Enron's parents want to have a second child for a long time, and when they were young, Healthy Enron had to pretend to be crippled, just so that they could have a second child smoothly. My sister's college entrance examination was modified by her parents and chose the nursing major. Enron's own plan to make way for the second child's younger brother is the obsession of parents in the spiritual world, and the ancient patriarchal idea has left the imprint of their parents' hearts.
If it is only the above situation, enron's world is somewhat tragic, and she can still pursue her life as a separate individual when she grows up. An unexpected traffic accident, Enron's parents died in a car accident, which suddenly overturned Enron's life. Bigger challenges lie ahead of her.
While she was away from home for school, her parents secretly gave birth to a second brother. Today's accident, who will support the 6-year-old brother? Is this a conundrum left by the deceased parents to Enron? Enron has a boyfriend, and the two of them meet to go to Beijing to study for graduate school and study in the major. If you raise your younger brother, it means giving up the graduate school. It also means saying goodbye to a new life in the future!
From the perspective of a girl, the movie "My Sister" depicts the huge differences between the first child and the second child, and the transformation brought by the arrival of the second child to the life of the first child. From the daily scenes of Enron, who is an adult, and spends time with his 6-year-old brother, I chose three more classic scenes.
Scenario 1:
Enron, played by Zhang Zifeng, after the death of his parents in a car accident, his younger brother, who had not lived together, was very strange. Sitting in a corner of the living room, his eyes looking out the window; his hands clutching his hair, helplessness and wandering at the moment haunted his mind. On the sofa on the other side, the second brother is like a shrimp, curled up and sleeping on the sofa, and there is a huge distance between the two people.
In fact, this physical distance also reflects the psychological distance from one side. The two brothers and sisters are emotionally estranged. Anran, played by Zhang Zifeng, has needed to be lame since he was a child because of this second child. Imagine a girl who wants to play and learn in this state. Before the arrival of the second child, the parents planted the seeds of hate in Enron's heart.
For the sake of the son's parents, they did not hesitate to change their daughter's college entrance examination, and this move pushed the daughter's heart farther. Even when her daughter was in college, she secretly became pregnant and gave birth to a second child. The act of cutting first and playing later makes the daughter feel that she is a member of this family and has no sense of belonging to her soul.
From this still, we see the tidying box, the brother's superman and plush toys, the brother's school bag and water bottle on the sofa, and there is no trace of a safe life in the whole family. On the other hand, the film also illustrates the almost transparent existence of the eldest daughter of a child in this home. This also caused a sense of alienation between the two siblings, and there was no basis for living together, and the sister was more like a passer-by in the family than a member.
With the unexpected arrival, the rope of fate binds the two people together from the new. During the day and night, the younger brother had no respect for his sister and yelled. The younger brother, who lives alone in the favor of his parents, is obviously territorially conscious. Too young to know what death means?
A sister who was once unfamiliar suddenly appeared in daily life, and this sister hated him, did not center on him, and did not spoil him. The younger brother saw his sister focusing on the computer, ignored him, and condescendedly yelled at his sister. The jade longevity lock hanging from the neck inadvertently shows the preference of parents.
Their lives are not as quiet as the years, but constantly conflict and contradictions. Obviously, the gap between the lives and emotions of the two sisters and brothers is currently difficult to bridge the long-term lack of feelings.
Scenario 2:
Unable to bear his brother's arrogance, He safely wanted to go to Beijing to study graduate school
。 Enron held up the red title deed, and the younger brother stood up straight! Enron said that the title deed was her name, the house was hers, and she wanted to sell it. The younger brother spat on his sister's face.
He shouted, "Dad said everything in the house was mine!" "Don't look at the younger brother's young age, and the education of his parents who are too spoiled has created selfish ideas.
The contradictions and conflicts between the two brothers and sisters are constantly escalating, the living habits are very different, and the contradictions are also continuous. This is the most classic rivalry between Zhang Zifeng and his little brother Jin Yaoyuan in the movie "My Sister". In this scene, the two are child stars, and they can't see any traces of acting, as if they are a scene in family life.
Nevertheless, the contradictions and conflicts in the drama reach their peak. Here we have to face the most realistic question: who inherits the property of the parents of the second-child family?
If the Enron parents were alive, according to the degree of attachment of the parents to the boy, the proper property would be inherited by the boy. If both were girls, the two daughters should be divided equally; if the two boys were, the property should also be divided equally.
Perhaps the most tangled is a boy, a girl's family. Thousands of years of inheritance, I am afraid that girls will suffer some losses in terms of property. It is precisely because of this that Enron will hate his brother's arrival so much.
Scenario 3:
In order to go to school safely, she decided to send her brother to be adopted. She put on her brother a shirt and shorts, looking very energetic; and taught him how to talk. At this moment, the younger brother felt that his sister was very good to him. Enron was a little relieved at this point, but she said hardly, I am only doing this so that you will be liked by the adopted family.
Many people did not approve of Enron's decision, saying that she was cold-blooded. What is your attitude towards sending up your 6-year-old brother?
Will he also be like those relatives of the An family, come up and accuse Enron, and throw a glass of water directly at Enron? Relatives are quite hearted, but the reality is that no one can help Enron at this time. At this time, why not let the relatives who were sent to the adoption help to temporarily raise their brother and let the sister go to graduate school.
The double standard in human nature will always put forward harsh requirements to others; but never reflect on what they have done. Enron is the sister, and at the same time she has the right to choose her life. The choice of adopting a younger brother or raising herself is a choice that only the sister has the right to choose, rather than imposed on the sister.
These three scenes in the movie clearly and clearly throw this problem of second-child rearing in front of the audience. Obviously, the sister is reluctant to raise this younger brother, and this will undermine her long-term efforts (trying to live, study, save money) to achieve her desire for change through self-struggle.
In the face of family affection and dreams, how should Zhang Zifeng choose?
Enron and his brother initially lived together. Very different eating habits also brought conflict, milk and bread prepared early in the morning, but the younger brother had to argue about eating meat buns, and shredded the bread fiercely and fell on the table. This kind of child's unreasonable teasing is difficult for Enron to deal with.
It may be that in small conflicts and contradictions, slowly grinding feelings can be cultivated. When the night was warmly illuminated, the two brothers and sisters in the kitchen were eating meat buns, the younger brother took a big bite, and the sister smiled and looked at the younger brother. Without too much language, the film uses this warm, scene-based language to reveal Enron's ultimate choice.
Where there are good years, just someone carries the weight forward.
The safety here is the person who carries the weight forward, experiencing the initial wandering, the choice of sending his brother and the subsequent reluctance.
In the depths of her heart, the softness of that piece of affection finally overcame the selfishness in her heart. The younger brother has a home to shelter from the wind and rain, and remembers a tearful sentence in the movie, the younger brother said: "You have the smell of mother!" ”
This "My Sister" interprets this social problem from a female perspective, softly and warmly telling the path of sister's spiritual growth behind this car accident tragedy.
As a moviegoer, I have been thinking about how my sister Enron chose the right one.
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