Text/Moran
As far as life is concerned, it is actually very short. In just a few decades, it may not be caught, and it will suddenly be a world.
Just like Sanmao said: "I don't have time to be seriously young, and when I understand it, I can only choose to grow old seriously." ”
If one does not seize the existing time, one may lose a lot of things.
In this life, people must try to live as much as they want. The saddest thing in life is to live out what others want and ignore yourself.
Know that life is your own, and try to follow your heart. The rest of your life is very expensive, don't waste it, love yourself well, don't live in the eyes of others, this is the best attitude.
Don't wronged yourself and pander to others
Our life is limited, don't care too much about other people's opinions, try to live according to your own wishes.
Know that in this world, no one can really understand you, and only when you learn to love yourself will others love you.
If you blindly care about the feelings of others, wronged yourself, and satisfied others, it is easy to lose yourself, and others will not cherish you.
Many times, you try your best to please, work hard, and want to get the respect of the other party, but you don't know that this will accelerate the other party to look down on you.
Life is short, the rest of life is very expensive, only to live your own life seriously, treat yourself well, is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
You pay carefully, you try to maintain it, and you may be disappointed. Because sincerity sometimes can't be exchanged for sincerity, only by learning to love yourself and treat yourself well, others will care about you.
Life is your own, don't wronged yourself and fulfilled others.
Living in the eyes of others, it is easy to lose yourself
In real life, there is not so much empathy. The more you give, the more it backfires. It's like you're careful to please and want to get the attention of the other person in this way, but human nature can't grasp it. You treat a person sincerely, and you may end up with hurt.
You work hard to maintain a relationship with each other, and in this way, you want to bring each other closer.
But as everyone knows, when you start pleasing a person, you have already lost yourself. A person who has no ego, others will not take you to heart at all and will not respect you.
Each of us has a different growth environment, has its own life trajectory, there is no need to live in the eyes of others, and be consistent with each other.
You know, people are different, thoughts are different, the pursuit will be different, not a world of people, there is no need to force, so that you will not be happy. Only by being yourself can you be the most down-to-earth.
Life is your own, and you have to live in your own world
If a person cares too much about the eyes and feelings of others, it is easy to lose himself. You always think for others, so who will consider you.
In everything, we must start from ourselves, first learn to love ourselves, be kind to ourselves, and have spare energy to treat others well.
If you think about everything for others, you will lose your time. People live, be true to their hearts, and get along with people who deserve it.
Instead of wasting time on useless social interactions, it is better to keep time for yourself and find the right circle, which is the best attitude to life.
Whether it is work or life, you should start from yourself, live your own life first, and make yourself better.
Don't always think about others, live in the eyes of others, you are easy not to sway, no life of your own. In the end of life, you still have to be loyal to yourself and find yourself.
summary:
The rest of your life is expensive, remember to be with like-minded people, and live as you want.
Love yourself well, live your own life, and from yourself, you will become better and live up to yourself.
And living in the eyes of others, blindly pandering and pleasing, eventually you will lose yourself. Therefore, in this life, people must finally abandon distractions and look inward in order to live out their own wonderful.