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There is a word called "great wisdom is foolish."
Meaning: a very wise man, because he does not show his sharp edge, seems to be very stupid on the surface,
It's a positive word and a standard for really smart people.
Just like Wei Dongyi that everyone sees on the Internet.
He is a teacher at Peking University and a "Wei Shen" in the mouths of students. It can be said that his talent in the field of mathematics is innate.
Therefore, it has to be worshipped.
However, after everyone saw his image, not only was he dumbfounded: is this untrimmed person in front of him really a mathematical genius?
With a bottle of mineral water and a few steamed buns in hand, he waited for the bus with a bag on his back.
It really makes it impossible for everyone to associate him with a mathematical genius. But the facts are indisputable.
I think that truly intelligent people have long since transcended the shackles of matter and focused only on what interests them.
As the saying goes, "It's not enough to be smart, it's smart enough to avoid being too smart." ”
Deeply believed, smart is not worth showing off, when everyone thinks you are smart, then you have been hated.
So, those really smart people, in fact, look "stupid."
1, instigate some, first do not argue with the world
There is a saying: "Put yourself down so that you can be indisputable from the world." ”
Deeply believe that by lowering your body, you can be alone.
In the public perception, it is always felt that "admitting encouragement" is a very humiliating thing, but in fact, it is not so.
Those moments of bowing one's head are not the embodiment of humility, but a kind of spiritual sublimation.
Just like Guo Qilin, who had recently caught fire, he was the "young class master" of the Deyun Society, but he had never flaunted his sense of superiority in front of his own division and brothers.
In an interview, he said that when he was a child, he always took a bowl of cabbage and squatted down to eat it without going to the table.
Even once, when there was candy at home, he wanted to eat it, so he asked his brother- and sister, "Can I eat it?" The master said, "This is your home, of course you can eat it." ”
This caution of his fully demonstrates altruistic behavior.
He will not compete with his brothers and sisters for favors, because although he is the son of Guo Degang, he is also an employee of the Deyun Society, just like everyone else.
It is precisely because of this that Guo Qilin maintains a high popularity in the circle, whether young or old, he likes this big forest with a smile on his face.
Being a human being should be like this, without controversy, you will also have your own spring.
In this society, there is no shortage of people who are out of the ordinary, but what is missing is people who are really powerful. The latter, on the other hand, has long learned to be silent, and this is the gap.
2, be more stable, in order to be able to hone themselves
When you haven't learned to walk, don't rush to run.
Because only by stabilizing yourself can you go further.
As the saying goes: "Where there is hope, there must be tempering, just like falling in love, as long as it is serious in the beginning, there will be tempering, then there is hope, otherwise there is no hope without training." ”
Indeed it is.
Where there is hope, it must be indispensable to tempering.
Therefore, the pursuit of stability is our compulsory course.
I like a word, that is, "winning in stability".
Because, in this way, there will be no adventurousness, no timidity.
The other day, I brushed the video of the blogger @ Shaolin Sanbao on the Internet, and I felt quite emotional in my heart.
Sanbao was only four years old, but he had been practicing martial arts in the Shaolin Temple for more than two years, and his small body had great energy.
When children older than him were brought in, Sambo also acted as a coach, teaching with a board and an eye.
His steps were very steady, standing on the plum blossom pile, he did not shake.
How can such a skill be so skilled if it is not hard training day after day?
A child can do this, and as adults, we have no reason to refuse to work hard.
All the enviable looks, not simple.
So, be steady, and pay a little more if you want.
3, stupid, you can retreat from the whole body
Someone said, "You can't go straight in, then you can retreat." ”
Also, if you move forward will make yourself lose more, choosing to retreat is not a solution.
Be a person, be stupid, and perhaps, fate will be smoother.
Just like Fugui in "Alive", he lost all his family's fields because of good gambling, and after giving all his family property to Long Er, he dragged his family and led his mouth to live a hard life.
However, he did not think that his "loser" would let himself survive in the subsequent criticism and fighting.
Because of those fields, Ryuji said to Fugui before he died, "I died for you." ”
Yes, fate is uncertain, Fugui does not know that Dragon Two is out of a thousand, so he lost. But it was because he lost that he took back a life.
Isn't that a blessing?
Therefore, if you can't get past the hurdle, take a detour.
Perhaps, you can't always be unimpeded and brave enough to move forward. However, you can plan ahead and be prepared to retreat.
After all, in this world, no one will pity anyone, and the only thing that can redeem us is ourselves.
This is life.
Xiaoyuan's message: You can not be smart, but you can't pretend to be smart.
Because, smart things that are mistaken by smart things happen from time to time.
Each of us does not want to make ourselves lose, and always competes to be the first bird. But what is the end result?
It's not all.
Sometimes, making yourself look "stupid" is not a way to save yourself.
If you can, I hope you can be a really smart person, not to be happy with things and not to be sad with yourself.
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