Halfway through life, I understood: in this life, the most rare thing is to please yourself
Life is like a dream, and time is merciless.
Looking back, how much of the past, like a dream bubble, is fleeting.
In this life, we really live not to please others, nor to live to be like others, but to live out our own wind and bones, to live out our own light.
How many people, living in the eyes of others, doing things they don't like, saying words against their hearts, wearing thick masks, but forgetting their truest appearance;
How many people, obviously able to explore their own poetry and distant places, but for fame and fortune, give up their inner desires, struggle in the ocean of desire, and fight with themselves in boundless thoughts.
But, do you know that if you are a fierce horse, only the grassland can make you let go and run; if you are a tree, you can only see the sun if you try to grow upwards.
Therefore, only by living out your own authenticity can you improve yourself, can you find your own spring blossoms, can you plant sycamore trees, attract golden phoenixes, and can you "if you bloom, butterflies will come."
In life, there is never a distinction between high and low, and fate never really treats anyone kindly.
The person you envy, it is likely that in the night, there is sadness that you can't see, behind people, there are regrets that you can't imagine, every thing in life, in fact, seems to be a gift, most of which is clearly marked.
So, if you don't get it in the moment, don't be sad, because you haven't given enough; if you are envious in the moment, don't be lost, because you still need to keep waiting.
The surprise of life is that many things, which seem to be the answer, actually give you unlimited expectations.
So, please yourself, don't panic, don't mess, the world can be boring, but your life must be interesting.
Halfway through life, I realized that what you lost will come back in another way
Life, unsatisfactory, will always be nine times out of ten.
Therefore, there are ups and downs, the party is life; there are gains and losses, the party is life.
No matter how unsmooth you are at the moment, you must understand that the day needs to live out the mentality of "not being insulted and not being shocked, being indifferent and self-assured", in order to have the surprise of "willow dark flowers and bright villages".
You know, what suits you is the best, and what you lose will always come back in another way.
The Buddha has a saying: Most of your suffering is because of your obsession.
So, don't live so tired, don't always be entangled in the past, don't always grasp the past and don't let go, you know, everything in the world has cause and effect. Everything you think and do in the present moment will be returned to you one day in the future.
The south wall that has been hit will one day become a smooth road; the wind and rain that have been drenched will one day turn into a warm sun.
Mr. Yang Dai once said: All your troubles come from thinking too much and reading too little.
So, grit your teeth and insist on going your way, love the people you should love, read the books you should read... In this way, you can survive when you can't see the dawn, can you cultivate your best temperament in the future, and can you live out the "strong" you want.
You have to remember that the tearful eyes that have cried and look at the sky will be incomparably clear; you must understand that the broken heart will be stronger; you must know that no matter who you meet in the moment, you are the person you should meet, no matter what happens, it is what should happen.
Letting everything go naturally is your attitude towards life; being at ease with everything is your posture of living.
Halfway through life, I understand: let go of the burden, in order to live out the true self
People, always the more they live, the more they like to be quiet.
Quietly reminisce about the past, quietly accept the present, and quietly move towards the future.
Just because, after experiencing it, you will understand: in the long years, most of what you think you can have is only temporary; you think you will not leave you, but a turn is a lifetime; what you think you can wait for tomorrow, but if you lose, you will not come back.
Only by living well in the present moment and letting go of burdens can we live out our own reality.
Everything in the world has its laws, just like the flow of the four seasons, spring flowers and autumn moons, summer rain and winter snow, you can only make yourself broad-minded, the pattern is lofty, can you see the flowers are flowers, see the sea is the sea, can you install the "bright moon in the mountains", and understand the "dripping rain under the eaves".
Only when the mind is quiet can the eyes be clear; only when the heart is clear can we tolerate things.
The world has always been changing, we can only accept, can adapt, as for those who can not forget, you have to believe that one day, will only become your plate of wine dishes, you will safely tell your children and grandchildren about the old past, calmly and calmly laugh.
Everyone's heart, there are their own "can't go out", there will be others ' can't come in", don't force it, time will untie everything, and will also give you an answer.
Learn to be grateful, learn to be content, and you will find that there is a lot of warmth around you, which has been shining light on you and shining in front of you.
Halfway through life, I understand: not to argue, is to really live to understand
So-called, when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are clear, there are no friends.
It can be seen that indisputably, is the real wisdom.
Fight with family, fight around, there is no family affection; fight with friends, fight around, there is no friendship... You think that what you are fighting for is reason, money, and profit; but you don't know that what you have lost is love, love, and warmth.
In this world, there is really no distinction between white and black, only your inner uneasiness and competition. If there is a Buddha in the heart, there is sunshine in life; there is a demon in the heart, and there is only dark night in life.
Those that sting your heart are often the indifference left behind in the depths of your heart; those that make you feel amorous are often the efforts you have been vulnerable to.
Therefore, the world, what is not obtained, is not necessarily beautiful. Live a little more open-mindedly, get out of the inner wounds, live a little freely, don't always be confused.
Life, there is no perfection; emotions, always mixed with joy and sorrow; the road, when it does not pass, we must learn to turn; when things, when we can't go on, we must learn to let go; fate, when leaving, we must learn to follow fate.
Don't be so entangled, don't think so much, do your best, just no regrets.
The world is constantly complicated, everyone will have countless difficulties in the heart, look down a little, look down on the flashy vicissitudes, let love and hate at will, let the sadness and joy follow the heart.
Life is like a poem.
Trivial and with a little bit of warmth, sad and with joy.
And, as mortals, we only need to remember:
In this life, don't be harsh on yourself, don't live in the memories, believe, all you see is the scenery, letting go is relief, forgetting is happiness.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words, in the ordinary years, thick affection, thank you for your attention!