-01-
In a hurry, the Spring Festival of the Lunar Calendar, and one more day, ushered in the night of Chinese New Year's Eve.
Remember that Li Zongsheng had a "song for myself" in which he sang: Years, you don't urge, I don't push when you should come; years, you don't urge, go far, I don't chase...
However, the years urge, or not urge, we all have to go forward, there is no way back.
Time kept flowing, leaving many unfinished stories.
Beautiful things are always fleeting. At the end of the year, only the memories that have come all the way down, ripple in our hearts, make us either rejoice, or sad, or sad, or can not forget...
When night falls, watching the sky dotted with stars, there will always be imagination.
The starry sky in winter is unusually refreshing, and the air has a hint of coolness, making people can't help but recall the past in silence, as if everything is dormant, and there are thoughts wandering.
Reminiscing about the crisscrossing past of the past year, recalling those bitter and sour times, the laughter and tears in them... The days were like this, and day by day they came to an end without mercy.
Think about it, each of us is in the cry of the croak, in the joy of our loved ones, came to this world, and then, with the end of the joyful childhood, began to taste the taste of life days.
From naïve and pure youth, ignorant and ignorant, to full of vigor, and then gradually mature and stable, gradually precipitated, and slowly become sleek and sophisticated. The burden on his body is also getting heavier and heavier day by day, and finally one day, suddenly looking back, he has reached middle age with old age and small age.
Three meals a day, fireworks, wandering in the heart, do not dare to speak. Only when I was alone in the middle of the night, I silently licked the wounds left by life.
-02-
Have a friend who opens a shop.
Before the start of the epidemic, his store was in a large shopping mall, although the profit was not overflowing, but it was basically able to maintain operation, and there was still some surplus every year, but this year, the coldness of the mall allowed him to close the façade in advance before the end of the year to save money.
Ask him: Is it difficult this year?
He smiled and said: Of course, but it is difficult to survive.
Yes, we are all urged by the years to hurry forward, whether it is you in the present, in the mud, or on the smooth road, whether it is falling, or with loss in our hearts, whether it is joy or sadness... No matter what happens to you, don't look back at the tribulations you've experienced and the difficulties you can't get through.
Because, people who live well in this world are people who can take out the sunshine mentality and reconcile with life.
They will not be disturbed by the world, but strive to make their current bad life and the ups and downs of fate, have a balance point, so that their hearts, always in peace, go forward peacefully.
There is a saying that a wide alley is not wide, and a narrow alley is not narrow.
This sentence is full of philosophy and wisdom. When the heart is wide, your world is also wider; and when the heart is narrow, your world is also narrow.
Therefore, in our lifetime, whether we want to live a stormy and snowy life, or twist and tangle, are all out of our own mentality.
-03-
Zeng Guopan once said that "three realms of life".
Teenagers cannot withstand favorable circumstances, middle-aged people cannot withstand idleness, and old age cannot withstand adversity.
When people are young, if they experience more things, they will have some benefits.
Let people have some twists and turns in the journey of life, so that they can not be so frivolous and not too proud, in order to make the future road wider and wider.
After middle age, if you live too idle, you will lose your fighting spirit, lose a lot of fun in struggle, and lose your direction and forget your original intention.
And, people are old, but also can not withstand the toss, if there is a little setback at this time, it is easy to collapse.
So, we need to have some good attitudes on the way through life.
In this way, we can find stability in the ruins of the wilderness; calm in the wind and waves; and in times of pessimism and loss. Be able to see the clear blue sky; in times of grievance and suffering, do not panic or rush.
How many people have struggled with the desire for money all their lives, have it, and want to have more, even if they are not afraid of breaking the law and committing crimes;
How many people have abandoned their former chaff in the ocean of love, forgotten their vows, and even if they are criticized, they still do not know shame;
Man always has to let himself have it when he doesn't have it, but once he has it, he forgets his true face and becomes a slave to "money and desire" .
-04-
Years, after all, are a pig-killing knife.
We cannot rule over all things.
The only thing we can see is our own life, and the only thing we can control is our present and future.
Therefore, live a little calmer, go with the flow, the older the time, the more plain the heart, the older the time, the more you have to enjoy the calm face.
Who doesn't regret the years that have passed?
Who wouldn't want to go all over again?
However, you can no longer put it down, and no matter how dead you hold it in the palm of your hand, you will only miss the current time in the end, without making up for it.
A few days ago, I watched Proust's "Remembrance of The Years of Water", and the years, in his eyes, are classics.
The sunlit church bell tower; the loving kiss of his mother every night before he went to bed; the maiden standing in front of the fence; the scent of lilacs coming from the evening of the thunderstorm... All kinds of beauty, in the case of the author's suffering from disease, are described so beautifully.
Years will always give everyone, the same ending, different experiences, will always make everyone's life color have a different rendering.
However, whether it is black and white, or colorful, whether it is a single loneliness or a colorful one, depends on your own state.
So, maybe in the past year, you will experience some dissatisfaction, feel some dissatisfaction, you will have some disappointment, you will suffer some grievances, but, so what?
As long as you don't take those things seriously, others won't affect you in the slightest.
Everything in the world, there are wide and narrow, there are big and small, there are sacrifices and gains, life can be "ten miles in the spring wind", it is not surprising, and if you can "walk to the end of the water, sit and watch the clouds rise", only when you see the fire and skill, you can show your cultivation and cognition.
-05-
New year, don't think about it so much.
Because you will find that there will always be a moment, time will be like a thief, stealing your youth, becoming your passer-by; there will always be a day when you will find two sideburns and begin to have white hair dotted among them.
Therefore, living healthy is to be safe, and to live peacefully is to be brilliant.
Life, there is not so much glory, only health, only a good body, is to live successfully.
In this life, don't always carry the weight forward, anytime, anywhere, to delete the complexity and simplify yourself, so that you can live more easily and happily, so that you can really bear the baptism of the years.
Nietzsche once said that every day that did not dance was a disgrace to life.
You know, in this life, there will always be peaks and valleys, there will always be "thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi", so go to the narrow place, do not panic, be kind to yourself; go to the wide place, do not be proud, have a normal heart.
2021, all this past, is the prologue;
2022, a new beginning, a new chapter.
Whenever you walk the road under your feet, now is the best time.
It's a new year again, the evening breeze of spring, the fragrance of flowers in summer, the fiery red of autumn, the plain white of winter, live every day, as long as you want to have, when is not too late.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!