Today's Reading Notes: I finally understand that every path has a reason why it has to trek like this, and I finally believe that every future that has to go up, there is also a direction that it has to choose that way. In the end, you must be the one who suffers to the end. Fortunately, the age is still young, and the time is not old. I am afraid that the cuckoo will chirp prematurely, so that the flowers will wither in response to the sound, and the Tsuen Hui will turn into buds. Time is not used, last year's Spring League has not faded, in the blink of an eye, the new year has come, everyone knows in their hearts, the New Year is a drama. After removing makeup, go your separate ways. In the mouths of a thousand people, there are a thousand versions of you, and you are still you. See the heavens and the earth, see the sentient beings, see yourself. You have to learn to walk in the crowd that understands you and keep your distance from people who don't. Material poverty can destroy your dignity in life. Spiritual poverty consumes your reincarnation for several lifetimes! There is no book to read in vain in life, and the words you have touched will slowly help you understand the world, quietly help you erase the superficiality and ignorance on your face, and create a more cultivated and virtuous appearance!
The biggest insight that Baumeister's "behavior recognition theory" gave me was that if I encountered something that I didn't want to do and had to do, I could try to use "low-level behavior recognition" to weaken the "correlation between behavior and social self." It turns out that the details not only determine success or failure, but also determine feelings. Never play with people who are better than you, your little routine people have already played, everyone can climb to a certain position, can make some achievements, can earn money is definitely not to eat dry rice, if you think he is stupid like a pig, it must be you wrong, in fact, you are a pig, people are playing pigs to eat tigers, always remember people who are taller than you to be friends, and people who are lower than you to do business, compared to your tall people stupidly pay, he is willing to make friends with you! You'll get more valuable things out of him. "Augmenting The Sage" is drunk and big, and the sun and moon in the pot are long. Everything is decided, and everything is busy. Thousands of miles to send a hair, courtesy light benevolence and righteousness. The world is as bright as a mirror, and the future is dark as paint. "Being human" does not refer to "people" itself but to things, that is, to "do things". "Being a man" refers to the root of the original, and it points to the human spirit, that is, to the understanding of thought. Pondering the heart, it should be a person who really needs to pay full attention. We are happy when we reap what we are asking for; we are happy when we have what we seek; we are happy and happy since we have given what others need. In this way, fish and bear paws can have both, but only if you and I have to have what others need. How? Only struggle! How to struggle wow? Self-reliance is "struggle", useful is "fighting"! The most difficult animal under the heavens to convince is man, which has nothing to do with whether he has an "independent thinking system" - almost nothing to do with the "defensive instinct" inherited from his ancestors,—— you know, one person's ideological understanding seems to be a "danger" to another person, and trying to persuade will be recognized as "aggression".
Childhood memories are always good. In fact, there are many people who have a difficult childhood life, but the memories that remain in their minds are always good. Why, probably childhood simple, without too much desire. And the older people get, the easier it is to remember badly. The reason is probably that the larger and more complex people are, the greater the desire, in order to avoid risks and satisfy desires, it is necessary to pay special attention to the occurrence of pain. Time is a terrible thing, and as it passes, there are always some truths that are forever covered up, and there are always some truths that are slowly revealed. Sometimes, inadvertently, some truth comes to you. Do nothing but always take chances, if people don't know, unless they don't do it. Some people describe hypocrisy, sleekness and unprincipledness as high emotional intelligence, which is actually the egoism of exquisite packaging and the high emotional intelligence of themselves, which is a very shameful thing!
A normal person, he always has to express his own ideas, follow his own will, find his own kind, things are clustered, people are divided into groups! And if a person, he goes along with everyone, pleases everyone, and agrees with everyone, what does he want? He certainly had some intentions, but he was nothing more than deceiving the world, stealing his name, and seeking profits. The end is not the beginning and end of things, but concentric circles, the end of the outer part is inside, and the thick accumulation can be thin. Heaven is the wisest, when you encounter distortions and misunderstandings, don't be sad, although rumors can deceive people's hearts, but they can't deceive heaven, the ancients cloud: there are gods three feet above your head. Therefore, the merits of right and wrong have to be testified by heaven. The wicked always want to spray others black, always act smart, and although they often succeed, he does not know that doing evil against his will and reversing black and white will eventually be punished. Therefore, good people should continue to be kind, but they must learn to be good at using their brains and grow their wisdom. Be honest and do yourself, and Heaven will protect you.
Jung, a famous Swiss psychologist, refers to the sum of the more stable psychological characteristics that a person has formed in life and corresponds to the more stable attitudes and behaviors of reality. A person's personality is manifested in typical activities, in specific situations, and determines a person's basic attitude and behavior of doing things. Jung divided personality into two types, introverted and extroverted.
Because of the different types of personalities, people have four functions: feeling, intuition, thinking, and emotion. Therefore, there are four types of functional classifications for introverted and extroverted personalities. Introverted personalities include introverted sensory, introverted intuition, introverted thinking and introverted affectiveness; extroverted personalities include extroverted sensory, extroverted intuitive, extroverted thinking and extroverted emotional. These personality types have their own characteristics and special functions, and play a vital role in personal growth and development.
What is the secret of metamorphosis? Psychologists have been saying, "If you have a flaw, you have to accept it, you can't get rid of it by abhorrence." So how do we root out the shortcomings? Preachy? No. Admonition? No. Releasing tension, fear, anxiety, and relaxation is the trick to transformation. When a person relaxes, he becomes natural and knows how he should act, because acting correctly requires knowing the truth, and knowing the truth is only perceived when there is no pressure.
