When it comes to left-behind children, everyone knows that parents have to leave their children in their hometown to be cared for by their grandparents in order to go out to work for their lives, and these children whose parents are not around are called left-behind children.
When jet Li's daughter is mentioned, people think of two daughters he and his wife Li Zhi, one named Jane and the other named Jada.
In fact, he and his ex-wife Huang Qiuyan also have two daughters, the eldest daughter Li Si and the younger daughter Li Timmy.
But if it is said that Jet Li's eldest daughter Li Si is a left-behind child, the average person feels incredible, in fact, when li Si and his sister Li Timmy lived with their grandmother when they were young, they were veritable left-behind children.
It is strange that Jet Li, as an international kung fu superstar, Li Si's mother, Huang Qiuyan, was also a well-known martial arts actor.
Li Si, who was born in such family conditions, should have had excellent living conditions, and in the future, she will become a celebrity like other rich people, why are she and her sister left-behind children?
In 1963, Li Lianming was born in an ordinary worker family in Beijing, when he was two years old, his father died of illness, and his mother Zhang Fenglan had to pull 5 children and support two elderly people in the family.
When he was a child, Jet Li liked martial arts, had good physical fitness, and achieved excellent sports results in school, and at the age of 8, he was favored by wubin, a martial arts coach, and let him join the Beijing Shichahai Martial Arts School.
Seeing the hardships of his mother at home, Jet Li trained extra hard in the martial arts school, won many awards and won championships in martial arts performances and competitions in several years, and also won the "Outstanding Performance Award" of the National Wushu Competition.
But he is not proud of his good results, on the contrary, he works harder to improve himself, so that he will get more game prizes, not because of greed, but because his family is too poor, and a large family is still waiting for him to take money home for dinner.
In 1981, director Zhang Xinyan planned to shoot the kung fu film "Shaolin Temple", in the role of the protagonist JueYuan, there has been no suitable candidate, and finally saw the national five-time martial arts champion Jet Li whether the appearance or skill is very suitable, he let him star.
In 1982, the movie "Shaolin Temple" was officially released, 1 cent a movie ticket, the box office reached more than 100 million, the movie was popular in the north and south, Jet Li became a household kung fu star, is the male god and idol in the hearts of young boys and girls, it is said that at that time, his family received a few sacks of courtship letters.
However, when filming this movie, the wonderful fight scenes are real, unlike the current star who relies on special effects and stand-ins, when he was injured in the filming, there has always been a girl who takes good care of him, and this girl is his sister Huang Qiuyan.
Huang Qiuyan of the Girls' Generation also came out of the Tingting Yu lishui Ling Qingxiu, the stills at that time did not have a beautiful face, you can still see that Huang Qiuyan is beautiful and generous.
When he was studying at the martial arts school, Huang Qiuyan saw that Jet Li was often hungry, so she often took him back to her home for dinner.
Her parents scolded her for not bringing male classmates to her home, and she told her parents: "It is too difficult for the little master and brother to come home, and it is not easy for his mother to pull five children alone. ”
In this way, the hazy feelings unfolded between the two people, jet Li, a kung fu boy, plunged into the gentle township where his sister cared for him, but he always regarded this feeling as the feeling of sister and brother affection.
Jet Li, who was popular through acting in "Shaolin Temple", wanted to break up with Huang Qiuyan, and was afraid that the outside world would scold him for being ungrateful, and then starred in the movie "Shaolin Boy", he took great pains to introduce his sister to play the heroine.
One is to make up for the debt to the sister, and the other is to tell the sister at the right time that the affection between the two people is not love.
But the master sister loved him to the depths of the soul, saw Jet Li's response to himself, and thought that the master and brother also loved themselves in their hearts, and their kindness to him was even deeper.
When the two people were filming "North and South Shaolin", Jet Li's leg was broken, and Huang Qiuyan was heartbroken, serving him like a wife in the hospital, which completely touched Jet Li and decided to turn family affection into love and marry her.
In June 1987, Jet Li took Huang Qiuyan to get a marriage license, at that time, although the two people were starring in the movie, but there was no high salary, plus Jet Li's family conditions were too poor at that time, the two people did not have wine when they got married, nor did they have a wedding, and the new house was a small room of more than ten square meters in the home.
In 1988, Jet Li decided to go to the United States to develop, and Huang Qiuyan resigned from the invitations of the two crews of "Thirteen Sisters of the Heroine" and "Journey to the West" at that time, and followed him to the United States with a big belly.
After coming to the United States, the two people first took out a loan to buy a house in Los Angeles and settled down, when Jet Li wanted to open a martial arts center, because the cost of all aspects was too high, the eldest daughter Li Si was born this year, and could only give up.
In 1989, Jet Li was invited by the Hong Kong director to come to Hong Kong to shoot the movie "The Dragon at the End of the World", because life in the United States is more difficult, Huang Qiuyan encouraged Jet Li to go to Hong Kong to shoot movies, at this time Li Si was just one year old, and his sister was still in his mother's belly.
What Huang Qiuyan did not expect was that Jet Li directly brought the marriage of the two people to an end because of the filming of "The Dragon at the End of the World".
The other two leading actors who starred in the movie "Dragon in the End of the World" with Jet Li were Stephen Chow and Li Zhi. The first sight of Li Zhi made Jet Li stunned, and Li Zhi was really beautiful and stunning.
Born in Shanghai in 1961, Li Zhi's parents are opera composers, and when he was three years old, his parents divorced due to emotional discord, and when he was a child, Li Zhi was a beautiful billet.
After the divorce, her father has been missing, Li Zhi is raised by her grandmother, and when she was 20 years old, her father came home and brought her to Hong Kong.
At this time, The wisdom of the people, the phoenix eyes of the fallen eyebrows, a cherry mouth with a white skin like milk goose egg face, with the proud devil three circumference, is a special thing in the eyes of thousands of men,
At that time, Li Zhi wanted to develop into the entertainment industry, but because she was a foreigner, her sweet and crisp girlish voice was particularly easy to distinguish in the low and rustling tone of those Hong Kong women, and was rejected and discriminated against by many Hong Kong female artists.
Lee Felt That Looking for Development Alone would not last long, and then went to the United States to study for a few years. In 1986, she returned to Hong Kong and participated in the Miss Asia audition and won the championship.
At that time, the media said that Li Zhi was the most rare beauty in half a century, and the talented Son Ni Kuang described it this way: "If Li Zhi can't choose Ya Jie, there must be ghosts in it, and I will set fire to the TV station..."
In 1991, at a charity party, the "gambling king" paid 300,000 yuan to invite Li Zhi to dance, because this time he danced with the "gambling king", and the scandal between the two people was reported by the media.
There are rumors that Li Zhi will become the "fifth aunt", and then the second wife and the fourth wife jointly issued a hunting order for Li Zhi, or the gambling king interceded to let Li Zhi go, but these rumors Li Zhi never admitted.
And Li Zhi and Jet Li filmed in Hong Kong, the two people are foreigners, sympathetic to each other, her empathy and charming charm let Jet Li swear in public:
"I used to think that I loved my wife, but since I met Li Zhi, I love her, and I can die for her without fame or profit..."
In 1990, Huang Qiuyan gave birth to her second daughter Li Momi, at this time she knew that Jet Li and Li Zhi were in love, which made her sad and bitter and angry, and Jet Li also quarreled, wanting him to take on the responsibility of the family, but it was impossible to save his heart, and the two went through divorce procedures this year.
In 1991, Huang Qiuyan held her 1-year-old daughter and led 3-year-old Li Si back to Beijing, this time to go through divorce procedures with Jet Li, the two children were awarded to their father, and the house in Los Angeles was given to Huang Qiuyan.
On the day of leaving Beijing, Huang Qiuyan and her mother-in-law Zhang Fenglan hugged and cried, originally the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been very good, that is, after the divorce, Huang Qiuyan still kept calling her mother to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law could not stop her son's determination to divorce.
3-year-old Li Si still does not understand some things between adults, that is, when her parents leave home, she holds her father's leg and cries and shouts for her father not to go, but at this time Jet Li still has a lot of scenes to shoot, a lot of things to do...
After their parents left, Li Si and her sister lived with their grandmother, and under the careful care of their grandmother, they quickly walked out of the sadness of parting.
When she thinks about her parents, her grandmother will comfort her, and when her parents are finished, she will come back to accompany her, and the innocent child has been expecting and imagining that her mother will come back from Los Angeles to see her, and then take her and her sister back to her home over there.
In fact, Huang Qiuyan, who returned to Los Angeles, because she was pregnant and had children in the past few years after marriage, she has not been able to shoot dramas, has no other skills, does not understand the language barrier abroad, and is not easy to find a job, the house bought is a loan, there is no source of income to pay the mortgage, and the house is also taken back by the bank.
Seeing that she was about to live on the street, an old Chinese woman learned about Huang Qiuyan's experience and expressed deep sympathy for her and let her move to the basement of her home.
In the dark basement, Huang Qiuyan, who was still immersed in pain, either shed tears or ran to the church to pray every day, but often hungry was not the way, and finally she could only find a Chinese restaurant to wash dishes to make a difficult living.
Jet Li here is also busy with the axis, after the divorce with Li Zhi set a 10-year romantic contract: after ten years you did not marry, I did not marry, we will get married.
At that time, Jet Li also established the "Zhengdong Film Company" for his career, shooting movies such as "Zhongnanhai Bodyguard" and "Fang Shiyu".
But at that time, some movies were not prominent at the box office, and the company's operations often did not make ends meet, and Li Zhi gave him a lot of motivation and support behind the scenes, and encouraged him:
"As long as you see the right things, you can do it with confidence, and if you fail, I will raise you for a lifetime." Because of this sentence, Jet Li, who loves her deeply, was even more moved.
Seeing that the company founded by Jet Li has difficulties in operation, Li Zhi, who has studied business knowledge in the United States for several years, has achieved fruitful results in financial management in recent years, and has seen the real estate business flourish and turned to investing in real estate.
Unexpectedly, this investment failed, but also by tens of millions of debts arbitrage, see here, Jet Li closed the company, signed a contract with Xiang Huaqiang, three years in a row to shoot "Yitian Slaughter Dragon Chronicles", "Jingwu Hero" and other six movies, advance 70 million pieces to Li Zhi to get out of trouble.
After busy with these, Jet Li often took Li Zhi to attend the event and prepare for the wedding, there was no time to go home to see the children, even if he went home, he was a dusty servant, and Li Si did not have the opportunity to talk to his father to contact his feelings.
Li Si, who grew up in countless disappointments and waiting, often saw reports of his father and Li Zhi on TV and some media, and gradually understood some things.
At school, when some classmates learned that her father was Jet Li, they laughed at her: Your father doesn't want you, and he is about to marry your stepmother.
Sadly, Li Si went home and asked grandma, who didn't know how to answer, so she could only diverge from the topic. She called her mother Huang Qiuyan again, asking her mother and father to come back with her, and her mother could only choke and comfort her:
Be obedient at home, and Daddy will come home with you. Listening to her mother say that her father would go home to accompany herself, Li Si quickly called her father again, but she could not answer the phone twice, in this cold winter, Li Si's heart for her father was getting colder and colder, and she was full of hatred for her father in her heart.
In 1999, Li Si, who was doing her homework at home, saw her father return home full of spring breeze and told her to take her and her sister to Hong Kong to attend his wedding with Aunt Li Zhi.
Li Si didn't even look up at his father, but answered two words: don't go! In fact, Li Si had already seen the news that his father was going to hold a wedding with Li Zhi in the media, and the 10-year covenant between the two of them had reached the day of fulfillment.
Although the lovers who are in love have achieved positive results after 10 years of love run, Jet Li confessed in an interview that he had "no regrets for life" marrying Li Zhi in this life, and Li Zhi said that marrying Jet Li "did not waste this life".
However, some media in Hong Kong still have a few words about Jet Li abandoning his wife and daughter, using a phrase "love and righteousness are not low-cut and four or two" to ridicule.
If Jet Li did not marry Huang Qiuyan, his love with Li Zhi can be said to be a model of love in the entertainment industry.
They have been consistent for decades from acquaintance to marriage, and Jet Li's billions of family property are all taken care of by Li Zhi, no matter what occasion he mentions his beloved wife Li Zhi.
The more this is like this, the more people feel that Huang Qiuyan's life is too sad, not to mention how much Li Si hates her father in her heart, she has also heard others say that how much her mother used to love her father and give too much to her father.
But when my parents got married, there was no wedding and wedding photos, and now my mother is alone in the United States, and it is difficult to live a life of food and clothing, and my father and another woman show affection in the media all day long.
The thought of this made Li Si's personality more withdrawn, and even if her father wrote and called her, she did not care.
In 2000, Li Si's grandmother Zhang Fenglan died of cancer, and although li Si, who was only 12 years old, did not understand the future of life, she suddenly lost her grandmother who loved her most, making her feel like the sky had fallen, and she cried at the funeral.
Jet Li saw that his daughter was so sad and felt that he owed too much to his two daughters for so many years, so he told Li Si: "After burying grandma, I will take you and my sister to live in Hong Kong, Aunt Li Zhi is very good and will take good care of you and your sister."
Hearing his father's words, Li Si yelled at him loudly, "My sister and I don't want to live with you." ”
Hearing her daughter yell at herself like this, Jet Li knew that she had not been able to accompany her children for so many years, and the feelings between father and daughter were strange, causing her daughter to hate herself.
Since the daughter did not want to be with herself and could only make up for her debt to the child in other ways, she sent the sisters to the aristocratic school for a good education, and when she had time, she took more time to go back to Beijing to see them.
After marrying Li Zhi, he had two daughters, and jet Li was busier, wanting to go back to Beijing to see that Li Si and his sister were helpless, sometimes in the midst of a busy time to see Li Si, Li Si deliberately pulled his sister into the room and locked the door, no matter how his father shouted and did not open the door.
In 2004, Huang Qiuyan's life in the United States slowly improved, and she opened a barber shop with the help of friends, because she couldn't open the shop every day and couldn't go home to see her daughter for several years.
On this day, I suddenly received a call from Jet Li, the first time in 13 years, the two people called for the first time, this time Jet Li called, is to let her enlighten the two daughters, reduce the hatred for the father. Huang Qiuyan called Li Si and her sister:
"Baby, when I first married your father to separate, it was voluntary, no one forced anyone, you don't understand the adult thing, but your father has not been easy for so many years, you must understand him..."
With the mother's frequent enlightenment, after all, the father and daughter are connected by blood, and gradually Li Si can let go of the hatred in his heart and can communicate peacefully with his father.
In 2005, Huang Qiuyan married a Chinese owner who opened a Chinese restaurant, and this boss was very kind to Huang Qiuyan, gentle and considerate, and the two people lived a very warm and happy life after marriage.
In 2006, when 18-year-old Li Si graduated from high school, Jet Li sent her and her sister to the United States to study, and finally fulfilled her dream of coming to her mother's side.
The stepfather regarded her and her sister as his own, and the two brothers on the stepfather's side also loved the two sisters who were not related by blood, which made Li Si feel the warmth of home.
And when the mother remarried, the father Jet Li also sent a gift of 50,000 yuan in the name of Li Si and his sister, the mother harvested happiness, Li Si's relationship with his father slowly eased, and the shadow brought by the failed marriage to the mother and daughter three gradually disappeared.
In 2010, after graduating from university, Li Si worked at a cultural company in Los Angeles, and the 22-year-old Li Si inherited the genes of her parents and became a beautiful girl who was very beautiful.
Such a talented and beautiful girl has become the goal pursued by many handsome men, but Li Si has turned a blind eye to these suitors and has no idea of falling in love.
At that time, the mother felt that it was normal for girls in their early twenties not to fall in love, but with the passage of time, Li Si was now 33 years old, and Huang Qiuyan began to worry about her daughter's marriage in the early years, and had been urging marriage, seeing that her mother always urged herself to get married and start a family.
Li Si revealed his heart to his mother: from the age of 3, he lived with his sister and grandmother, and then boarding school, sometimes to his uncle and aunt's house, and saw other people's children holding their parents' hands and happily shopping in the park, which was particularly envious at that time.
In the end, knowing that her parents have divorced and seeing the hardships and pains of her mother's life alone, these crises and mists of the family have been hanging over Li Si's heart, making her always have fear of marriage and love.
At this moment, Huang Qiuyan understood that she did not expect that her original failed marriage had such a great impact on her daughter, and she only thought that it was herself who was hurting, and the two children had a star father, and her future life would be promising.
Yes, in today's era, divorce is already a common thing, many parents only think of regaining a love, living happily and happily, without too much consideration of their children's feelings.
Li Si's situation is not unique in many single families, and for her, the pain of the original family is difficult to heal in a lifetime.
It is often said that parents are the best teachers for children, and I hope that each of us should be kind to our marriage and not let the fault of marriage make children pay for it.