There is a lot of pressure in school, dare not tell mom and dad, what to do?
There are no students who play well, do not know how to make friends, and are very anxious during the winter vacation.
The New Year is coming, and I have to say goodbye to my relatives and listen to the deeds of 'other people's children'...
During the winter vacation, children are far away from school life, but it is inevitable that they will have emotional fluctuations in getting along with their parents day and night.
Adults will always say that they envy their lives, but they do not consider that children will actually have their own age troubles. "The 'generation gap' is not an excuse for communication, but a real gap caused by the differences in the birth age, growth conditions, and social atmosphere between parents and children. The psychological development of adolescents in adolescence is easily affected and hindered by the outside world, and after the generalization of time, one adolescent psychological problem after another will be formed. Relevant experts said.
A few days ago, Shanghai Pujianghui Community Public Welfare Development Center asked psychology experts to answer parents' doubts in the education process on the spot, and carried out a series of lectures on "Growing Up with You, Entering the Hearts of Children - Caring for the Mental Health of Adolescents", conducting positive explorations on 'how to establish a healthy concept of life, carry out correct family education, and create a harmonious and pleasant family atmosphere" to dispel the "small question mark" of children's winter vacation mental health.
At the lecture site, experts analyzed different real cases to guide parents on how to correctly communicate and guide adolescent children, so that parents could learn to see problems from their children's perspective and listen to their children's voices. Through on-site interaction, experts told parents to understand the psychological needs and physiological changes of adolescent children in order to help children smoothly pass through this special period.
Many parents said that the child's psychological changes are often closely related to the situation of physiological development, and they always felt that the growth and development of adolescence was a kind of "shameful" problem, and did not dare to discuss it with the child head-on. After expert guidance, they found that some traditional ideas no longer apply to the next generation. Sometimes "breaking the window paper", real and sincere communication is the key to guiding the healthy growth of children.
Reporter / Yan Jiajing
Editor / Shan Zhang
Source / Shanghai Pujianghui Community Charity Development Center
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