For us women, marriage is a particularly important thing in life, and some people even describe it as a woman's second reincarnation, which shows the importance of marriage.
We cannot choose the birth of an individual, but we can still decide what kind of people we choose to spend our lives with.
So at this time, we women need to polish their eyes and choose well, a good marriage partner is the basis of a happy married life, the following are the four major criteria for getting married:
1. Emotional value
The so-called emotional value here first refers to emotional stability, a person with stable emotions, can avoid violent tendencies after marriage, the kind of people who are angry at every turn and have a violent personality, may plant bad seeds for later life.
The second refers to the people who can give us emotional value, that is, the people who can communicate well with you, such as when you encounter certain problems, after communicating with him, you can make you suddenly enlightened.
Don't overlook this, a man who can provide emotional value can add a lot of fun to your life and solve many troubles.
2. Filial piety
Filial piety is the fine tradition of the Chinese nation, parents raise us to grow up, we must have a grateful heart to give back to parents. It is also reflected in a person's sense of responsibility.
A man does not even love his own parents, it is difficult to love his wife and children. There may be an example, but the odds of winning the lottery are still not good.
To a certain extent, choosing a filial man can effectively avoid some things such as abandoning his wife and children. Of course, the filial piety referred to here is filial piety that can understand things and has its own opinions, not the foolish filial piety that does not know things, or the mother treasure man.
3. Three views
Two people with about the same three views are more conducive to the long-term development of emotional relationships, such as a person who likes romance thinks that it is very worthwhile to spend dozens of dollars to buy a beautiful flower, because it can be appreciated and can also be happy, while another person may think that it is a waste of money, do not know how to save, do not understand life.
There is no right or wrong in this matter itself, what is wrong is that the two people have different views, resulting in contradictions. Over time, the relationship will only get worse and worse. Finally came to the point of no return.
4. Self-motivated
Self-motivated men, even if they are poor now, are temporary, not a lifetime, and this type of person can be referred to as a potential stock. No matter how poor he is at the moment, as long as he is willing to work hard and be self-motivated, you will see hope.
The terrible thing is to meet unmotivated men and get by. Let you not see the future, and even some men begin to accuse women of not being in turn, resulting in a complaining psychology.
With such a person, it is doomed to be difficult to have happiness, either to accept this for a lifetime, or to find another way. However, neither is the ideal outcome we want.
Combining the above four criteria, if you meet the above four criteria, married sisters, congratulations on finding a good person. Crushes who are not yet married hope to be able to fall in love rationally and marry happily. I hope we are all happy!