There will probably be more sons and daughters of the elderly, but among the parents of the younger generation, there should not be many sons over daughters. And there is a phenomenon that is spreading, that is, having a girl is becoming the expectation of many fathers, and the new parent group of "daughter slaves" is quietly expanding, even many stars are no exception.
For example, Wang Xiaofei, who has a son and a daughter, is one of the representatives of the preference for women over men. Although Wang Xiaofei is not a person in the entertainment industry, because of her marriage with the female star Big S, she is often a person who stays in the hot search of entertainment news. Celebrities have their own personalities, and I think Wang Xiaofei's personalities are "daughter slaves" and "pet girl crazy devils" are more appropriate.
Wang Xiaofei's personal social platform is almost all the dynamics of her daughter, and there are very few stars and a half of her son, and his thoughts and love for her daughter can be seen that it is absolutely not something that can be pretended.
In addition to Wang Xiaofei, there are many star fathers like Hu Jun, Huang Lei, Tian Liang, etc., giving people the feeling that "the daughter is the treasure held in the palm of the hand". There are many such fathers in life, and the expectations outside the delivery room have also changed significantly.
Before, the nurse in the delivery room came out holding the child and said, "Boy, the mother and child are safe!" "Such words will definitely cause the family to rejoice, now you watch the video on the Internet, the mother gave birth to the girl, the father was ecstatic, the action and face are with a confused smile, while the boy who gave birth to the boy is dejected."
Giving birth to a son is the heir of the family and the pillar of the family, why is it better to have a son now than to have a daughter?
Girls are more caring than boys and better to bring.
There are parents who take their children out to play, and mothers with sons look at those with daughters with envious eyes. The girl obediently followed her mother, dressed like a flower, and was eye-catching and worry-free.
Look at his own son, just before going out to wear a new dress, the war in the bunker, the rockery mounted Sun Wukong, a moment of kung fu became the "beggar gang helper", the mother is really angry and helpless.
Boys are lively and active, in fact, it is not their fault, it is determined by their own physiological characteristics. Therefore, taking a boy requires parents to spend more energy and physical strength, and it is useless to envy girls who are well-behaved and sensible.
Girls can be raised to be very good, which is the pride of mom and dad.
Why did anyone insist on having a son before? It is not because our women's social status and family status are relatively low. If a woman can only be a housewife, reach out to the man for money to spend, and give her parents a pension, she also has to rely on men. Marry out the daughter, spill out the water. If her daughter marries someone else's family, what should she do in her old age? Who will inherit their own business?
Now, of course, society is different, and the status of women is also different. Policemen, doctors, teachers, civil servants, self-employed, needless to say that usually these ordinary professions, women can do very well, even many rich families, choose their daughters as the heirs of their careers there are a lot of people.
Daughters can also earn money to support themselves, support their parents, and can have a successful career, contribute to society, and become the pride of their parents. Therefore, people's ideological concepts have also undergone great changes, and having a daughter is not worse than having a son.
The economic pressure of having a son is great, and from then on, we must start to save money.
Why is it not fragrant to have a son, and even some netizens joke that the parents of two sons now belong to the "inferior people" in society, but they can't look up. This has a lot to do with some of our social phenomena, such as the huge gap between men and women, and the difficulty of boys marrying daughters-in-law has become a problem for many parents.
From the birth of a son, most ordinary parents think of preparing a marriage house, a car, a valuable dowry, which is probably the result of an ordinary pair of parents, from youth to old age, and you need to make money desperately and save money. Isn't it stressful to think that it hasn't been possible to improve the quality of life for decades?
After giving birth to a son, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem.
The son is raised, the daughter-in-law is married, and the parents' task is completed. However, in the later decades of life, there is still a problem is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, if they do not need to take care of each other, it is better, if the daughter-in-law needs a mother-in-law with a child, or the mother-in-law needs a daughter-in-law to take care of, there will be many contradictions, and it is really a headache to think about.
Equality between men and women has never been a sentence that suppresses the preference for sons over daughters, and the idea of "preference for women over men" among parents cannot be pervaded in family education.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, parents should let their children feel that they are loved and concerned, so that their children can grow up healthily.