After the death of my parents, I took my two-year-old brother out, the 818 ten-year-old Tianya Shen paste, the prototype of the realistic version of the movie "My Sister"
After the release of the 2021 movie "My Sister", the topic of whether the sister should raise her brother after the death of her parents caused widespread discussion, and the film ended with an open-ended ending.
But the reality is diverse and cruel, as early as 2013, Tianya has a hot post "After the death of my parents, I raised my two-year-old brother out", as soon as the post came out, the forum was simply a table and chair bench flying together, supporting the opposition of the curse of the noisy, let's see if reality is more bloody than the movie
In order to facilitate gossip, the "I" below is the original post, and the timeline is 2013.
When I was 21 years old, my parents added a younger brother to me
When I was 21 years old, my parents added a younger brother to me, supposedly because I left home to go to college, and they felt lonely. I tried everything I could to oppose it, and I haven't been home since my brother was born.
I swore that if my parents had a brother, I would have no one, but my parents thought that I was impulsive and didn't care what I thought, so I had a brother without me.
The parents were anxious and started wanting to reconcile with me, but I knew it was just their excuse and they had other ideas.
My parents used to transfer two apartments to my name and now want to go back
My parents once had a divorce, so they transferred the 2 houses under my name to me, and now I start to play all kinds of family cards, I want to go back, and even take my one-year-old brother to the city where I study, I must show me my brother take a family portrait, contact feelings, but I have no feelings for my brother, only subconscious disgust, let alone take a family portrait.
After that, they tried a lot of things to save me, and I knew that what they wanted to save was not me, but the house.
After confirming that my attitude could not be reversed, they mobilized various relatives and friends, one by one, to lobby me, first asking me to return both houses to them, then asking me to return one of the large ones, and finally becoming that as long as I still had a small set, it was enough.
Our relationship even broke down to the point of severance, but I just wouldn't budge.
I did not return a set, wrote that whoever has his name is whose name, and the national law supports it.
My parents tried all kinds of means, and when I graduated and signed a contract, I went to the company, I silently changed my mobile phone number, changed the unit and changed the company, only the eldest cousin knew, basically I broke off contact with them.
The sudden death of his parents and the problem of raising his brother became a flashpoint
I hadn't been working for a few months, and my cousin told me that my parents had died suddenly (the original post didn't say the specifics).
The younger brother became the biggest problem, relatives and friends collectively moved, saying that my brother was my only blood relative, saying that I had gone to work, and now the children could not use any money to study, and they could rent out the house to support their brother.
I firmly objected, and told who to raise and who to hold, I have no conditions and no interest
Relatives said they were going to sue me, and I didn't care, because I consulted a lawyer and I had no obligation to raise my brother, and my brother had no obligation to support me.
None of the relatives were willing to raise their brother, and the younger brother was sent away
After the accident, the younger brother had no one to take care of eating and drinking Lasa, and the diapers could not hold the shit and urine. My aunt scolded me and took my brother back to her house, and within two days, because of her daughter's objections, she handed my brother over to my aunt. Two days later, because of the opposition of his aunt and two daughters, he handed over his brother to his uncle.
Anyway, no more than a week, the child was sent back.
I said, the welfare home will not accept it, or find someone to support. My aunt agreed.
Our place is small, and there are many people who have to raise little boys, and they are even willing to give money.
When my brother was in his early two years old, he was taken away by someone else, and I took the initiative to tell my adoptive parents that I would cut off contact after that, as if he were an orphan. My adoptive parents in the countryside were overjoyed to hear me say this, and even couldn't wait to make a note with me.
My uncle rushed from out of town to say that I was too ruthless and unjust, and even wanted to use a knife, I said you want to raise you, and I was persuaded by my uncle's son not to do it, so my brother was taken away.
Two houses were sold, and I made my home in a first-tier city.
After that, I sold two houses and paid a down payment in a first-tier city. I met my husband and had a daughter. I am glad that these two houses are in my name, and I am glad that I chose to give up this so-called brother.
Quite simply, if I chose him, I ruined my own life.
I was the only child of my life, and when I should start a family in my twenties, I was like the eldest sister of feudal society, and I had to bring up a younger brother with great hardship.
Sorry I can't do it.
The above is an overview of the gossip content.
As soon as this post came out, netizens immediately quarreled. Netizens' views basically show a two-sided trend,
One side of the view is that the landlord is too vicious and selfish, and it is the educational failure of the landlord's parents.
It is believed that the two house brothers also have the right to inherit, and the landlord should not monopolize the house.
Think that the landlord is too cruel, inhuman, there will be retribution.
The other side's view is that the landlord's parents should not have a younger brother when the landlord is 21 years old, that is, the son is preferred, and the age difference between the sisters and brothers is so large, and after the parents are old, they simply rely on the landlord to raise their brothers.
Others believe that the landlord was opposed to parents having children in the first place
He thinks that the landlord has made a decisive decision, and thinks that even if he leaves a house for his brother, he is also remembered by his relatives.
Those who support the landlord's idea believe that they are only children from childhood and should not have another one.
There are also people who think that the parents of the landlord do not consider the landlord
Later, the landlord responded:
Parents who want to have a son should be born early, why should they have a son at a very old age, and they have never thought that the son is a burden for the daughter? Won't it ruin her daughter's life?
And think that his decisive decision has allowed him to live comfortably in the first-tier cities, know his husband, have his own daughter, and the daughter's resources have not been encroached upon, and he can also have a second child.
As for the situation of the younger brother, the landlord's eldest cousin relayed that several aunts and aunts were still in contact with the younger brother's adoptive parents' house from time to time, which made the younger brother's adoptive parents very unhappy. Relatives feel that the younger brother's adoptive parents have poor living conditions, poor educational resources, and do not love cleanliness, and a good city boy has become a rural hukou.
But after listening to it, the landlord thinks that whoever is distressed and who is willing to raise it will hold it back and raise it. It is impossible to raise your own life. And she thinks that the people who scold her are all virgins, because it is not her turn, and she will not put herself in the shoes of this matter.
It is said that art comes from life, the movie "My Sister" is an open-ended ending, and the younger brother is a little older, the emotional intelligence is very high, and has an emotional connection with the sister, the younger brother in the post is only one or two years old, and there is no emotional contact with the younger brother.
But the reality is that there is a lot of dog blood, more realistic and more ruthless people, but also can cause a wide range of discussions, even in 2021, after the release of the movie, there are netizens to respond to this post
Little Gossip believes that even if it is put into the present 9 years later, it is nothing to have a second or third child.
But there really shouldn't be such a big age difference, brothers and sisters don't have the experience of living together, and feelings can't be cultivated.
Suppose that the landlord's parents gave birth to a younger brother when the landlord was still in junior high school, even if there is a certain age difference, but the sisters and brothers have a common growth process, perhaps the landlord will not make such a decision.
The landlord is indeed a very selfish person, even if he does not raise himself, find a good condition for his brother to raise, after the second house is sold, he should share part of the money to his brother.
Maybe when you are young, you feel that you are absolutely right, but as you get older, will the landlord still feel that his original decision was correct? If one day the landlord's husband and daughter know about this, how will they look at themselves?
What do the various officials think?