Marriage is the most important thing in a lifetime for men and women, before marriage is the world of two people you and me, after marriage is the chai rice oil and salt, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with the family relationship.
A woman marrying a good in-law is like having more parents, and her future life will become tasteful, happy and satisfying, and the relationship between husband and wife will be sublimated and become more harmonious and stable.
And once a woman marries an in-laws who have an opinion on her, from the day of marriage, she will fall into an endless contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, even if the husband loves him deeply, his future life will become very depressed and boring.
Especially if the in-laws are snobbish and the bride's family situation is not very good, the bride's status in the mother-in-law's heart will plummet, and even she will be ridiculed by the in-laws, and even the parents with the bride may be looked down upon.

A couple in Vietnam angered the groom because the in-laws looked down on the groom's father-in-law and bride, and the groom was furious at the wedding scene and smashed the banquet.
The incident is roughly as follows:
The bride and groom met, knew, and fell in love through free love, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
However, because the bride's family is not well-off, since the groom and the bride fell in love, the groom's parents were very dissatisfied with the bride and thought that the bride was not worthy of her son.
Although the groom's parents vigorously opposed it, the groom did not change his original intention and remained consistent, and finally entered the marriage hall hand in hand despite the dissatisfaction of his parents and his lover.
However, although the marriage was married, there was an "interlude" at the wedding that was difficult for the groom to accept.
When the wedding ceremony is about to make a toast, one is that the bride should toast her in-laws.
But what the bride and groom did not expect was that the bride held the wine glass for a long time, and her hands were numb, but the groom's parents were indifferent, and there was no intention of taking the wine glass.
The groom looked at this embarrassing scene, and then remembered that his parents humiliated his father-in-law in public at the wedding, and did not give the bride and himself any face, the more he thought about it, the more angry he became, so he snatched the wine glass from the bride's hand and smashed it into the champagne table...
After smashing it, the groom kicked over the wine table again, and with the sound of the wine glass falling to the ground, he remembered that the wedding scene that was originally beautiful and cheerful instantly became a mess.
The bride and the host saw that the groom was angry, first stunned, and then quickly stopped the groom, the guests in the audience looked at this sudden scene is also a look of embarrassment, originally was happy to participate in the wedding ceremony, did not expect this kind of "interlude", anyone will be embarrassed.
After the live video spread to China, it triggered a heated discussion among domestic netizens, who were roughly divided into two views on the groom's behavior of angrily smashing the wedding scene.
Point 1: Support the groom.
This part of the netizens believes that the groom's parents are too powerful, and they do not know the weight and occasion.
The groom and the bride are truly in love with each other, the raw rice has been cooked into cooked rice, the fact of marriage has been established, as a parent, even if there is a great dissatisfaction, they should not let their sons get off the stage at the wedding.
Taking a step back, if the groom's parents are really dissatisfied with the groom's father-in-law and bride, they do not have to attend the wedding, and since they have participated, they should consider their son.
There are also people who think that as parents, they should consider the happiness of their sons, as long as their sons like it, parents cannot accompany their sons for a lifetime, and in the end it is still the son and daughter-in-law who live, why should parents worry about this heart?
Point two: Against the groom.
This part of the netizens believes that the groom does not know how to control his emotions, and the wedding smashes the wine banquet, disturbing the interest of the guests to attend the ceremony, and will also aggravate the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The groom's correct approach should be to mediate from it and do the parents' ideological work well, not to be angry.
The groom smashed the wine feast for a while, but did he ever think about how his wife and parents should get along in the future? Have you ever thought about the future of your family?
Because the views of netizens have different starting points, their views are extremely opposed.
Editors believe that marriage is like a pot of mixed grain noodles, the groom is the water of the living noodles, the water is less than the noodles can not live together, the water is more and easy to become a basin of paste, how to control the key point lies in the groom.
The groom's parents are no longer dissatisfied with the bride and father-in-law for a day or two, and the long-standing contradictions have not been resolved at the wedding scene, which shows that the groom's work has not been done properly and the parents' ideological work has not been done.
The groom's parents should also change their inherent thinking, although "the door is right", but the quality of the husband and wife's life still depends on the efforts of both parties to fight, rather than relying on the help of parents and in-laws.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, as parents should not be too attached to the affairs of their children, just go with the flow.
But then again, the bride did marry a man who loved her, although the relationship between mother-in-law and aunt is not very good, is the relationship between husband and wife sunny? After all, they will not live with their in-laws in the future, and their attitude will not determine their own happiness.
Finally, may the bride and groom be happy in their new marriage, a hundred years of good union, and an early birth of a noble son with a white head and an old age.