In 1990, my father-in-law was seriously ill, my mother-in-law eloped with someone, my husband was only 6 years old at the time, and less than 10 months after my mother-in-law left, my father-in-law died. Mother-in-law has not appeared in so many years, 3

In 1990, my father-in-law was seriously ill, my mother-in-law eloped with someone, my husband was only 6 years old at the time, and less than 10 months after my mother-in-law left, my father-in-law died. My mother-in-law has not appeared for so many years, 3 months ago, the village chief knocked on our door with a woman, and the village chief said that this is my mother-in-law. Can we recognize such a mother-in-law?

The husband did not recognize her, and the village chief could only arrange for her to live in the utility room of the village office compound temporarily. The village chief went to the door many times to do work, let my husband recognize his mother, said that now that people are old, it is normal to come back to find their son, do not look at anything else, look at her own blood affection, but also take care of her. When she gave my husband so much harm, should my husband recognize her and be responsible for giving her a pension to the end?

My husband is 36 and I'm 30. We've only been married for 6 years, and my husband said that if he hadn't met me, he might have been singleshot. The old man was very handsome and had the skill of carpentry, but because of his family situation, he was looked down upon, and it was not until we were married for 5 years that we built this three-story building.

I met my husband at the hospital, and at the time, I was working as a nurse and his hand hurt. Go to our hospital to treat the wound, because the wound is relatively deep, so I stay in the hospital for observation. That day happened to be my duty, in the middle of the night, I went to check the room, found that he was not right, his eyes were closed, his face was red, I probed his forehead with my hand, it turned out to be a fever, a try of body temperature are 39 degrees.

I contacted the doctor while helping him with physical cooling. Finally, it was found that he had pneumonia and needed to be hospitalized. I asked him to inform his family, and he said he had no family. I still remember the sadness and loneliness when he said that.

It turned out that at that time, it was almost the New Year, the construction period was particularly tight, he worked continuously for more than ten days, slept less than 5 hours a day, and suddenly exhausted his body. The next day was The New Year, my mother brought me two large boxes of dumplings from home, and I couldn't finish eating alone, so I sent him a box.

He ate the big box, and after eating it, he said, it was the best food he had ever eaten in his life, in his memory, he had never eaten the dumplings wrapped at home, I felt that he was particularly distressing, since then, we have gotten closer and closer, he told me about his life, about his growth process.

After he was discharged from the hospital, he brought a large bouquet of roses to the hospital to see me. I became his girlfriend. My father died early, and my mother didn't interfere too much with my dealings, she said, as long as people are good enough, it's okay. My husband is particularly kind, he said that he has felt that it is not easy for people to live since he was a child, so he never hurts others easily.

He especially spoiled me, before he met me, he participated in some volunteer public welfare activities, donated most of the money he earned, he said that before he did not want to get married, did not want to find a partner, afraid of meeting a woman who was not kind like his mother. He said he wanted to be a wandering layman when he was old, but when he met me, he suddenly changed his plans.

My husband did not wake up crying in his dreams until the first two years after he got married, and when I woke him up, he was already in tears, and he always dreamed in his dreams of the situation when his mother left.

He said that every time he had a dream like that, his heart felt broken, and in the dream, he only saw the smoke, the background of his mother, and he couldn't catch up with it, he searched in the thick fog, crying.

Every time he had such a dream, I would cry with him for a while. It wasn't until our son was born that this dream of his was never repeated. He broke free from the painful knot in his heart.

Now, our little family is very happy, we build a small building next door to his uncle's house, and usually treat his uncle and aunt as if they were biological parents.

The husband said that after the death of his father, his uncle and aunt took him in, although he did not feel much love throughout the whole process of growing up, but he still had endless gratitude to his uncle and aunt in his heart, after all, they did not abuse him, gave him a mouthful of food, and dressed him.

Both of my uncle's sons are working in the field, and my husband says that he will raise his uncle and aunt in the future. I also agree, thanking them for treating my lover so well. Now that the mother-in-law is back, we all feel particularly surprised.

My uncle said that when my father-in-law had just died, he had asked someone to find her mother-in-law and bring her a message, saying that the child's father was gone, and hoped that as a mother, she could take the child to her side. However, his mother-in-law's reply to him was: "If you can support you, you can support it, I will not give birth to that son, and I will not need him to retire in the future." "People who can say such things, how can they still have the face to come back now?"

Listening to the village chief, the man with the mother-in-law had a wife at that time, and over the years outside, the man and the mother-in-law made a lot of money together, but the man's son got married, and the man took all the money they earned together to his own son, and the man felt that he was old, so he returned to the family, leaving the mother-in-law's health not very good, and there was no money, so he had to come back to find his son.

Now that the mother-in-law has been living in the village for three months, the village chief came to look for her again yesterday and said that it is impossible for the village to always raise her mother-in-law like this, and let my husband take his mother back as soon as possible. However, my husband still can't accept it psychologically, what to do?

What should we do, reasonable and legal?

The author replied: You and your husband are very good people, and excellent people also have problems that cannot be solved, and this kind of thing, on whom, is difficult to pass.

So, show understanding for your husband's desperation. It is recommended that you can not recognize her, do not pick her up to live back, give her a little basic living expenses every month, now there are many idle houses in the countryside, just rent one for her to live, and you can't use a few dollars.

When she is old, send her to a nursing home! Maybe my advice is a bit desperate, but what good treatment does this kind of ruthless and unrighteous woman who can abandon her husband and son be treated?