Wen \Jiang Zuo Mei Niang, Yi Ning
In "The World of Man", although Zheng Juan, played by Yin Tao, is beautiful, in the first half of her life, fate does not seem to favor her at all.
Abandoned since childhood, although there is an adoptive mother who loves her, but the family is too poor, the life is also too tight, it is difficult to find an opportunity to change the fate, met Tu Zhiqiang, but Tu only regarded her as a tool to hide her eyes, and later she was also taken advantage of by Luo Shibin, broke her ribs, and became pregnant. And does Luo Shibin love her? Obviously not, so she changed from a yellow flower girl to a woman who was unmarried and pregnant, and Tu Zhiqiang, who was willing to marry her at that time, committed a crime and was shot.
In that era, such a poor and beautiful woman, unmarried and pregnant, got not sympathy, but disgust, really responded to the phrase "red face and thin life".
However, Zheng Juan, who is in this situation, did not collapse in the case of being kicked by fate. Her beauty, her freshness, her heart, her kindness, under the pressure of fate, released a timeless fragrance, making people really want to enter that era and meet real people. Maybe the actors are also very well chosen, Zheng Juan is really vivid and charming by Yin Tao, and what I am most amazed by is that scene: her active dedication to Zhou Bingkun.
I don't know why, although this kind of active dedication is a kind of heart, I did not feel a trace of impropriety, on the contrary, Zheng Juan's image was fuller, which made people feel more surprise and respect when they had pity for her.
Zheng Juan's plot, her initiative to lose herself, is a big gamble: the bet is on Zhou Bingkun's character and sincerity. Her ending is successful, but it is because her heart is based on kindness.
01. Zheng Juan's helplessness and Jedi strike back
When Mao Buyi created the song "Borrow", he wrote a paragraph, "In this world, there are many unrecognized dreams, unblessed emotions, and uncared for children, who have not made mistakes, but can only tremble and walk on the road thinly." They borrow all things from heaven and earth, not to eventually reach somewhere, but only to have fewer obstacles on the road..."
Zheng Juan is the one who is not favored by heaven, she is so beautiful, but so humble, has suffered so much, suffered so much, and the beautiful life is still out of reach for her.
She is very hard-working, her adoptive mother is getting old, she has a blind brother (no blood relation), and now she is unfortunately pregnant with the child of a bad person, life is not difficult, and the burden of the life of this family of four has fallen on this insulted and damaged Zheng Juan.
Her value lies in the fact that she never bows to fate, but works hard and complains, even if she can't wear pants, she must seize the time to wear a few strings of sugar gourds to sell. Her cleverness also lies in the fact that she knows that she alone, no matter how capable she is, will not be able to live a truly good life.
She wants to go through the bridge of marriage to pick a good man, and then use him to redeem her whole family. Zheng Juan's idea, perhaps in reality, we can not understand, but in that era, there is no way, marriage is a woman's salvation, this is a reality, can not deny, Zheng Juan's idea is actually very pragmatic.
She quickly took aim at Bingkun. For this Bingkun who sends money to her family every month, this Bingkun who can contribute her errands, and this Bingkun who secretly sells heirlooms to help her, she is grateful and understands Bingkun's heart for her. Although she knew that she herself was not worthy of Bingkun, she began a plan for her new life.
That time, Bingkun brought two bags of brown sugar to visit Zheng Juan, and Zheng Juan waited for this day for a long time. So when Bingkun told Zheng Juan's mother that she wanted to go into the house to see the child, Zheng Juan's big plan began, she sorted out her messy hair in the mirror in a hurry, but deliberately did not button the top button of herself.
The seduction plan began, Bingkun suddenly entered the house, the two looked at each other, Zheng Juan only then remembered to tie the button, her face was instantly red to the root of the ear, in a hurry, she lied that she had just been milking the child, this sentence is also a rich connotation of the provocation, Bingkun this kind of straight man who can stand ah.
Zheng Juan did not accept it at this time, she straightened her emotions and began a new round of attack, she forced Bingkun to ask why she was so good to herself.
Bingkun snorted and said that he did not know, Zheng Juan replied that he knew, Bingkun continued to cover himself up, he did not know, and Zheng Juan was not annoyed, but replied in a more affirmative tone, he knew.
In the face of love, women always love more and more boldly, and men love more and more. Under the pressure of Zheng Juan's steps, Bingkun had to put his thoughts and likes for Zheng Juan out of his mind.
At this moment, Zheng Juan's heart should be overjoyed, she clearly knows that if she misses this opportunity, it will be difficult to meet again next time, so she began to "take the initiative to dedicate herself".
Before dedicating herself, in order to dispel Bingkun's concerns, Zheng Juan came again with a "weak selling the weak", and she hugged Bingkun and said a very moving word:
"I'm afraid I'm sticking to you, I won't, you can rest assured, I'll think of me later, just hand my mother a note, you write down which day you come, when you come, I will wait for you at home wholeheartedly, wait for you when the object is, you will not come to the end, if you are married, forget me." 」
This trick of hers really brings out the humble, helpless, and loving qualities of a woman to the extreme! Who is Bingkun? Is an ordinary person who has no sense of existence in front of excellent brothers and sisters, but Zheng Juan's culture is not high, and her psychological achievements are not small! She gave Bingkun a "big hero" hat, can Bingkun not save her? He could only hold her tighter.
02. Mei Niang said
In those days, getting pregnant before marriage was a serious thing. Even if a girl has a relationship with her boyfriend before marriage, it is necessary to be pointed out and punctured in the spine.
A woman doing such a very unseemly thing, I am afraid that the saliva of the neighbors can drown her. Does Zheng Juan not know all this? Can she really care less about gossip? She is also an ordinary person, she is not thick-skinned enough to face all right and wrong, and she is not strong enough to be completely indifferent to public opinion.
But she could only gamble, even if it cost her more, she would have to gamble.
It turns out that Zheng Juan really has to pay a huge price for this. What if Bingkun didn't love her? What if you don't take this step? So what kind of image will she be in Bingkun? Will Bingkun not even give her money in the end? It is possible, even if Bingkun is willing to accept her body, will he be willing to be responsible? Will she be abandoned again? Repeat? It is also possible.
Fortunately, she made the right bet, but after living with Bingkun, she still faced too many tests.
At that time, the neighbors around her all kinds of sarcastic eyes, malicious speculation, all kinds of gossip, pointing, she could not hide, one by one.
In addition, the bigger problem is the Zhou family's disapproval, non-acceptance and dislike of her. But Zheng Juan is not afraid, this is what makes us admire her even more.
Heaven help has a lover, Bingkun's mother has become a vegetative person, Zheng Juan did not give up at all, personally, every day to rub herself and change medicine, better than her own daughter to her, she also took care of the heavy responsibility of taking care of Zhou Rong's daughter, she relied on her most immature shoulders, picked up all the burden of this family, and there is no regret.
Finally, Bingkun's mother woke up, and Zhou Rong's daughter kissed her more than her own mother, and also made the father, who was always an old antique, also nod his head at the two of them.
A lot of people have asked me, what do you say is the most admirable quality of a woman? I always say, it's kindness. Although there are too many kind women who have not received good rewards in reality, it is not the fault of kindness, it is because your kindness has no sharp edge, your kindness has no vision, your kindness has no heart to do the bottom, and Zheng Juan? She has it all, so, her kindness is rewarded, she gets love, she gets the marriage of her dreams, she gets the most intimate care of a man who truly loves her.
Don't always say that people's hearts are not ancient, in such an era, kindness is still the most glorious and dazzling quality of a woman, because of her, the family will have warmth, children have arms, and men have harbors.
Although later Bingkun was imprisoned because of Luo Shibin, she waited bitterly for many years, but waiting for a lover, although bitter and sweet, and then her own Zheng Juan's son died again, it was also unfortunate, but these were the arrangements of fate, Zheng Juan was powerless to change, but the perfect happiness she could influence in the second half of her life was the result of her brave use of heart and later kindness and sincerity.
In the human world, everyone's fate is very impermanent. Zhou Rong is beautiful and smart, but she has a bad vision, not in love with a poet who is not safe at night, and finally was betrayed and divorced; Qiao Chunyan is beautiful and capable, but she is also in love with the brain, and she has to rack her brains to love a narrow-minded ordinary man, and finally fall into a marriage with chicken feathers, which is also troublesome. The women in this drama are so radiant, but the men who match them really don't seem to be worthy of their beauty and purity.
A good work, it is like this to tear the beauty to show us. Fortunately, Zhou Rong finally had a crazy person to stay with, Chunyan had her career support, and Zheng Juan really got love and sincerity in this life.
And their good end, in essence, is not because of men, but because of themselves, because they are either beautiful, or talented, or wise, or the brilliant essence of kindness, they are all women who have crossed the man's river, and the river may have nourished them, but in the end they can swim through, relying on their own skills.
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