In the girl's eyes, dad is her childhood dependency, the standard for future marriage; in the boy's eyes, dad is his childhood role model, the man he wants to be when he grows up. Therefore, the father's personality, the father's standard of behavior, and the father's company are very important for the child's growth.
The child is the shadow of the father,
Hope that every father who reads the complete text,
Can be a good father.
I hope the mom who reads this article will share it with her significant other.
NO. 1
Dad is the best teacher for a child
How high the quality of the father is, how high the child can fly
Use rational fatherly love to help children grow up healthily
Improving their own quality is the key to educating children
Correct "navigation" is Dad's first responsibility
Let children learn to take responsibility for their own lives
Behind every problem child, there is a problem dad
Dads should also learn from their children
Don't forget to cultivate your child's sense of soliness
Plant an "ideal" seed for your child
NO. 2
99% of a child's success comes from a 1% change from dad
Changing children starts with changing dads
There are no children who can't teach well, only dads who can't teach
"Weak" dads teach "strong" kids
Pay attention to cultivating children's hobbies and strengths
Put the cloak of praise on the critic
Don't use test scores as a criterion for evaluating your child
Be a "confused" dad
Dads should learn to save face for their children
Maybe you will say, I understand all these truths, but I am busy, very busy, working day and night. But I want to say: even a busy father can be a good father!
A good father will not only passively influence the child, but also learn to actively influence the child.
More time to accompany children, less time to socialize; more patience to teach children, less angry; more to understand the child's heart, less guessing and emphasizing their own ideas; more reflection on their every move, less talk about other people's children.
As long as the father is willing to put in 1% more effort and change, the child can achieve 99% success! For the sake of the children, let's cheer together!
NO. 3
"Tutoring Psychology" that Dad Must Understand
A positive mindset is the only way to have a good future
Optimism, let the child's future be full of sunshine
Be independent and let the child choose their own life.
Be confident and find a pointer for your child's life
Resolve jealousy and do chemotherapy for the child's psychological tumor
Confidence comes from Dad's trust
Defeat selfishness and correct the "solipsism" consciousness for your children
NO. 4
Dads must give their children 10 qualities
Gratitude is also a kind of cultivation
Tolerance, teaching children to learn "psychological transposition"
Optimism opens the door to a bright future for children
Confident, build the golden triangle of children's motivation
Integrity, the passport of a child's life
Industrious, cultivate children's industrious "bee" spirit
Etiquette, the "business card" of children's socialization
Responsibility, implanting a sense of responsibility into the garden of a child's heart
Be strong, let the young shoulders not be afraid of difficulties
Assertiveness makes the space for growth more free
NO. 5
Be your child's "financial advisor"
Teach children to consume rationally
Don't let your child look at the "money"
The study of giving your child pocket money
NO. 6
Good habits determine a child's big future
Cultivate a child's spirit of cooperation
Time is like gold, and there is a trick to the timing
Cultivate children's love of labor
Develop good lifestyle habits
Save and make life richer
Cultivate children's habit of loving learning
Good hygiene, good body
Cultivate good thinking habits in children
Cultivate good habits of civility and courtesy
NO. 7
11 "Don'ts"
Don't let fatherly love lose its rationality
Don't let your child always revolve around your "thoughts."
Don't always limit your child with dad's authority
Don't judge your child by your own "standards"
Don't impose your own interests on your child
Don't "pay" for your child's mistakes
Don't measure your child with a "score."
Don't keep stressing your child's "weaknesses"
Don't plan your child's life and let him develop it on his own
Don't be tough with rebellious children, focus on guidance
Don't encourage your child's vanity
NO.8
6 details of dad educating kids
Love is more important than money
Punctuality is about keeping your foundation of integrity
Don't let your child be confined to their own world
Turn setbacks into opportunities for children to grow
No matter how rich you are, you must "suffer" your children
Don't be pitiful, take responsibility for yourself
NO.9
Make your child fall in love with learning
Don't be a "high-pressure" dad
Find captive children's interest in learning
Don't "label" your child
Adopt "shepherd-style" education in a timely manner
Set up "traps" to stimulate children's curiosity
Turn disadvantages into advantages: the ground is low into the sea, and the people are low into kings
NO.10
Six lessons that change a child's life
Teaching by example: Qualified dads, leading by example, the beginning of excellent children
Communication Lessons: Communicate better and better understand
Responsibility lesson: Dad is water, children are the rudder of progress
Criticism Lesson: Guide your child into the right course
Praise Lesson: Don't skimp on words of praise
Love Lesson: Shape your child's healthy personality
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