Reporter Cai Yifang/Comprehensive Report
Zhan Ziqing (Yatou) and Wang Weili have been in love for many years, although they experienced a separation in the middle, they finally re-engaged and registered their marriage in 2020. On the 17th, she shared the topic of "divorce" with friends recently in the community, confided in the voice of growing up in a single-parent family, and also admitted that she had thought that if she faced the same problem in the future, she did not know how to be good, which caused netizens to express the same feeling.
She has known her husband for 10 years and has a stable relationship. (Photo/ Reproduced from Facebook/ Zhan Ziqing's little board lady)
On the 17th in the community PO article, she revealed that she recently talked to a friend about a mutual friend who was going to divorce because of the disharmonious marriage relationship, "Friends think that divorce is nothing to be afraid of, I said to my friends, but in this way, children become single-parent families." As a result, the other party said to her: "Single parents are not bad, do you see that your single parents are also living very well?" Now there are also good achievements." However, Yatou admitted that single-parent families have hardships that others can never understand, "As a single parent, I can only say that I have no right to choose, and the process of my growth has not been easy." 」
Yatou said that she had not had her father's company since she was a child, so she was often teased and easily felt inferior, "especially every time I attended a friend's wedding and watched my father lead my daughter into the scene, I would cry very badly." She also confessed that although she and her husband have a good relationship now, she has also thought about what to do if we go to the point of divorce, "Maybe in the future we have children, we may face such problems, what should I do at that time, it is really too difficult." 」
The confesses that she doesn't want her children to be the victim of divorce. (Photo/ Reproduced from Facebook/ Zhan Ziqing's little board lady)
Some people said that they also grew up in a single-parent family, and indeed it will be more difficult than a sound family, thinking that if there is no major reason such as an affair and domestic violence, it is still advisable and not to persuade them to leave; some netizens feel that if the husband and wife really cannot live together, as long as they do not hurt the child, there can be other ways to make up for it.