There is no choice but the best choice
Why modern people live so tired is because we have too many choices, whether it is material choices, or position choices, and even the choice of future partners, we are lost in making these choices, never satisfied.
We always have the mentality of "the next one will be better", so as to miss the best choice, and waste a lot of unnecessary time and energy in the constant search.
I once heard a saying that is very good: "There is always someone better, the present is the best, the heart is not love, the heart is fixed." ”
Because there are too many to choose from, because there is always better, because there is always a fantasy that someone will be perfectly compatible with themselves, so that they are not happy and dashing.
In the past, the older generation, the work package distribution, marriage is also arranged, will also feel that it is OK, even if Wang Ba looks at the green beans, looks at each other unfavorably, lives with each other, and has spent this life.
Now that young people have the choice of free marriage, "staying together for a lifetime" has become a miracle, and the era of "one life and one couple" has long passed.
It is also unclear whether it is a problem of the times, or whether personal desires are filled and inflated, or whether there is really no choice but the best choice.
We always fantasize about the white moonlight, but forget the "cinnabar mole" that really accompanies you around you, what we can't get is always the best, and the favored are always unmoved.
I once heard such a story, very interesting, I want to share with you: once upon a time there was a general to go hunting in the south, on the way met a girl, very beautiful, he also liked it, but got along for a while, felt that she was not worthy of him, so he left to go to the next station, and met a girl, although the status matched, but did not look beautiful enough, he went to the next station, this girl is very beautiful, identity also matches, but there are quirks, he is not willing, want to find the perfect person, finally he found, But the girl said to him, "I'm looking for the perfect man too, and you're not!" ”
Some people will say that the heavens are good reincarnation, and some people feel that he is not worthy of love at all, he has too many choices, he is in too many temptations, arrogant, naturally can not find the right partner, but also missed the best choice.
If you don't have a good choice now, then no choice is the best choice, as long as the mind is settled, look at everything will not be too impetuous!