Confessions of a married man. Here's what a male friend said. In the years before marriage and just after marriage, the relationship between husband and wife was really very good, very intimate, communicating everything and asking all kinds of questions

Confessions of a married man. Here's what a male friend said. Before marriage and in the first few years of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is really very good, very intimate, everything is communicated, all kinds of problems can be eliminated in the bud, and it feels particularly happy. Later gave birth to a son, the wife's main energy is on the child, every day tired to die, the man's home is also to help do housework to take care of the child, every day is very tired, the two people have almost no communication, not do not want to communicate, there is no energy to communicate. I don't want to be intimate anymore, because I'm so tired. Later, when she gave birth to a daughter, her wife was even more tired, and she had to go to the hospital every day without finishing the housework, washing clothes, and going to the hospital once every three to five. Couples communicate less and have little intimacy. But since having a daughter, men have changed, especially active to go home, and are more willing to take care of their daughters, especially concerned about their daughter's changes. In his own words, his wife was his only baby, and now his daughter is his only baby, and as for his son, it was an accident. His wife complained about him, and he didn't care, only his daughter was the most important person in his heart. I also feel the same way, is this not the case with men?