Fifty years old, to really understand life
When a person reaches fifty, walks through the mountains and rivers, steps through the mountains and rivers, is drenched by rain, and is crushed by snow, the more he will live, the more he will understand.
People who have been over fifty, have seen the rivers and lakes, tasted bitter and spicy, been warmed by sweetness, and have been salted, the more they will live, the more they will understand.
The older you get, the more successes and failures become experiences; both joy and pain become an understanding. No more attachment, no more heaviness.
When I was young, my heart was a flowing stream, and after fifty years of age, my heart was a wide sea, and it seemed that any wave, any wind and wave, could be photographed on the shore.
Seeing some things, I will no longer be uneasy, and when I meet some people, I will no longer cater to them. I began to judge in my heart, understood that everyone has their own difficulties, and is no longer as superficial and frivolous as when they were young.
Even if you encounter some injustice, you will not insult and complain, but first let yourself not be angry, let yourself have more connotation and responsibility.
Perhaps, when people were young, more or less, they all fought, fought, were proud, and frustrated, and after the age of fifty, they slowly smoothed out the edges and corners and became more and more rounded. Even if there are occasional some unhappiness, some unevenness, they will no longer be annoyed and argue, but will laugh at it and do not care.
Yes, the story of time and yin always makes people live more and more soberly, and after fifty years of age, it is understood that it is "knowing the destiny of heaven".
At the age of fifty, I really began to treat myself well
Fifty years old is a turning point in life, because the body begins to go downhill.
Although it is not old, the body is becoming less and less physical as it was when it was young, and its speech is becoming more and more dull, and its reaction is becoming slower and slower.
Perhaps, when you are young, you make friends all over the world, everyone can sit together and drink twenty or two, after fifty years old, you will see more and more who can accompany you, and you will know more and more how to cherish companionship.
Yes, maybe you were once at the peak and trough of life, constantly wandering, but after fifty years of age, you had to quit the exit, the handover to the next one, the handover that should be put down... Because, you know more and more that your physical health is the most important, and treating yourself well is the moment you should care about the most.
The parts of the body have accompanied themselves for most of their lives, and they may be lazy at any time, and must be well "maintained";
The lover has accompanied himself through the ups and downs, giving himself a warm home, which must be cherished well.
Friends accompanied themselves through the snowstorm, and the affection that was once sent charcoal in the snow must be well repaid.
People over fifty, not afraid of old age, but gradually serve the old, more know how to cherish life, more know how to cherish the pillow people, more know how to cherish friends, more know who should be treated well, who is really paying for themselves, who should keep some distance.
Cold and warm, you have seen it all, what should be, what should not be, should be the past. The days in the present moment are to go forward naturally, seriously smooth out their mental nature, and let themselves live more and more at ease.
Be kind to yourself, love yourself, and live without regrets in life.
At the age of fifty, he truly lived purely
Feng Zikai once said: When the heart is small, all the small things will be big; when the heart is big, all the big things will be small.
The world is too unpredictable, today do not know tomorrow's events, perhaps, when you are young, a little thing, will be entangled and uneasy, but at the age of fifty, you will find that in the midst of disturbances, the heart is pure, is really living comfortably.
Life is always too hurried, there will always be some complexity, inadvertently, it will bring you a lot of distress, but along the way, no matter how much you struggle, no matter how panicked, the scenery will not change because of your emotions.
No matter how restless you are, no matter how impatient and hurried you are, the four seasons flow, spring and autumn, and you will not stagnate because of your embarrassment.
Just like when a flower blossoms and falls, even if the petals wither away, the posture does not waver in the slightest.
When people are old, they must maintain their own state of mind, make their hearts simple, and maintain their own posture. Don't make life so complicated, don't let the days be so tense, use a calm, get an indifference, use a leisure, a peace of mind.
At fifty years old, almost everyone is either on the verge of retirement or has already entered the serenity of old age.
Therefore, be mentally prepared for the heart, once busy, it is time to end, just start to put down, let the heart be at peace, in order to make life better.
Don't cling to the past, don't linger on the "not get" that used to be, worry, panic, older, don't indulge in fame and profit.
When people are old, they must follow the laws of nature, learn not to argue, and learn to look down on them, so that they can live the life they want and get the calmness and elegance of life.
Purity is the real health after the age of fifty.
Fifty years old, to really find themselves
Man lives, no matter how old he is, to find himself.
Remember, once watched a program, Yang Zongwei while singing and dancing to complete a song, someone commented on him, to the effect that, in fact, we do not have to impress everyone, do not have to please everyone, most people's lives, but to find the same frequency resonance with their own part of the people, there are those people, care about you, like you, it is enough.
Therefore, perhaps when you are young, because of the numbness of life, you will wronged yourself, to "go with the flow", to "cater to others", but after the age of fifty, you must really live for yourself, because you have a lot of time, you can do some things you like to do, you can find the real needs of your heart.
Perhaps, the body is not as good as before, but the state of mind is more indifferent and more immersive than before.
When a person is over fifty, it is actually an acceptance.
Love, hate, cold, warm, no matter what the day gives, accept, all calm. With a quiet heart, in ordinary days, let yourself live like a fish, find peace in the complexity, and find yourself in peace.
Don't think about the angry horse, don't long for the blood of the river, don't put your life on the approval of others, you live happily, live happily, in fact, it is already a success, but also a kind of praiseworthy show-off.
After fifty years, it is already a kind of happiness to be able to enjoy the family seat and enjoy the scenery together, and it is already a kind of happiness to be able to have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoy the heavens.
Don't compare with others, don't argue with others, people live a lifetime, all kinds of vicissitudes, all kinds of postures, in fact, you have seen, let the heart be full of sunshine, in order to live the rest of your life.
Loving yourself well is the best rest of your life after the age of fifty.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!