On February 8, 2022, in Suzhou City, Anhui Province, a couple got married, and at the wedding scene, the groom cried very sadly and the bride laughed.
According to a friend at the scene, the bride and groom stood on the podium, next to a wedding celebrant, holding a microphone, introducing some of the newlyweds' love experiences and saying some words of blessing.
Unexpectedly, after listening to the speech of the wedding celebrant, the more the groom listened to it, the more sad he became, and the bride was just the opposite, the more she listened, the happier she was, and she kept laughing at the audience.
It wasn't until friends and relatives in the audience shouted loudly for the bride to comfort the groom that the bride turned her head to look at the groom and wiped his tears for him, but the groom just kept crying.
After they got off the stage, some relatives and friends asked him if it was a happy thing to marry his daughter-in-law, why did he cry so sadly?
The groom did not answer the questions of his friends and relatives, but only grudgingly laughed, and then cried vigorously again.
The relatives and friends thought that the bride was bullying him, so they all looked at the bride intently, and the bride looked at her relatives and friends looking at her with strange eyes, so she said to the relatives and friends, "I promise, I didn't hit him." ”
Later, the groom's crying on the wedding day was uploaded to the Internet by a friend who went to the wedding banquet, which caused heated discussion among netizens.
One of the netizens thought that the bridegroom was crying because it was too difficult to marry this daughter-in-law, and it was good to want him to live for half a year, and it was already good that he could stand on the stage alive.
Another netizen believes that the groom's crying on the wedding day fully shows that he is a good man, he is grateful that he can marry a beautiful wife, and he is also sad about his parents' efforts.
After marriage, it means that a man has a heavier burden on his shoulders, and he wants to create a small family with his wife.
And to take care of his wife and future children, as well as to take care of elderly parents, he may feel too much pressure and cry.
In fact, these are the responsibilities of every married man, and every responsible man.
He can think about this at the wedding and cry for it, which does show that he is a good man, but it also reflects his lack of self-confidence, otherwise he would not cry.
Because if he has the confidence to live a good life for his wife and parents, why should he cry over the so-called pressures of life?
Unfortunately, crying cannot solve the problem, and we should use practical actions to live a happy life for our families through our own efforts after marriage.
But what kind of life can be regarded as a happy life?
As long as there is a contented and happy mentality, a happy life is actually very simple. As long as you don't blindly compare, your pressure will not be great.
Family members are under little pressure, and the family is safe, living in harmony, eating enough and dressing warmly, that is a happy life.
