"Perfect Partner" is an urban family emotional drama, which mainly focuses on the marriage problems of urban men and women, and tells the trade-offs and choices between career and family between two couples in two families.
Chen Shan is a female lawyer in the securities department of a well-known law firm, and she is nearly 40 years old and has encountered a bottleneck of rising. Therefore, it is necessary to devote oneself to the work so that there is no time to take care of the emotional needs of the husband and daughter. Her husband, Sun Lei, works in a state-owned enterprise, and in order to support his wife's career, he takes on the heavy responsibility of taking care of the family, and at the same time gives up his career pursuit.
This marriage model of strong women and weak men has gone from functioning well to gradually losing balance in the past decade, and unconsciously has become overwhelmed.
At this time, the investment banking elite Lin Qingkun appeared, and the large order in his hand became the target of Chen Shan and his competitors.
Faced with the dual crisis of marriage and the workplace, Chen Shan desperately tries to deal with both at the same time, but it is becoming more and more counterproductive.
After experiencing many tests, Sun Lei and Chen Shan finally found that their original intention for each other is still there, and they are not perfect, as long as they cherish it, support each other, and achieve each other, they are each other's most perfect partner.
So what is the code of happiness in the marriage that this urban family emotional drama tells female friends?
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Wu Min, played by Wang Zhen'er in "Perfect Partner", is a full-time wife, there is an episode where she is pregnant, and then accidentally give birth, her husband Lin Qingkun not only did not care about his wife's feelings, but also used the most blunt attitude and action to accuse Wu Min.
Wu Min, who was full of grievances and despair, proposed a divorce.
When I left home to take a taxi, I found that I didn't even have 20 yuan on me.
At this time, she was living on the street, and it was difficult to receive a call from her son, but before she could say a few words, she was snatched by Lin Qingkun and continued to accuse her of insulting her.
Even the credit card supplementary card was stopped by Lin Qingkun.
Wu Min couldn't hold back any longer and burst into tears.
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At this moment, did she regret not being able to do it in the first place, why didn't she listen to her parents?
Why did Wu Min's life become like this?
At that time, Wu Min was also very good, and was admitted to the university with Lin Qingkun, but because he loved each other too much, he did not hesitate to give up his opportunity to study at the university, and was willing to choose to accompany Lin Qingkun to go abroad.
He is in charge of studying, and Wu Min works while taking care of Lin's living.
At that time, Wu Min's mother opposed such a practice: "You can fall in love, you can get married, but you can't live without your own career and life." ”
Wu Minman didn't care: "I do." ”
Her mother continued to say angrily, "What do you want? When parasites? You are an adult, your own choice, I only suggest, do not interfere, you better be able to live the scenery, if he does not want you one day, you will not get me half a bit of sympathy and help. ”
At that time, Wu Min loved Lin Qingkun too much, gave up everything for love, and even completely lost himself.
Today's tragedy is entirely directed by oneself, who can blame?
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Therefore, before getting married, female friends must consider a good life after marriage, must be financially independent, cannot be completely dependent on their partners, can not work, but can not be without income.
Smart women have arranged all this before marriage, whether it is the improvement of work ability or the accumulation of experience, as well as a variety of certificates that must be obtained, long-term plans will make themselves live a very solid life, and the early efforts will be exchanged for comfort after marriage.
Because women always pay more for the family than men.
So even if you are pregnant and have children after marriage, you don't have to worry about not having a source of income.
Of course, it is good to have a stable job, Jelly is worried about those migrant workers, stupid women who are bent on changing their fate by marriage, thinking of finding a man to be a patron, completely without self, and do not want to work hard to make progress, such a person, in fact, before marriage, the tragedy has been staged.
Remember Wu Min's lesson, women should first love themselves at all times, do not lose themselves for anyone, and give up their ability to earn money.
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This reminds me of Luo Zijun in another drama "The First Half of My Life" a few years ago.
Luo Zijun is also a full-time wife, the usual life is to shop, raise a baby, money is flowers, cards are brush brush, it seems to be glamorous, in fact, the marriage crisis is coming but not knowing it.
When Chen Junsheng filed for divorce and confessed to falling in love with Ling Ling, Luo Zijun's world collapsed.
She never understood that she was beautiful, well maintained, and had a good life, and her husband was not satisfied.
The love that was once sworn in the sea and the promise to make money to support the family are all a scam.
Until today, she understood that the position of "Mrs. Chen" also had a time of unemployment.
Whether it is a TV series or life, the full-time wife seems to be glamorous, but it hides a crisis.
The marriage tragedy of Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life" once again tells us that the marriage model of "women are as beautiful as flowers, and men earn money to support their families" is just a scam, and marriage is not a "parasitic" relationship, but a relationship of mutual achievement.
The happy code for marriage
"The Perfect Partner" also tells us that in the relationship between husband and wife, if both parties do not have independent personalities, the marriage cannot be happy.
What we need in marriage is a partner that encourages us to surpass ourselves, and what we are looking for is a relationship that can inspire meaning and direction in life and help us when we are tested.