"My Sister" after viewing

Have you watched "My Sister"?

When it was released in April this year, I wanted to see it, but I never took the time, if it wasn't for the good film recommendation officer, maybe I wouldn't have taken the time to watch it. I watched it yesterday in the middle of the day, I watched it twice, and I cried to death when I watched the first time. When I watched, there were two colleagues around, and I cried a handful of snot and a handful of tears on the side, but they laughed miserably.

The reason why I chose to watch this movie is that I am also a sister myself, and today I will briefly talk about my afterthought.

"My Sister" is a drama film directed by Yin Ruoxin, written by You Xiaoying, starring Zhang Zifeng, xiao Yang special starring, Zhu Yuanyuan, Duan Bowen, Liang Jingkang, Jin Yaoyuan and Wang Shengdi. After watching it, I feel too much, and I have to say that the director, screenwriter, and actor have done a great job.

This is a realistic theme of the family film, "My Sister" tells the story of the brothers and sisters who grew up in a patriarchal family environment, the original relationship was cold and distant, but after the death of their parents in a car accident, the sister who faced raising her brother or pursuing a personal independent life choice, re-realized the meaning of blood thicker than water in the depths of family affection.

After watching this film, my biggest feeling is that it is real, deep and touching.

Reflecting many real social issues, such as son preference, second child, parenting between relatives, the conflict between post-90s and traditional family concepts, personal dreams and family choices, etc., I think what the film tells us is not to criticize this social environment, but to show us what the real pain of girls in such a difficult situation is.

The story presents the different choices of "two generations of sisters" when faced with personal dreams and families.

Enron's parents in the film prefer sons to daughters, under the national one-child policy, after giving birth to the first can not have a second, so they issued a certificate to the street that their sister has a disability, and they hope to apply for another son.

Seeing this, I think this is too real, although everyone around me says that boys and girls are the same, but if you really want to choose between daughters and sons, most families will definitely choose their sons, which is actually a deep-rooted concept, which is actually very common in our country, although I do not live in a patriarchal family.

In the film, Enron was plagued by many disasters, he was not loved by his parents when he was young, his parents died when he grew up, and then he was foster aunt's family, he was trained by his cousin as a sandbag, he was watched by his uncle for bathing, and he was changed by his parents to volunteer. The boyfriend of the relationship also broke up, was looked down upon by colleagues at work, and many real problems in life waited to be solved.

When the adults thought that the sister should raise the younger brother, the sister said: "I will not raise, who loves to raise who raises!" ”。 Why should the problems caused by adults make her bearable? I think the stubbornness in my sister's bones is very much in line with my character.

If I had experienced this I would have firmly disagreed.

Enron's aunt in the film, who is also a sister, originally had her own dreams, but when Enron's father was born, she chose to help her parents take care of her brother. No one had told her that she should take care of her brother, but she felt that she deserved it, and she was particularly capable and sensible.

My aunt very much hoped that my sister would be able to take care of her brother wholeheartedly.

She wanted to take care of Enron's younger brother, but she had more than enough and was not strong enough, because she had to take care of her half-dead uncle for many years, and she also had to say that she was bitter.

Enron also has an uncle, who is idle all day, hanging Er Lang Dang, every day only knows how to play mahjong, but also unreliable.

In the end, Enron chose to send his brother to be adopted, in fact, Enron did not hate his brother, but this was impossible. With the help of the driver who caused the accident, Enron finally found a suitable adopter, Enron and his brother spent some time together, but also developed feelings, when the adopter wanted to sign an agreement to never see her brother again, the sister was reluctant, in the face of a difficult choice, she finally did not sign an agreement, but pulled her brother to play football on the side of the road.

The end of the movie is an open-ended ending, Enron may raise his brother while pursuing his dreams, or may give up his dreams to raise his brother. I don't think there's anything wrong with how to choose.

After watching the movie, my reflection is that for dreams and family, I will do a good job in the responsibility entrusted by society and then choose to chase dreams, and I will do my best to do my due responsibility.

Regarding children, whether boys or girls, I will treat them equally, and I will pay special attention to the physical and mental health of children.

This story also gives us too much to think about, I don't share well, too perfunctory. But I still recommend everyone to see, I will definitely not be disappointed.