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In the previous feudal thought, the idea of son preference is very common, having a boy is something that the whole family looks forward to, but with the development of society, now the idea of son preference is not common, for young people, giving birth to boys and giving birth to girls is the same, some families even tend to have a daughter, but there are still some people who think traditionally, still maintain the idea of son preference.
Lolo has an older brother, and her parents' attitude towards her brother is different from her since she was a child, and what is delicious and fun in the family is that her brother plays first, and then it is her turn. Luo Luo knew that he did not have his brother at home who was liked by his parents, so he was very well-behaved and sensible, tried not to provoke his parents to be angry, and he was more angry than his brother in learning, and he had always achieved very good results.
Later Lolo was admitted to college, when he was in college, Lolo's tuition was also a loan to pay, living expenses for a month also gave a little, she herself saved money, did part-time work everywhere, and later graduated with excellent results, and went to a good unit, did a good job in her career, and bought a house with her own loan.
Just when Lolo's little life was just right, his father suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized, and he needed surgery, which all needed money, as a daughter, Lolo naturally took out a part of it and hospitalized her father, but then her mother's words made her very cold. Because his father's surgery was more expensive and the family's savings were almost spent, Lolo's mother said to let him sell the house and treat his father's illness.
At that time, Luo Luo was stunned, he worked hard to earn money to buy the house, did not spend a penny of the family, and now let himself sell the house, she could not accept it no matter what, but Luo Luo's mother had been persecuted, forcing the most cruel one to directly kneel down and beg her.
Looking at his mother, who is nearly 70 years old, Luo Luo finally broke down emotionally and yelled back at his mother, "You are not the only child of mine, why let me sell the house, my brother's house is not what you bought, you go to come back!" "
In fact, I think that this kind of eccentricity of parents is a manifestation of irresponsibility to children, whether it is a favored child or a child who is snubbed, this practice is very inappropriate, which is also the most likely phenomenon for families with many children in the family. Boys and girls alike should be treated equally.
If there are two or more children in the family, parents must pay attention when educating
Abandon the idea of son preference
This kind of thinking has many drawbacks to parenting now, and in today's society, this parenting concept has been gradually eliminated, but now having a daughter is what many families want. And the results now show that girls are no worse than boys, and that there are women in the top figures in politics and business. Women are, to some extent, even more competent than men.
Therefore, when parents educate their children, this idea of son preference must be abandoned, only in this way can children grow up more healthily and happily.
Give your children equal love
Every child is the heart of the parents, the mother is working hard to conceive in October, it is very hard, for the child, the parents should be impartial, do not treat every child badly.
Especially when the children are young, it is easy to have contradictions, especially in the family where there are many children, when there is a contradiction, parents do not indiscriminately criticize whom, figure out the situation and then decide. Treat children, parents should give them equal love and care, children grow up in such a family environment, for their future character development is also very good.
Children bear equal responsibilities
Whether it is a boy or a girl, the requirements for them are the same, including the same responsibility for the elderly to treat their parents after growing up, not that because they are girls, they have to bear some additional responsibilities, parents work hard to educate their children, and naturally pay the same responsibility to the family to their parents.
Of course, this is to be demanded on the basis of equal treatment of children by parents. If they do not treat their children as equals, they will certainly be reluctant when it is time to ask for them.
The attitude of parents towards their children must be flat and do not favor, otherwise it will not only affect the relationship between parents and children, but also affect the relationship between hands and siblings, so that after the parents are old, the snubbed party is naturally unwilling to assume the obligation of supporting parents, because they have never felt loved and raised from their parents.
Regardless of whether the gender is male or female, there is always a blood bond with the parents, and it is good for them to treat children fairly. Of course, raising children and making them happy is also the responsibility of every parent.