Opening Remarks:
When people are old, most of them will have a little "worry".
After all, after getting old, there is no youthful strength, no middle-aged status, only more wrinkles on the face, more sideburns, more body disease.
Time is rushing, so that everything has become an "end", as if life is full of regrets, only full of sorrow, old dragon clock, has become the norm of life.
Time is like flowing water, but it is just a flower blossoming and falling, a desolation and loneliness after a prosperous one.
However, people are old, have walked through mountains and rivers, have seen the cold and warm of human feelings, and must spend the rest of their lives with their favorite posture.
After all, in this lifetime, people live to be a mentality.
Instead of making yourself uneasy, it is better to watch the stars shine, to face the flowers indifferently, to see the clouds, to listen to the wind, and to see people's hearts.
So, get old, remember the word: less. In this way, let the days go more and more smoothly, let the old age, the more peaceful the crossing.
Less angry
Days, flustered and vast, like wild weeds growing wildly on the grassland.
Therefore, when one day, you are old, you must remember that your heart should always remain indifferent, so that you are less angry and less impetuous.
In this life, no one can live a calm life, there will always be some ups and downs, there will always be some pickles, constantly harassing you, but the blessings and misfortunes depend on, the misfortunes and blessings rely on, as long as you can keep calm, then, even if the big things, can not hurt you.
Don't argue because of a little gossip of others, just argue in a hurry, let yourself be angry, some people, the more you take care of it, the more he looks at his face; on the contrary, the more calm you are, the more you don't take him seriously, the more you can live safely.
People live a lifetime, who does not say people behind their backs, who is not said behind their backs, the most important thing is that your own state of mind is not disturbed.
Some words, don't put it in your heart, some people, don't put it in your eyes, calmly deal with the relationship with the people around you. You must be clear that in your later life, you are fighting for health, not who wins on the tongue, without a healthy body, everything is just a passing cloud.
Therefore, less anger, in order to live an open-minded life, in order to make themselves full of spirit, emotional stability, live their old age.
Less gossip
I don't know if you've ever seen a video like this.
A group of old people gathered at the entrance of the village, so that the young people did not dare to beat them, because they knew that once they were seen, they were sure that the next object of their gossip was themselves.
Therefore, when people are old, they can chat, but try to gossip as little as possible, the east parents and the west family are short, and the things of Chen sesame and rotten grain are all used to chant, so that it will only annoy people.
It is not easy for everyone to live their own lives, not to mention that each family has its own difficulties. In case of a coincidence, your gossip reaches people's ears and causes a storm.
Life is like a chess piece, and the storm is difficult to determine.
It is likely that the people who gossip in your mouth at the moment will have time to ask others to do things in the future. Therefore, keep your mouth shut in order to save blessings for your descendants.
You will find that those families who are prosperous, most of them have a calm and oppressive old man, they will never let their mouths say that others are unbearable, let alone a little trivial matter, they will point to the neighbors and scold the locust, which seems to be bad behind the scenes, but it also leaves a bad impression.
Old, less gossip.
You know, behind what you say about people, it is very likely that you will become the person who is said, let alone others tell you a little secret, you will immediately announce it to the public, as if you know a cosmic mystery. You know, when others tell you, they respect you, and if you say it randomly, it is your fault, and others do not want to deal with you more.
When you are old, let yourself be gentle and gentle, in order to save yourself blessings.
Less tossing
Perhaps, the older people are, the more they will understand that many things, not the more you have, the happier you will be.
Just like friends, maybe when you were young, you worked hard and thoughtfully on various occasions, but in the moment, you only want to get together with three or five friends, get together occasionally, make a pot of tea, and talk.
Many battles for fame and status are not as important as living happily in old age; many fox friends, in their old age, are not as good as those two or three confidants, so that you can feel at ease.
Remember that in "The Public Servant of the People", there was a department-level cadre who specially bought a small house to put away the money he had accepted bribes, but he did not dare to take a penny more even if he was filial to his mother, for fear that others would suspect that he was corrupt and bribed.
As the saying goes, if virtue is not worthy, there will be disasters. So why bother to let yourself live with such trepidation?
When you live to be old, you will know that the money is good enough to spend, and it is not used to make others envious, so when you are old, you must keep your own name and don't toss on money.
There are also some elderly people, old, but also have to go out to work, do work that hurts the body, no matter how the family persuades, or does not listen, although the subsidy is a little family, but once the body has a problem, that little part-time work money, can not be counted on at all.
Therefore, when people are old, they must think twice, toss less, and everything is based on physical health.
Idle, in fact, in the home to build a small vegetable garden, planting flowers, raising fish, dancing square dance, the elderly in the countryside, but also can go to feed their own crops, and grandchildren to tease, go to the fields to walk around, scatter boring.
In short, don't live so tired, let the mood be relaxed, in order to live out the old age to live freely.
Conclusion:
In this life, everyone is in the ups and downs, to find their own home.
Once saw a couplet:
Life is long, why panic. The future is too far away, why wander.
The years are too short, how not to rush. Lose a lot, how sad.
Perhaps, in response to that sentence, life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten.
Therefore, we must always think about the "two or three", some things, in fact, you are no matter what, it is difficult to think about, some people, you can not put down no matter what. Especially in the current epidemic environment, there will be a lot more anxiety.
However, don't let yourself fall into that narrowness from now on, let yourself be pessimistic and lost, as if it is difficult.
When you are old, you should have such a mood: the wind blows, leaving no traces; the rain has fallen, not sad.
Therefore, only by managing your own life, taking out a state of mind that is at ease with the situation, and allowing yourself to live a little "less" can you live happily and live a blessed life.
Be less angry, let yourself feel comfortable, and be healthy;
Less gossip, make your life simple, and live a peaceful life;
Toss less, let yourself be safe and joyful, and feel comfortable.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!