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1. Some mistakes are not brought to you by others, and they are naïve fantasies. A person already does not love you, but you are not willing to let go, you have made yourself a wound, and you in turn have to complain that others hurt you. If you think about it, is it the mistake of others, or the mistake of yourself? Knowing that some things are already doomed, but you fantasize that the person will come back and make yourself miserable, this false fantasy is the real source of the disaster.
There are people who are not good people in the first place, but you think you can touch him, think that the person will get better, will know his mistakes. As everyone knows, that person is originally a selfish little person, hurting you again and again, you just don't know how to change yourself, you want to change others. It is your kindness that makes others use as a tool, you don't know how to stay away, you don't know how to refuse, someone else's sorry you forget the pain you once had, the reason why you will be hurt is because you have illusions, feel that others will not hurt you again.
2. Trust others too much, there are no bad people in your eyes, some people have become bad, you just don't believe. A cup of boiling water can be cold, and it is very simple for people's hearts to go bad. Others hurt you to the skin, you just don't believe that person is a bad person, you believe everything others say, full of lies you think it's true, not to let you believe others, but can't trust all people, to know how to love yourself.
Ancients Cloud: Seeing people only say three points, you can't throw away all your hearts. That is to say, we must keep a dim sum, not all people are trustworthy, not all people are good people. Human nature is something that cannot be experimented with. You are hurt because you did not love yourself well, trusted and trusted others too much, scarred yourself, and learned to love yourself well.
3. Small horse-drawn cart. I don't have so much ability myself, but I always do things that I can't reach, and I don't measure up to my strength. That is to say, I am a small person, but I am going to do big things in the world every day, and I am tired of climbing with a rolling belt, so I must first recognize how much strength I have and how big a sack I take, how big I am P-strands and how big pants I should know.
Without the ability to clean up the mess, you will put away your fickle heart. Sometimes it is too much to overestimate yourself, and the result will be to mess up one thing, and then there is no ability to clean up the mess and make yourself a ghost. Do things for three minutes with enthusiasm, think of beauty, and do regrets. Once you encounter something, you can't control your emotions, you are confused, you lose your balance, and you let yourself fall to the bottom.
4. Learn to grow yourself. People will encounter all kinds of things in their lives, all of which you can't think of, don't be angry because of a small thing like the sky has fallen. Nine times out of ten life will not be satisfactory, everything is just a blessing, you are really wrong, there is no perfect person, there is no perfect thing.
If you don't grow up, no one will shield you from the wind and rain. So don't count on others for everything, rely on others. Others can help you, but you can't manage a hunger, you can't manage a hundred. You fall down and others can help you up, but you can't let others help you go down, everything needs to rely on yourself, don't let others say that you are mud on the wall, you can get up in the morning and put on your shoes, then it is a new start.
5. The fate should be regretted, and the fate should not be left. You can't be too stubborn in doing things, if a person wants to leave, then let go, it is impossible to keep, even if it is tied with an iron chain, it is useless. Even if you leave someone behind, you can't keep your heart, and it's better to simply let go. Don't always be unwilling, not willing does not mean that others will cherish you, there is no eternal love, there is no eternal feelings, people who are not at one level can not mix together.
Feeling hurt is not entirely the cause of others, sometimes it is too stubborn, for a person who does not love you, it is better to let go and love yourself. Others can live with you, you can't control others, but you can control yourself, sometimes let others go, but also let go of yourself. Give up the impossible to cause, let go of the person who wants to go.
Young people refuel, there is no mountain that cannot be crossed, there is no river that cannot be crossed. When you reach the trough of life, take a good look at these 5 sentences and you will be relieved