Parent-Child Diary: Self-Reflection on Teaching Dragon Er to Learn English

difficulty

The humble Dragon Er is in the third grade this year, just learning English, and unexpectedly feels very difficult. The congenital short tongue string caused him to speak inaccurately, and he did surgery in time, and some of the tones still could not be pronounced, so in terms of speaking and pronunciation, I did not give him too high requirements, and I could understand it. The appeasement of shortcomings in this regard directly led him to learn a new language more slowly and more laboriously. Busy and idle, I used the natural phonics method and mind map method to classify and summarize the content they learned, record, do map explanation, share with the children in the same class, some children feel particularly practical, simple and easy to understand, Dragon Er uses these methods to read, memorize, remember, although the pronunciation is not accurate, but can also remember, but it is required to memorize, hand, eye, mouth and use, the school several rounds of dictation down, other children in the class have successively several can get full scores, but he still can not reach the back writing right, Even if he feels like he's almost taught at home, it's still wrong to dictate at school. I was really anxious and worried about being a mother.

Opportunity

Brushing the circle of friends accidentally brushed a friend sent a video to his first-grade children to do Hanyu Pinyin concentration training, that is, to find a quiet learning environment, set an alarm clock, 5 minutes or 10 minutes to practice writing speed, reading memory speed and so on. Self-reflection In fact, similar to the educational materials on concentration training, I bought a lot from around 2006 when I was a child, accumulated a lot, and theoretically know that human potential can be developed, and many abilities can be cultivated and improved through deliberate practice. There are also relevant specific training materials, and the little ape alarm clock for concentration training has also been bought earlier, but in fact, how much time do I personally tutor my children? Even if the learning method I give is simple and easy to understand. Each child's talent is different, Ryuji is originally dull in language, his personality is both with me and with his father, there is no strong concept of time, learning, and doing things is not efficient. Parents are the child's first teacher, the family is the first training ground for the growth of children, children are living in a relaxed atmosphere, how can we feel that our children are procrastinating, learning, and doing things inefficiently? In the final analysis, it is still my role as a parent, and I have not done it properly. Not enough time was set up to take the child to do special practice in English memorization.

change

As the saying goes, "pull a hair and move the whole body", if I want to make a child change, I must first squeeze out time to coach and train him to change. And my current work model does not allow or allow more time to specifically tutor him, and the child spends more time in a semi-free state. Not only is he like this, but so is the eldest son, who can obviously help the children, but because he is busy with work, he can't make time to tutor the children. change! We must have the courage to change, no matter how busy the work is, we must always be alert to ourselves, the child's education is the first, and it is overdue. Missed the golden period, let nature grow wildly, small trees grow crooked, and then want to straighten out, it is more difficult. So it's time for me to change my current working hours and work patterns for the sake of my children's learning. As the role of mother, for the sake of children, others can be partially discarded, and they should give up!!!

Wake up

1 Set aside more time for high-quality companionship, guide children 2 to teach according to their aptitudes, special training, especially pay attention to concentration and efficiency training. 3 actions! Let's go! Act again! Strive as hard as possible towards the unity of knowledge and action! 4 Recommendation: Fan Deng has heard a book explained in his reading, called "Deliberate Practice", which is worth reviewing repeatedly