Opening remarks
In the early morning, a snowy snow quietly arrived.
Looking out of the window, everything is white, like the ink dye in Jiangnan Water City, black and white, elegant and abnormal, understated, covering everything in the world.
In the cold air, there is a hint of peace, and the world is troubled, making people want to stay in a corner of the room and enjoy a safe and quiet.
How beautiful life is, perhaps, only the seasons know.
Because, the four seasons flow, never stay because of anyone, every time, there is its own lover, in the spring, there are flowers red and willow green; in the summer, there are insects singing and noise; in autumn, there are fruitful; and in winter, there is snow. It will not be burdened by mundane things, but will just let the days go forward day by day according to its own wishes.
Year after year, to the end, how tired, and then to the heart.
This year, there are ups and downs hidden in the plain, there are waves in the calm, how many karmic meetings, how many human feelings are cold and warm, how many bitter, spicy, sour and sweet, all at the end of the year, in a cup of tea, on the lips, leaving the aroma accumulated by time.
Life is full of ups and downs, and it is always unpredictable.
Maybe, last year, you were still in that city, and this year you went to a new city; perhaps, last year, you were still reunited with your family for the New Year, but this year you could only be alone in the New Year' Eve; perhaps, last year, you lived next door to a noisy family, but this year it became cold and silent...
The beauty of life is that love comes and goes, sorrow and joy are always in the blink of an eye.
Then, suddenly, I understood, perhaps, that this is what is called fate.
Only by being at ease with the situation can we enjoy the possession of the moment
We always long for the years to be quiet.
However, turning over the history of mankind, many times, we will find a law, that is, not so many people have great wisdom and big hearts, and those who can achieve great things actually have two words in their hearts: desire.
Because of the desire, there is a driving force to move forward, and it will not be confused to live, and because of the desire, it will motivate itself more, so that you can live less content and less backward.
It can be seen that in life, what needs to be seen through is actually the word "desire".
In the past, Tao Yuanming "picked chrysanthemums under the eastern fence and leisurely saw the South Mountain", also because after he floated and sank in the official field, he finally realized that this pastoral life was more suitable for health.
Therefore, there will be a variety of idyllic leisurely fun.
It can be seen that when people are most awake, they must let themselves be a little confused, so that they can not be driven by desire and live happier.
Only then can we accept every gift of life, enjoy the possession of the moment safely, have a good mood every day, and live with the situation.
Only by letting nature take its course can we keep the years quiet
The long road of life, the so-called quiet years, are all their own fulfillment.
No one likes to deal with people who complain about the world, and no one likes to associate with people who complain and nag all day.
People must find their own highlights when they are alive, give themselves a little more preferences, and let themselves live more sunny and warm.
I especially appreciate Mr. Yang Dai's calm and calm, strong heart, his elegance is like a glass of red wine, elegant and mellow, spoiled and not shocked, to stay unintentional, let people sigh beyond reach.
When she was young, she was a young lady of Shuxiang Mendi, after getting married, with Mr. Qian Zhongshu studying overseas, after returning to China, in the complex environment of the big family, she was called "the most virtuous wife and the most talented daughter" by Qian Zhongshu, she was also sent to the countryside to farm and grow vegetables, and in the difficult years, the wind and rain were shaky, but she seemed to taste everything, or bright and clear, and her original heart never changed.
The most bitter thing in the world is that the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, and the death of her daughter Ah Yuan makes her miserable, but she stands firmly; when Qian Zhongshu died, he could not rest assured that he could not leave Mr. Yang Dai alone, and she attached herself to his ear and said: You can rest assured, there is me!
Qian Zhongshu left safely.
In the human world, the greatest pain is the separation of life and death, and the gathering and dispersion are unpredictable.
And all of this, under her amazing perseverance, under her flexible strength, has survived and carried it.
Yeah, what makes living well? Perhaps, it is the words of Mr. Yang Dai: We once longed for the waves of fate so much, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calm and calm in the heart.
Therefore, everything goes naturally, do not force it, live calmly, live with peace of mind.
Only with a broad heart can we accept the incompleteness of life
In a lifetime, it is impossible for everything to be safe and smooth, and there will always be some imperfections.
There will always be some troubles, some difficulties, to add a little "brilliance" to you; there will always be some trivialities, some trivialities, to give you a little "challenge".
So, don't live as if you're at a loss, don't let yourself be confused and unaware.
You have to believe that all the experiences in the present moment are precipitating their own lives, adding glory to themselves, and increasing their own experience.
When encountering a hurdle that cannot be crossed, stop for a moment, and know that there is a saying called "there is no intention to plant flowers and flowers, and there is no intention to plant willows and willows"; when there is no hope for the road ahead, you may wish to turn a corner and believe that "the willow is dark and the flowers are bright and another village".
Life is a long road, you have to believe, even if you are abused by life a thousand times, as long as you have light in your heart, life will be warm, only if you have expectations, life will not disappoint you.
Don't grieve for yesterday's troubles, depression is unforgettable, the road under your feet is forward, not looking back.
The beauty of life lies in living with nature and having a broad mind.
Therefore, for the rest of our lives, let us be down-to-earth, step by step, step by step, let ourselves become the more and more acceptable person, let our hearts, more and more beautiful, more and more charming.
In 2022, let's all go with the flow
Before his death, Master Hongyi once left a saying: "The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water." Clinging to the elephant and seeking, thousands of miles away.
In this life, many emotional fates come and go, but they are just a mirror flower and water moon, but they are just a kind of appearance.
The gathering of fates and the dispersion of fates are nothing more than a random fate; the depth of the fate is shallow, and it is only a kind of providence.
As Miyazaki said:
Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations on the way, it is difficult for someone to accompany you to the end, when the person who accompanies you wants to get off, even if you have reluctance in your heart, you must wave goodbye.
So, don't savor the joys and sorrows, and don't immerse your heart in the bittersweet and bittersweet of the past. Let all "gentleman's friends" be "as light as water" and accept the arrangement of fate.
Each of us will face parting and experience loss, so we only need to keep what we have in the moment, and there will be no regrets.
Be earnestly grateful for the companionship that others have given you; look down on it with fate, and those who leave you are drifting away.
To live together is to have a good life, to leave, and not to regret or hate.
Everyone has their own sea of stars and blue skies. One day, time will tell you that all parting is the best arrangement.
In 2022, let's take it slow and let everything go naturally.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!