A mother said: "I was most afraid of seeing bad news related to the cubs, until once I saw someone in the mother group who said that the cubs had red dots on their bodies when they came back from school, and they didn't understand the reason when they communicated with the teacher, so they had the idea of putting a recorder, and I didn't expect to be discovered by the teacher on the same day." He Jiong: "Children spend most of their time with teachers, and you still have to trust teachers." ”
Xie Na shook her head in disapproval and said, "No, no, no, parents will not think so, in fact, if parents have questions about this, they can go to that school together." ”
The reason why He Jiong and Xie Na's views are different is because one of them has children and the other has no children.
He Jiong has no children, and he has not experienced the anxiety and worry of parents after the child encounters things at school, so he can easily say that he trusts the teacher.
Xie Na has children, has experienced a lot of things related to children, so she understands very well what the psychology of those parents thinks, most parents find that their children have injuries after returning from school, the first suspicion is the teacher, when the child is okay, they trust the teacher, but when the child has a problem, they will not trust the teacher.
However, no matter what happens to the child in the school, the most correct way is to communicate directly with the school, if the teacher is not aware, find the principal, check the monitoring and ask the classmates around the child, let the teacher observe the child's situation at school, and the parents themselves observe the child's situation at home, and always find the crux of the problem.
Rushing to put a voice recorder on a child will only increase the contradiction between teachers and parents. #八卦手册 #
