Text: Cradle of Love Smile Winter
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
The reason why a person is happy is often not how much he has, but how much he despises.
If you look down on fame and fortune, you will not be shocked, calm and calm; if you look down on grievances, you will have no worries and no obstacles; if you look down on the ending, you will enjoy the process and go with the flow. In this life, there is no need to live too tired, everything looks a little wider, a little lighter, it will be much easier.
The ancients said: "If the heart is large, everything is connected, and if the heart is small, everything is sick." "The heart is as wide as the sea, so that it can accommodate all things, and will not let its emotions fluctuate due to the turbulence of the moment."
Only by looking down on the vicissitudes of life will we calmly accept the impermanence of the world and the slightest change of fate. If the heart is full of too many desires, people will be overwhelmed and burn themselves. Only by reducing selfish desires and adjusting the mentality will the wind and waves be calm, the clouds are light and the wind is light, the sky is clear, and the wind and the sun are beautiful.
In this life, there are still many things worth doing. Let go of what should be put down, forget what should be forgotten, lightly packed, and rush to the next mountain and sea to meet their own future.
Otherwise, dwelling on the past and carrying too many bags will hinder us from moving forward and unable to reach the far away we want to go. You can't even start to make a small thing, let alone anything else. Therefore, learn to look down, you can be reborn, usher in a new tomorrow, and go to your own sea of stars.
01
Look down on gains and losses
In this life, people have gains and losses, but there is no need to suffer gains and losses. "Zhuangzi" has a saying: "Gain without joy, and lose without worry." "When you get it, you don't have to rejoice too much; when you lose, you don't have to be too sad. Gain and loss, this is the normal state of life, just look at it.
There are two sides to everything. Sometimes, what you gain is not necessarily a good thing, and what you lose is not necessarily a bad thing. Therefore, when we get what we love, we must cherish it and love it, and when we lose it, we do not have to be sad and blame ourselves. Learn to look down on gains and losses, and everything will follow fate in order to be safe.
Believe that God will open a window for you when he closes a door for you. You don't have to dwell on a closed door and not see the lush greenery and flowers blooming outside the window.
As long as you watch quietly, you will be able to feel the birds and flowers of nature, and your mood will also be beautiful.
Therefore, we must look down on the gains and losses of life. Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, gain and loss, no matter when, you don't have to cry for the missed sunset, you can also see the stars at night. In the midst of gain and loss, practicing slowly is also a kind of wisdom.
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Look down on feelings
Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time. Many times, the reason why we are unhappy is because the people we love may not love ourselves, and if we can't look away, look down on this relationship, too entangled and wandering, we will live very tired.
Let love become a burden for a lifetime, which is the result that no one wants to see. Therefore, we should look down on feelings, do not have to be grumpy about people who do not belong to us, learn to accept calmly, and face it strongly. It's yours, it won't go, it's not yours, it doesn't need to be forced to stay, and it can't be kept. It is better to let go of the obsession in your heart and not be trapped by love, in order to truly live a good life.
In this life, people have too high expectations for feelings, it will be easy to make themselves have a psychological gap, the opposite of the will, hurt, will make themselves miserable.
Sometimes, we don't have to. Many things, not as good as we think, not as bad as we think, we must learn to look down on all this, in order to get rid of the shadow as soon as possible, re-soak the sun, and find your own warm bay harbor.
Perhaps, the right person is waiting for you not far away, as long as you bravely walk past, you will embrace your own happiness and love each other for a lifetime.
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Look down on life
Everyone's life is not complete, and there will be regrets of one kind or another. So, just look down.
In the good times of life, we should cherish the joy of the moment, on a sunny day, "repair the house", take precautions, do a good job in life's reserves; and when suffering from adversity, we should be strong to deal with the period of suffering, calm down, do everything in the present, believe in ourselves, believe in the future, and not be afraid of the challenges of fate in difficulties.
In this way, at every stage of life, we can move forward with determination, and there is no wind or rain or sunshine.
Because we know that everyone's life is not smooth sailing, we don't need to deliberately compare who is good and who is bad. Everyone has their own life path to go, and they also have their own scenery to see, we do not have to covet the unique scenery of others because of the inferior scenery on our side, nor do we have to complain and hate because our life path is full of thorns.
And to learn to create their own different landscape in their own life journey, only the future created with heart will be dazzling and more memorable.
All the past is the prologue. We should look forward, move forward, and not forget. Only by looking down on the past can we focus on the future. Sometimes, too much nostalgia is not necessarily a good thing, life always has to learn to turn the page, in order to see a new chapter. Therefore, look down on the past of life, and enjoy every present moment calmly, life will get better and better.
Walking on the road of life, we must learn to look down on some things in order to live easily and live comfortably.
Not bound by gains and losses, not troubled by feelings, not troubled by life, we can be as light as a swallow, shuttle through the world, flexible and natural.
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