When you have gone through vicissitudes, you are also shaking hands with the world

"When you have experienced vicissitudes, you are also shaking hands with the world" | text: Winter moon flying snow

"If you have been weathered by the wind and frost, you will also reap the most precious wealth in your life."

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Always used to be alone in the middle of the night in the quiet moment, quietly looking at the window, thinking about the meaning of life by the window, always writing your own words when lonely and lonely, in the text, I can see your loss and uneasiness, the world is not as beautiful as you think, many things can only be understood after experience, the world is not so bad, flowers bloom on the tree-lined path, people who work hard to live will live a plain as water life into a romantic poem, bits and pieces of romance make people fascinated, There is your bright smile under the sun, time passes like this for a second, and you are also looking for your own direction in the process of thinking about the meaning of life.

How long does it take to walk a road to see the end of hope? How many winds and frosts does a person have to go through to be truly unfazed? There are countless beautiful landscapes on the road of life, some people chant poems when enjoying the scenery, some people are immersed in happiness, unable to extricate themselves, some people look at old postcards, nostalgic for the beauty they once had, and some people, looking at the messages on their mobile phones, feel particularly anxious, when they are anxious, who can understand their desires and stops, and who will resist all the darkness for them? Lonely people will only feel the beauty of the world, stubborn people will always silently adhere to the belief in their hearts, paranoid people have always been paranoid, lonely people wear headphones, listen to one sad song after another, recall everything they have experienced, and feel a lot of emotions in their hearts.

You were born out of place with the world, so it is difficult to integrate into the group, your ideas no one can understand, no one to help you when you are isolated, sometimes you always think that you are not good enough, so you have not wanted to open up to the people around you, in the work your performance is not outstanding enough, the treatment of your family is also very cold, but who knows, how much pressure you have carried, to find a job you like? How many gossip have you ever faced before you learn to be strong?

The night is still as dark as ever, the wounds in your heart are inadvertently torn, the road full of thorns, you have walked for a long time, but you can't see the end of the road, the written words tell the unknown sad things you have experienced, but few people read carefully, you are born ordinary but also special, there is no million family wealth, no beautiful face, but there is a persistent heart, your attachment no one can understand, your loneliness no one can feel empathy, so you can only silently look at the news in the mobile phone, Over and over again, a feeling of sadness came to mind.

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You once said to me, girls grow up without a home, this sentence is full of countless heartaches and helplessness, your family does not recognize you, friends around you will leave you when you are frustrated and frustrated, as if the world is only left with an isolated and helpless self, busy at work every day, but can not do excellent results, every day hovering between two points and a line, but not easy to open your heart, but who knows, once you are also a little girl full of fantasies about love, eager to meet the Prince Charming in your heart, But the reality is often cruel, excellent people abound, and you, but you have never been favored by the person you like, hypocritical people will use your simplicity to deceive you, indifferent people will forget all your efforts, and you can only cry silently in a quiet corner, even your family has never recognized you, and you are accustomed to such a life.

No longer longing for love, no longer expecting anyone, no longer having unrealistic fantasies, no longer easily opening up to whom, is this your current situation? The hard armor wraps the soft heart, removing all disguises and defenses, and who can see your vulnerability? Work hard in the workplace, just to prevent yourself from being eliminated by this society, in the middle of the night a person brushing vibrato, looking at the scenery outside the window, suddenly, want to go back to many years ago, at least, at that time, you, are happy, always have a bright smile on your face, at least, at that time, you have a lot of beautiful visions for life, looking forward to one day, become a better self, to achieve the unfinished dream in your heart.

Dreams are so beautiful, the cruelty of reality often makes you feel helpless, how many insomnia nights, you have felt sad because of the loss of the person you love the most? How many busy nights have you had sitting at your computer with loneliness on your face? This world is not beautiful, so there will be so many people, doing the most dangerous work, just to live hard, live, you will see hope, so, have been working silently, living the life you want, it is not an easy thing, people who have been weathered by the wind and frost, the body that has long been injured has no skin, the feeling of sadness spreads in your heart, the cold wind, blowing over your cheeks, and who will dry the tear marks in the corners of your eyes for you, the feeling of pity, haunting your heart, but no one can understand your desire to stop.

Over the years, you have been sullen and unhappy because of the work, and have also had a lot of conflicts with your family, the life they arranged for you, is not the life you want, so you have been trying to resist, they always think that your ideas are too naïve, so they have always wanted to restrain your freedom, and you have chosen to flee, once you, because you did not realize the dream in your heart and sullen, but also for the love of the person you love to exhaust all the experience, the message on the phone read over and over again, But no one can accompany you to chat until late at night, the loneliness of the night comes to you, but you can only endure silently, on the surface of the lively and cheerful you, in fact, the heart is sensitive, sometimes because of a word and feel sullen, but also because of a small act of others and feel warm, sometimes innocent like a child, sometimes show their mature side to people, there are many people like you in this world, but no one will tell you how to become a better self, you bury all your grievances in your heart, Just to prevent others from seeing your inner vulnerability, but always feel lonely, do not know, there are many people in this world who are as lonely as you, and they are also silently changing themselves.

Yes, the world is beautiful and cruel coexist, some people in the frustrated, suddenly found abandoned by the world, some people have been silently working hard, the brilliant galaxy is still shining dazzling light, beautiful dancers are still standing on the most gorgeous stage, with words as companions, sitting in front of the computer every day quietly thinking, people who love to travel, feel the comfort and beauty of this world, the quiet of the night will make people fall into contemplation, the beauty of dreams, always give people endless reverie, rainbows after the rain, blooming with brilliant light, Happiness in the fairy tale world will make people fascinated, this world is so ever-changing, born ordinary you, it is like this, while feeling the beauty of the world, you will also see the cruelty of reality, so, no longer like before, feel desperate for this world, in that moment, suddenly found that you have already shook hands with this world, perhaps, time has passed a long time, and you are no longer young.

No longer young, no longer do those unrealistic dreams, so more want to live in the moment, take advantage of the opportunity to do what you want to do, do it with all your strength, take advantage of the opportunity to lose the opportunity to work hard, go to work hard for life, although the results are not satisfactory, but you have learned to accept the cruelty of reality, although you have experienced a lot of setbacks, but you can still see, the beautiful side of life, therefore, no longer as impulsive as before, do some incomprehensible things.

Embrace is not the only reliance, happiness needs to fight for themselves, life still has to continue, you learn to shake hands with the world in the process of peace, but also gradually by the cruelty of reality smoothed out the edges, mature and not sophisticated, is the most gentle way to get along with the world, gentle but with sharp edge, in the process of constantly enriching your heart, you finally learned, how to reconcile with the past self, this road, although difficult, but also the only way of your life, and you, also harvested the most precious wealth in life.

When you are a teenager, you have a longing, when you have gone through vicissitudes, you still don't forget your original heart, when you shake hands with the world and make peace, you already have a calm mentality, when you release all the pain in your heart, you are no longer the youthful and ignorant self, the world is still constantly changing, you are the same, beauty and crisis coexist, you are also constantly making your heart become rich, is this a kind of transformation? And you, too, will become a better version of yourself.

So, don't be disappointed in this world, time will heal the scars of the heart, don't give up the expectation of life, perhaps, you are no longer naïve, but the world is still beautiful, the rainbow after the wind and rain, is still the most brilliant rainbow, weathered you, will also harvest the most precious wealth in life, happiness will one day, come to your world!

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Pen name: Winter Moon Feixue, words are the language I use to record my mood, I use her to express emotions, reflect on myself, and strive to become a better version of myself.

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