The occurrence of love is sometimes a long-term love, sometimes it is love at first sight, as if it is a predestined thing in the dark, just need to see each other, just a glance at ten thousand years.
For men, in this life, they will definitely meet a girl who can make themselves excited, as long as this girl appears, the world has lost its color, but she is colored.
It's just that before this girl appeared, all the passers-by around her became generals, and it was obvious whether to love or not to love, and it was also obvious to pry or not to pry.
For women, being loved is a very happy thing, being pampered is just a dream, maybe we are serious, but the other party withdraws and leaves, leaving us in the same place sad.
So, we must find a man who loves himself to spend his life with.
Psychological research has shown that in a man's heart, the difference between loving a person and pampering a person is obvious.
Touching you, I never wanted to go to the end with you
The woman went out bungee again, and told her boyfriend to go with a few boys who had a good time and did not come back at night, and the boyfriend did not say anything, only replied "Good, baby have fun".
Friends can't help but ask boys, their girlfriend and the opposite sex go out to play, and do not return all night, as a boyfriend, is not jealous at all, do not care at all?
The boy is very indifferent, saying that he will not marry her anyway, why bother?
Some women feel that no matter what they do, their boyfriends don't care about themselves, they are very free, such a boyfriend is really good, do not know, the other party does not love themselves at all, but just pamper themselves.
Flirting, in fact, is just to see the color of the intention, such feelings are short-lived, may just want to try to be fresh, so the other party is good or bad for their own is not much difference.
The feelings that may be possessed by a person will also be copied and pasted on others, such feelings are not as unique and certain as love, how can they go to the future?
Loving you will reason with you and let you know right and wrong
Will men love you to reason with you? yes.
In real life, if a man reasons with you when he's in a relationship with you, then congratulations.
Because this man is most likely that he wants to communicate with you and run into you, this kind of action is a move that he will do after he has thought about what it is like for you two to live a lifetime.
We all know that reasoning is actually a very time-consuming and laborious thing, and it is possible that we have said a lot of bitter words, and the other party cannot listen to it.
However, we also know that if you want to go down with a person, you need to be reasonable, because the process of reasoning is also running into each other, telling each other to know right and wrong, distinguishing between right and wrong, so as to avoid those unnecessary unhappy factors.
Cai Minmin in the TV series "The Next Stop is Happiness" likes He Canyang, and He Canyang also likes cai Minmin, who has a cute personality, but after the two people are together, He Canyang does not disclose the relationship between the two people.
For this reason, Cai Minmin was also angry, thinking that He Canyang did not take him seriously, but He Canyang did not think so.
He reasoned to Cai Minmin, saying that the two people are teacher-student relationships, although there is nothing wrong with falling in love like this in college, but sometimes the world does not think so.
If it is made public, He Canyang will not have anything as a man, but it must be Cai Minmin who is pointed out at the center of public opinion, in case two people can't withstand the pressure of the world and go their separate ways?
Therefore, it is for these reasons that it is not that He Canyang does not care about Cai Minmin.
Reasoning is the process of running-in, and only those who want to stay together are willing to spend time running in.
Whether men love you or pet you, it's actually obvious
If we pay close attention, we will actually find that the love that can go on forever must not be particularly vigorous in the beginning.
Love is like cooking, the fire is very large at the beginning, then the dish will be paste, only by starting from the small fire and slowly heating up, can you make a plate of colorful and fragrant meals.
As Marx said: "It seems to me that true love is manifested in the implicit, modest, and even shy attitude of the lover towards his idol, and by no means in the casual expression of enthusiasm and premature intimacy." ”
So, how can you love someone and expose your desires at the very beginning, and how can you turn a blind eye to some factors that may lead to mutual unhappiness?
If you don't love one person, you will have no scruples, and if you fail, you will change to another person.
It's just that if men love us, then we are lucky, and if men don't love us, we think that this is a long time, that is not lucky.
We can't put our hearts on a man who only knows how to seduce us.
So, whether men love you or pry you, in fact, it is obvious that what we need to do is to maintain sanity, do not lose reason because of a sweet word from a man.