Parents can give their children good material conditions, but they are not willing to give their children respect

Take the elevator at the mall on weekends. At that time, there was a family of four waiting for the elevator, and there was another family.

The elevator came, the adult of the family went first, and I pushed the stroller to take Xiaobao into the elevator.

The mother of the family found that the child did not come up, and shouted outside the elevator: "XX, come in!"

It was a six- or seven-year-old boy, and the down jacket was not zippered, and it was slightly fat.

"If there are many people, who can see if you lose?"

Although the boy was losing money, he always wanted to make up for himself, "I didn't see it again!"

The sound of the speech is normal, and there are some small depressed emotions. He was facing the store, with his back to the elevator, and did not see the elevator coming, which was indeed the truth.

"Are you stupid?" Are you stupid?"

At this point, the boy was silent and did not make a sound.

"Suck your stomach in!"

The boy continued to be silent. Through the open zipper of the down jacket, you can indeed see the boy's slightly protruding belly. But he was facing my stroller, and the space in front of his stomach was empty and wouldn't get in the way of anyone. I really don't understand why, in the circumstances at that time, my mother wanted him to suck.

Out of the elevator, the boy's mother took a look at the second treasure in my stroller, "This child's eyes are so beautiful, sitting in the car is really good", turned to the female friend who was shopping with her and said, "You don't know, our family this, when I was a child, fat and heavy, still dead and refused to take the stroller, I had to hold it, I always got tired and half dead when I went out..."

I couldn't see the little boys' expressions anymore, and looked at their backs and sighed.

Originally it was a small thing that could not be smaller, the boy's attention was limited, waiting for the elevator kung fu to go away, and the mother said "stupid" and "fat" these things that have nothing to do with things.

Mom can give me praise to my second treasure, a strange child who has nothing to do with her, but to her son, she is really stingy with words.

There is a manifestation of intimate relationships, that is, you can "fool around" in front of each other, and in front of each other, you can safely show the not-so-good side.

Parent-child relationship is naturally an intimate relationship. Parents can choose whether to have children, but children cannot choose what kind of parents they have. I think that "Hu Lai" does not apply to the special intimate relationship of parent-child relationship.

The future of the child is in the words of the parents. In the face of children, we still have to be cautious.

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