Author: Bookworm
A few days ago, when visiting Douyin, I was poked by a video!
In the video, a 21-year-old college student in Jining, Shandong Province, won a scholarship of 6,000 yuan. When I went home for the Spring Festival, I bought a gift for my family.
He also deliberately spent more than 1,000 yuan to buy a pair of gold stud earrings for his stepmother.
When he delivered the stud earrings to his stepmother, the stepmother laughed and said, "It looks good," and she couldn't help but laugh and cry like a child.
Since marrying the child's father in 2003, she has had a son who is only three years old.
Although the child is not biological, she is like her mother, putting him in her heart and caring.
And this dedication, waiting for the return of love:
"He was usually very frugal, he was reluctant to buy clothes, and when the scholarship came down, he immediately thought of buying me a gift."
From the age of 3 to the age of 21 this year, 18 years, although he did not give birth to him, but all these mother and child should have emotions, we all have.
He is not very good at saying sensational words, but he interprets everything with actions.
I really didn't expect this child to be so sensible, I was moved to cry, so happy, 18 years of all the efforts are worth it..."
The child is so filial and grateful, which shows that his family education is not bad! For parents, the happiest thing is their children, who have a filial and grateful heart.
Children who know how to be grateful
It is the best education for parents
Gratitude is to make them know how to respect others and be grateful for the giving of others. Educating children to be grateful starts from their parents and starts from the small things around them.
Raising a grateful child is the best education for a family!
Remember, Ran Guanghui, who was once all over the Internet? Chongqing "lollipop" Ran Guanghui was naked, holding the goods in one hand and the child in the other.
Five years ago, Ran Guanghui bought a 60-square-meter house in the center of Chongqing, and the whole family no longer had to squeeze into a 20-square-meter rental house.
Last year, Ran Guanghui's son was 14 years old, and at a young age, he knew how to see his father's hardships in his eyes, and every day after school, he made a table of meals for his parents who worked hard outside.
He handed his dad a handwritten letter and a video he had recorded himself.
In the video, the son says to his father:
"Life is not so difficult, you don't need to work so hard, I can share everything with you, but you don't have to be alone to bear the pressure, I can be with you." 」
Dad, I am very grateful to you for raising me with the money you brought with you, and now I would like to say to you, Dad, I love you. ”
The father accepted his son's gift and felt tears fall.
The greatest happiness of parents is to raise a child who knows how to be grateful, and all the hard work will be worth it.
Children who don't know how to be grateful
No matter how good it is, it is useless
Remember international student Wang Jiajing?
After studying for many years, when he returned to China, in the face of his mother who came to pick her up, he did not hug her with gratitude, but took out the two sharp knives he carried and stabbed his mother nine times.
After five years of studying in Japan, this 24-year-old boy relies on his mother's monthly income of 7,000 yuan to pay for living expenses and tuition fees.
The annual tuition fee and daily expenses are as high as 400,000 yuan, and friends are often called to go to some high-end areas to spend, and each consumption is more than 10,000 yuan.
When his mother could no longer provide high living expenses, he actually stabbed his mother with a knife at the airport to vent his dissatisfaction.
He said lightly: "I just think my mother is lying to me, not without money." I was so angry that I burst out..."
Children who do not know how to be grateful, even if their parents pay more, feel that it is the norm in his heart. When this normalcy is broken, the resentment in his heart will erode him.
Children who don't know how to be grateful, no matter how good they are, they are useless!
Teach children to be grateful
It is a compulsory course for parents
As the old saying goes: "The crow has the righteousness of feeding back, and the sheep know the grace of kneeling milk." ”
Animals have such a grateful heart, but what about people? Teaching children gratitude is a compulsory course for parents.
Children who know how to be grateful can understand the pain of their parents and will be more rational in the face of things.
In daily life, when educating children, we must let children suffer the hardships of life and experience the difficulties of parents. In this way, children can learn to be grateful and know how to endure hardships!
Take Ding Zhen, for example, Ding Zhen has a small white horse called Pearl, which is his favorite horse.
Not long ago, in "Ding Zhen's World", Ding Zhen told its origin.
Pearls were originally from someone else's house, because he liked it very much, and when his father found out, he exchanged one of his best black horses for Ding Zhen.
Ding Zhen did not live up to his father's favor for him.
When Ding Zhen was admitted as a civil servant because of his popularity, after being paid the first month's salary, he did not buy items for himself first, but bought a battery car for his father, making it more convenient for his father to go out; he bought a washing machine for his mother, afraid that his mother would freeze her hands when washing clothes.
Bi Shumin once said:
"Parents of the world, if you love your children, you must let him start to love you and the people around you when you can." This is not the selfishness of adults, but the vision of thinking about the child's life. ”
Parents with foresight know how to have far-sighted foresight on the road of their children's lives!
For children, experiencing hardship and knowing gratitude is the most important education!