they die, they will occupy it if they want to occupy the old place, and they deserve to die poorly. The more sons in the countryside, the stronger, I personally experienced, at that time my husband two brothers (his brother worked in the field), there were six brothers in the family, in the village to dominate the king, talk and do things in unison, want to occupy what they want, the foundation of my family's ancestors were occupied by them, and later I built a house can only repair their own land, because there are their miscellaneous trees next to them do not agree, call on the leaders at all levels to mediate is still aggressive, suffer from the evil spirit of this uncle is too unkind, you want to use people's foundations to build houses, first let the village cadres come forward to help solve, You can't privately demolish other people's houses, build your own house, you must get the consent of others, now the marriage is not stable, if one day the niece's marriage breaks down, there is no place to live, the house of the parents is the place where the family belongs. Doing it too rampantly shows that usually people's parents bully others when they are alive. Things are done too well.
