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Luo Jing is a childhood memory of a generation, and it is also a pillar of CCTV.
When people talk about him, they often pay attention to his strong business ability, but in fact, his fairy love story with his wife Liu Jihong is even more moving.
After 21 years of staying together, Luo Jing died of illness, and Liu Jihong fell into a low point in his life, and gradually came out of the haze with the support and encouragement of his in-laws.
Even after remarrying, Liu Jihong still took care of Luo Jing's parents and touched hundreds of millions of netizens with filial piety.
01. Acquaintance with Luo Jing
Liu Jihong was born in 1966 in a family of cadres, and like many children in the compound, her childhood was unusually colorful.
He experienced the baptism of primary school, junior high school and high school step by step, and finally entered the Beijing Broadcasting Institute to learn news hosting.
Liu Jihong studied very seriously, and always followed the teacher behind him to ask questions in his spare time.
Once, when she came to the teacher to answer a question, she met the lover of her life, Luo Jing.
At this time, Luo Jing, who has successfully joined CCTV, is a man who appears on the big screen.
But Luo Jing's heart was still not satisfied.
This dissatisfaction is nothing more than wanting to continue to improve their business capabilities.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, Luo Jing has achieved the top level, he knows in his heart that this job is far from being so simple.
Wanting not to be left behind by others, he had to work harder.
So every time after work, he continued to come to Li Gang, his college mentor, for advice.
Once, Luo Jing came to the tutor's house as usual, but he bumped into a gentle and generous girl, she was Liu Jihong.
He never imagined that the girl in front of him would become his future wife.
After Li Gang's introduction, Luo Jing learned that Liu Jihong was also his student, and the two were brothers and sisters of the same door.
Relying on this relationship, Luo Jing and Liu Jihong got closer and closer, and through talking, they found that each other's interests and hobbies were surprisingly consistent.
Therefore, in their leisure time, the two people either watched a movie together or soaked in the library to study together, and gradually became good friends who talked about everything.
While constantly touching, a seed of love is slowly sprouting in the hearts of the two.
Although Luo Jing and Liu Jihong both had a deep love buried in their hearts, none of them dared to confess.
Because both people have their own considerations.
Luo Jing felt that the age of the two was a big problem first, he was five years older than her, and this account, no matter how to see it, was Liu Jihong's loss.
And Liu Jihong is going to college, there is a broader space to play, and when she graduates, Bao Buqi will know more and better people.
If he had made his mind clear, wouldn't he have delayed her?
Liu Jihong's consideration is very simple, and the only point she is struggling with is whether Luo Jing can grow old with her own white head.
After all, Luo Jing has become famous, and there is naturally no shortage of suitors around him, but he is just a young college student, with no achievements, and he really does not deserve him.
The two were pregnant with ghosts for a while, but in the end they could not withstand the power of true love, and Luo Jing, who had gathered enough courage, still broke through the layer of window paper.
Of course, the result is beautiful, after all, Liu Jihong has long liked the gentle and attractive man in front of her.
The two people who fell in love seemed to have returned to adolescence and were eager to stay together every day.
However, due to the particularity of Luo Jing's work, he was always temporarily called away by Taili for some work reasons.
If this happened to other girls, I was afraid that sooner or later I would have a sullen temper with Luo Jing, or make a big fuss.
But Liu Jihong is different, also as a journalism student, she has long experienced the difficulty of broadcast hosting.
Behind the so-called glamorous, full of sweat.
For her boyfriend's work arrangement, she never asked, but smiled at him and said: "It's okay, you can go with confidence!" ”
Liu Jihong's understanding filled Luo Jing's heart with warmth.
Soon, Liu Jihong also successfully graduated and entered the radio station.
Since then, the time spent together has decreased dramatically, and they can only see each other on rest days.
This busy time makes the two people cherish each other even more.
Two people who are sick with each other have the idea of wanting to get married
At this time, Luo Jing and Liu Jihong had been dating for more than three years, and getting married was a natural thing for the two of them.
02. Step into the palace of marriage
Luo Jing and Liu Jihong entered the palace of marriage in June 1988.
At the wedding, the pair held hands and smiled brightly, and even the parents next to them were sincerely happy for the two people.
The two are immersed in happiness and dream of growing old with white heads, but the unfairness of fate has led the marriage to a tragic end.
Of course, this is all an afterthought.
No one has the ability to foresee the future, and the only thing they can do is to live a good life in front of them.
After getting married, Luo Jing and Liu Jihong were soon baptized by chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
Before marriage, Liu Jihong was the pearl in the palm of ten fingers that did not stick to the spring water of the yang, but now she had to learn to cook and wash clothes.
Luo Jing saw his wife's virtuous appearance, and he was a little unbearable, so whenever he was at home after work, he took the initiative to take care of all the housework and cleaned up the house in an orderly and warm manner.
The relationship between the two people is very good, there is never a stumbling block in daily life, and even the colleagues of CCTV know the love story of Luo Jing and Liu Jihong, which has been passed down as a good story for a while.
When Liu Jihong was 29 years old, this originally happy family added a touch of happiness, because she gave birth to a baby son and named luo Shutong.
Not long after the birth of the child, Luo Jing underwent great changes, and the "News Network" hosted by him was changed from the original recording to live broadcast.
As a pillar in the platform, Luo Jing became the first person to eat crabs.
Because of the different nature of live broadcasting, many manuscripts can only be played on the spot, which is a great challenge for the host.
Seeing that her husband's work was becoming more and more severe, and she returned home every day tired and collapsed in bed, Liu Jihong resolutely decided to resign and concentrate on going home to meet her husband and teach her children.
Luo Jing, who has no worries, will put all his energy into his career, and in the talent-rich CCTV, Luo Jing has won the best host for four consecutive years.
In 2009, he also won the Lifetime Achievement Award of the Golden Microphone, creating an amazing record of zero mistakes in 25 years.
In his career, Luo Jing is smooth sailing, and in terms of life, he is still very satisfied.
Although there is no great wealth, as long as there is a family company, it is always happy.
The family of three sat at the table, eating delicious dishes, chatting about interesting things at work, and several people laughed back and forth, even if it was a fairy-like life.
But such happy days inevitably come to an end.
03. The nightmare strikes
A sudden bad news shattered the last beauty of the family.
At that time, Luo Jing always felt uncomfortable, so he routinely went to the hospital for examination.
Lymphoma was found.
These three words crushed Liu Jihong's psychological defense line.
Under the hard treatment, Luo Jing's health gradually improved, and he also served as the torchbearer of the Beijing Olympic Games.
In order to be able to participate in the activities related to the Beijing Olympics, Luo Jing did not inform others of his condition.
Instead, he swallowed all the pain and burned the last residual heat of life.
But the disease could not let go of this kind person after all, and Luo Jing's body still couldn't hold up.
On August 31, after hosting the last "News Network", he retired to the lake and concentrated on treatment.
But by that time, Luo Jing had missed the treatment time, and the cancer cells had spread throughout the body.
Even if Luo Jing's brother donated hematopoietic stem cells for him, he could not escape the fate.
Later, he underwent two more surgeries, and his original weight of 150 pounds gradually lost weight to less than 100 pounds.
Luo Jing watched as the spirit head got better and better, but it was already the end of the crossbow.
The mouth is full of ulcers, and every time you eat and drink water, it is a kind of torture.
In the end, he couldn't even stand up, and could only collapse on the bed, cared for by Liu Jihong and his family.
On the occasion of his birthday, seeing that Luo Jing's life was in danger, Liu Jihong found all his friends and relatives and organized a grand birthday for him.
Looking at the room full of people, Luo Jing wept bitterly, like a child.
Since he fell ill, Liu Jihong has never slept peacefully for a day, and he stays in front of him every day.
The originally white face was gradually tortured to roughness, the dark circles hung heavily, and the skin was dull and dull.
Looking at his wife's countenance, Luo Jing's heart was full of guilt.
Luo Jing knew that his time was running out, and he could only cherish the days of being alive.
I can only tell my child over and over again to listen to my mother.
Hearing this, Liu Jihong's heart was like a knife, and he cried with tears: "You must hold on, I can't do anything, I need you, you don't leave me." ”
Luo Jing's body was getting worse every day, and he continued to fall into a low-grade fever, and then he directly began to fall unconscious.
Liu Jihong looked at her husband, her heart was full of reluctance, and the long wait made her feel that her life had lost its meaning.
She prayed to heaven every day, hoping that Luo Jing would wake up.
Liu Jihong did not wait for her husband to wake up after all, and in June 2009, he died of illness at the age of 48.
After Luo Jing's death, Liu Jihong fell into endless grief, and at the funeral, he cried several times and fainted, and his son next to him also cried uncontrollably.
Even for a long time since Luo Jing's death, she could not get out of the haze.
She never dared to turn on TV, did not dare to watch the "News Network", and did not dare to touch Luo Jing's relics.
Seeing the furnishings of the room, she would always think of those bits and pieces with Luo Jing.
The past is like smoke, flashing through the scenes in front of you.
As a housewife, Luo Jing and children were all about her, and now that she has lost her strong husband, she can no longer raise interest in life.
The turning point was the arrival of the Luo family.
Seeing that his daughter-in-law was getting weaker and weaker, Luo Father brought Luo Mu to visit.
Luo Mu suffers from Alzheimer's disease and still does not know the news of her son's death, but being good to her daughter-in-law has become her instinct.
She brought a lot of gifts in large bags, and as soon as she entered the door, she took Liu Jihong's hand and said:
"This is for you, this is also for you, you look at your skinny now, eat a little more, don't you love to eat the dishes I made?" Leave it alone today, I'll cook for you! ”
Luo Mu was still carefully advising, but Liu Jihong had a red nose and couldn't help but look at Luo Father.
At this glance alone, Liu Jihong woke up like a dream.
Father Luo, who had always been spiritual, was much older at this time, his eye sockets were deeply sunken, his eyes were unfocused, and his complexion had deteriorated.
The few people who were originally happy and harmonious were suffering from Luo Jing's death.
Looking at his parents and son, Liu Jihong thought in his heart: He still has relatives to take care of, how can he live such a depressed life?
04. Embrace a new life
Liu Jihong, who regained his confidence, cleaned up his home inside and out, and cleaned up himself inside and out.
Finally cheer up.
The Luo family did not alienate Liu Jihong because of Luo Jing's death, but because of this illness, they treated her more kindly and treated her as if she were a daughter.
Every three to five, the old couple went to Liu Jihong's house to visit the mother and son, and every time they went, they were not empty-handed, carrying two large bags full of ingredients, so that the refrigerator was stuffed.
Only when she is with her in-laws, Liu Jihong can feel the warmth of the family.
For her, Father Luo and Mother Luo have long been no more in-laws, and they are more like relatives.
Seeing that Liu Jihong was becoming more and more optimistic day by day, from not saying a word at the beginning to being lively and cheerful now, Father Luo was relieved in his heart.
After all, the son has died, and he can't stop the daughter-in-law from moving forward. So Father Luo came to Talk to Liu Jihong and advised her in a serious tone: "Ji Hong, I have always taken you as a daughter, and now that Xiao Jing is no longer there, you should also find your own happiness." ”
Liu Jihong shook her head and rejected Father Luo's proposal, only because she still had scars in her heart.
Sometimes in the middle of the night, she would often wake up from the nightmare with tears on her face.
Later, one day, Luo Jing appeared again in Liu Jihong's dream.
Luo Jing's state was getting better and better, and he was no longer as weak as before.
After waking up, Liu Jihong finally untied the knot and walked out of the shadows.
Seven years later, Liu Jihong met The Next Spring and married the child.
But just before getting married, she specially returned to the Luo family, comforted the second elder, and sincerely said: "Mom and Dad, even if I remarry, I will still be your daughter-in-law." ”
Since then, Liu Jihong has not reneged on his word and often takes his son back to Luo's house to visit them.
Back at the Luo family, the two in-laws will always cook a large table of hot meals, Liu Jihong feels that there is no difference between her and her mother's home, and she still shouts when she enters the door: "Dad, Mom, I'm back!" ”
Liu Jihong is also very attentive to them, and sometimes invites them to come to the house to live, no different from their own parents.
In this way, the family of four healed each other, supported each other, and walked through countless days and nights.
Today, Liu Jihong is happy and happy, although she has married someone else.
But the 21 years of beauty with Luo Jing did not disappear, but it was precisely because of cherishing that they would remarry.
She and Luo Jing have a spiritual connection, and she also knows that if he is under the Nine Springs, he will also want her to have happiness.
Liu Jihong's life is plain and tortuous, but she devotes herself to every relationship to gain more excitement.
Resources:
1. BTV "Archives"
2. CCTV3 "Art Life"
3. BTV "Memory"
4. Jilin Satellite TV "Family Affairs"