Uncle Lover's Introduction:
One of the things that people have to learn in their lifetime is actually to "shut up", which seems easy, but it is really difficult to do. "Shut up" is actually a kind of wisdom, if a woman can achieve "shut up" in life is not far from happiness. People of the older generation like to say that the parents are short, perhaps people have a sense of loneliness when they are older, and they always have to say a few words when they meet people, and they like to repeat one thing.
Learning to "shut up" is a compulsory course in a person's life, and being able to ignore some things in life is a very powerful and popular woman. Some things that women don't ask are not stupid, these three things are really smart to ask.
Smart women, don't ask others about their past
The best way to keep a distance between people is the so-called sense of proportion. If two people lose their sense of proportion in their interactions, then the feelings will deteriorate. Whether it's love or friendship, smart women will maintain a sense of proportion. When getting along with people, what should not be said is not said, and what should not be asked is not asked.
Some people think that women do not like to talk is introverted, some people think that women do not talk more is not good at words, in fact, it is not so, do not ask more and say more sometimes it is the wisdom of women. Smart women don't ask about other people's past.
Everyone has their own past, some people don't want to mention it themselves, so why should we be the one who exposes other people's scars? This only creates disgusting emotions. The ancients said: "Do not do to others what you do not want", you should also consider the feelings of others when asking about their past.
Smart women never ask others much about their past, because the past is over, unless others are willing to take the initiative to say it, otherwise "shut up" is the best way to get along.
A wise woman who does not probe into other people's private affairs
Everyone has their own secrets, we always have our own ideas and the past does not want to be known, then just put it in their own hearts, if someone is not interesting and always asks, you can imagine how the other person feels. Silly women always like to break the casserole and ask the end, and smart women never take the initiative to listen to other people's private affairs.
Everyone has curiosity, but we also need to understand why curiosity kills cats. Sometimes knowing too much is not necessarily a good thing, everyone has their own life, you don't always have to be curious about other people's lives, you know too much is not much meaning. Smart women never pay any attention to it, and living their own life is the most important thing.
Smart women, not entangled in other people's economy
Many women gossip about others, just for their own inner pleasure, this pleasure may come from a kind of emptiness and lack in the heart, such a woman is very stupid, because when you go to gossip about other people's economy, you expose your heart.
Women should not take other people's finances too seriously, and should not always compare their lives with those around them. You have to know that all this is because of ignorance and emptiness, and the really intelligent and full-hearted woman does not have the heart to pay attention to others so much, even if you know it doesn't make sense. Others will not spend money on you, and you may not help others who are very poor, so asking too much will only make everyone uncomfortable.
Uncle Epilogue:
It is not wrong to be unclear about many things, and sometimes people know too much and have trouble. As a smart woman, you should understand that people's mouths are not used to talk, but to taste good food, it is useless to talk more, and learning to shut up is really smart.