Often invite her to dinner, buy gifts, as long as it is what he wants, you will find a way to give him, this is a true portrayal of many brothers chasing girls, there may be some brothers who do more than these, but every time you confess to her, she is saying that we are not suitable, you are a good person to reject you.
What's more, you are crazy to be nice to a woman, but he is crazy on his knees licking another man, and the mood is simply terrible.
You must not understand why you are so good to the girl, or can not get her heart, and the scumbag always hurt him, he still has no hesitation to take the initiative to send the door. Don't be sad anymore, I'll tell you why. The first point is that you are too good for him. Isn't it right to do anything good to him? Don't girls all say to find a man who is good to her? Haha, brother, you are also too naïve, you can only believe 30% of what girls say, if it is so easy to find a girlfriend for girls, then there is no bachelor in the world.
Girls say that they are good to him, and most of this mate selection criterion is just their words. There is also a premise for being good to him, that is, the man he likes is good to her, which is the perfect love that girls expect. He doesn't like you, and the better you are to him, the more he looks down on you and ends up with only one good guy card.
The second point is to say to the girl that when the girl needs you, you are on call, when the girl does not need you, many times even your message is too lazy to reply, no matter how considerate you are to her, she is lukewarm to you, but you think that you are not good enough, this is not clear the reason, the direction of pursuit is wrong. Instead of trying to chase girls, it is better to improve their own value, show their high value, let girls be attracted to you, when your high value. When you are higher than the boys around him, you are naturally his preferred boyfriend.
The third point is that emotional intelligence is too low. The manifestation of too low emotional intelligence is to obey what the girl says, but never understand what is behind what he says. For example, if you and him eat and walk in the evening, she says that she does not want to go home, the correct way to do this time is to take your home or Confucianism, and you who have low emotional intelligence comfort him or go home, or where to go if you don't go home, etc. Who is not single if you are not single?
The fourth point is that it is too honest, honest men are not loved, sometimes you ask the girl out, the two people chat well, so you desperately perform, the chat is also very serious, everything you do is not very regular, never Yue Chi. The girls in the back ignore you, which is because you are too honest, too peaceful, and do not know how to upgrade the relationship with girls in dating. Why bad boys are liked by girls, is that bad boys dare to offend him, to hold her hand, to put their arms around her waist, these are all things that girls expect boys to do like him. So too honest men, doomed to be single. When we enter an intimate relationship, we can't just think about what we want, but more about seeing what the other person wants.
There was once a saying on the Internet that said it very well, I wanted apples, but you gave me a cart of pears, you did not move me, you just moved yourself. Touching a person is not the true meaning of love, only if you give the other party what he really wants, it is considered to be paid for the other party, and the other party will really remember your good.
Therefore, it is far from enough to simply be good to women, and the most important thing to maintain a relationship is to operate it, which requires us to judge the situation with our minds and means, and take some measures and means according to local conditions. This love is the same, because there may be eternal diamonds in this world, but there is no immutable love.
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