With love, waiting for the flowers to blossom Dear friends, how long have you not sat down with your children to communicate well? Do you know what your child is thinking right now? You know the children

Be with love and wait for the flowers to blossom

Dear fellows, how long have you not sat down with your children to communicate well? Do you know what your child is thinking right now? Do you know when a child's rebellious period occurs?

In the past year, I have experienced the journey of my children through adolescence, which has made me deeply understand a truth "accompanied by love, waiting for flowers to blossom" My son is a senior in high school this year, he grew up with his grandmother, he has been very well-behaved, very obedient, and his grades are also excellent, and he is also the kind of "other people's children" that people say, I have always been proud of my son. Because my grandmother has always told me to treat children, we must: accompany with love and wait for the flowers to bloom.

In the last semester of the third year of junior high school, the school was re-divided, my son entered the fast class, but in the face of so many excellent children, as well as strange teachers, heavy homework, my son suddenly could not accept it, the Chinese teacher called me and told me that the child failed today's silent writing, the penultimate first; the math teacher told me that last night's homework error was extremely high, the handwriting was not correct; the English teacher said that the child was actually asleep in today's exam. I almost broke down in despair, and I asked my son, "Can you take a little more time to endorse it?" Can you take your homework seriously? Can you concentrate on listening to the exams in class and don't sleep? "Mom, there is too much homework, I don't have time to endorse, I am also very serious about doing homework" At that time, I was really helpless, crying alone, so can I still go to high school? In the extreme panic and uneasiness, the child is still going his own way, there is no other change, one day the child asked me for a mobile phone "Mom, the mobile phone for me to use", "what do you want to use ah" I asked, "I want to play a game." I was furious when I heard it, and a slap "snapped" on his face. My son was crying: I just want to play a 20-minute game to relax, why is it forcing me to study all day long. Looking at the child's crying face, I also cried inside, but because of this incident, our parent-child relationship reached an impasse.

One day, I visited an old friend's house. Seeing that there was a tree in the courtyard of my old friend's house, which was not too lush, and it was as thick as an arm, he told me that this tree had grown for 30 years. I was amazed and asked what the tree was, and he replied that it was rosewood. As the saying goes, ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people. In other words, it takes about 10 years for trees to grow into wood. But 10 years can become a big tree, such as poplars, willow trees, paulownia and the like, and the tree that can really become the material of the beam, growing for more than ten years! Trees are like this, let alone tree people? At this time, let me realize a truth, treat the child, we can not pull up the seedlings to promote, we need to "accompany with love, wait for the flowers to bloom" So, I told the child that I started to beat him is not right, at the same time gently and firmly communicated the importance of the body and mentality before the middle school entrance examination, the next learning life is back to the normal track, I have been with my belief "accompanied by love, waiting for the flowers to blossom" to accompany him through the last few months, and finally successfully admitted to the city focus - Shanghai Gezhi Middle School.

Children are like flowers in the process of growing up. Some flower seeds bloom brilliantly at the beginning; some flower seeds need a long wait. Don't be inferior and discouraged by the fact that others are angry and your own children are slow to open. Education is not a race, and neither is life. Let us "accompany with love and wait for the flowers to blossom", I believe that one day, another seed will grow into a towering tree, and the world will be prosperous like the sea!