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When I first saw the baby, my feeling was that I couldn't touch it, for fear of hurting the baby, it was because of such a cautious mentality that I didn't know how to hold this little guy.
Newborn babies, too weak, if you do not know how to take the baby scientifically, without the help of the elderly, for a new mother, too difficult.
The 5-month baby "curvatures the spine" because the mother lacks the knowledge of scientific parenting
I often see similar posts on the Internet, in fact, there are such cases around.
There was a grandmother in the community who cried last month that there was a little problem with the child's spine, and blamed the mother for being too ignorant.
Since the birth of the baby, the mother returned to the workplace, and after a month, she quit her job and re-took the baby herself.
During this period, Grandma occasionally came to visit, and when the weather was good, she would also take the baby downstairs to bask in the sun.
But most of the time it is brought by the mother alone, because the mother does not trust the grandmother, the grandmother is extravagant, and the concept is old-fashioned, and the mother is afraid of hurting the baby.
The backrest should be flattened
When they bring their babies, they usually put the children in the trolley, and the backrest of the car has a certain curvature so that the baby can see the surrounding environment.
Last month, the mother found that the baby's back was always asymmetrical, at first she just thought it was an illusion, but the more she looked at it, the more awkward it was, so she took the baby to go for a test, and the baby's spine really bent to a certain extent.
Grandma knew that after coming from her hometown, she saw the neighbors in the community and cried and complained, saying that the mother had harmed the baby, did not let experienced people bring it, but brought it herself, which could ruin the child.
But then I heard my mother say that the baby's spine is indeed a little curved, because it was found earlier, so there is no big problem, usually pay attention to the point, will slowly recover.
When can my child ride on the trolley?
There are many parenting artifacts now, and the trolley is one of them, and now there are various styles of carts, which reduces a lot of difficulties for parents.
Before my baby was 2 years old, take her out to play, an aunt upstairs said: Now with the baby is really much easier, the car sits, pushes out the door, there are different stages of different cars, unlike us at that time, we can only hold the child, really tired.
However, because there are more "artifacts with baby", the danger increases, and the final result is not good.
In the first few months after the baby is born, the body control is very poor, the bones are particularly soft, and it is impossible to use this kind of small cart with a backrest.
If you want to use it, also put the backrest flat and let the baby lie on it.
This will not affect the baby's spinal development.
You have to wait until your baby can sit before you can give your baby this backrest car.
At least until the baby is 7 months old before you can use the car.
And the specific situation should also be based on the baby's own degree of development, if the baby can not support the body independently, or can not use this car for the baby, in addition to the daily holding of the baby should also pay attention to, for several months of the baby to hold horizontally, rather than vertical hug.
Pay attention to the stages of physical development and development of children
Many new mothers do not know much about the growth stage of their children, and it is easy to do things that hurt their babies without understanding.
For example, if your baby practices sitting for 7 months or so, letting your baby practice sitting too early will hurt your baby's spine.
For example, if the baby practices looking up too early, it will hurt the baby's spine.
These are all basic common sense, and mothers must have a certain understanding.
The child grows up with the child's physical development as the center
In the process of children's growth, parents should not take the baby according to their own wishes and ideas, but should take the child's growth node as the center to bring the baby.
Follow your child's physical development and not force your child to eat or do a certain action.
For example, parents want their children to eat more and eat more to grow faster, so they try to persuade them to eat.
This is easy to hurt the health of the child's spleen and stomach, the babies are full, they know when they are full, when they show resistance, it means that they have eaten, parents should not persuade again.
For example, the child grows to a certain stage, let the child practice new tricks, the child after the age of 6 let the child exercise sitting, but the child is resistant, do not want to sit, this time can not force the child to sit this behavior.
When we respect the child's development node, the child can grow up healthily without being affected and hurt physically and psychologically.