What is indispensable in the world is: relatives, partners, friends.
Because only by having these at the same time can we harvest true happiness, so that there will be no loneliness, and we can think that we are valuable, worthy of being loved and guarded.
However, in real life, people often do not think well enough to have these at the same time.
To put it bluntly, it may be because of family affection to ignore friends, it may also be because the partner ignores friends, in short, do not care much about anyone, will not consider whose feelings.
The person you love in your heart is the most important, will give special treatment, will keep in touch, will make the position stable, and will sincerely hope that the other party is good.
This situation is very normal, because the heart is only so big, it can't hold too many people at all, and it can only ignore some people and reduce the number of contacts.
Without too much harm to others, will not become an enemy, will not cause trouble, and will not be retaliated against in the next life, there is no need to hide.
But this world is big, there are no wonders.
There are some people, who are very heavy-minded, always thinking about calculating others, getting something from others, and not thinking about problems from the perspective of others at all.
A person can not be made, then he often will not have any friends.
Because no one is stupid, being hurt once will be remembered, will pay attention to a lot of details, will not be easily hurt a second time, will not let themselves have so many difficult days.
There are three kinds of people, mixed to the end, not a single friend, hope you are not hit.
Strong jealousy
If you can't see others being good, you can't be good yourself.
This is true, but many people do not feel this way, thinking that it is beneficial to themselves to bring harm to others, and they can do more such things.
To tell the truth, this kind of person is very terrible, not only do not realize their mistakes, what kind of impact they will bring to themselves, but also think that it is the most correct way to do so.
Seeing that others are doing well, you can learn from him, ask more questions, and improve yourself, rather than trying to pull the other person into the abyss.
People like those who don't want others to be better, as long as they see that others are slightly better than themselves, they are red-eyed and unacceptable, and they are doomed not to get small achievements and will not be better.
Who is such a person, whose life will go downhill, who will become without friends, who will feel lonely, who will not like this kind of life now.
Don't talk about integrity
If you can't do it, who will believe you?
Do things with people, assign good tasks, you drag on and don't do it, resulting in imperfect handling of things, then others will no longer trust you and will no longer cooperate with you.
Another example: open your mouth to manage others to borrow money, and also say when to pay it back, but you don't mention it at all, as if you didn't care that he borrowed money.
What you do always affects the normal life of others, then you really have no friends, and you can only find a way to complete anything alone.
To be a person, we must talk and count, not paint people with cakes, not say it casually.
You must be clear that only when you do what you say can others trust you, so that you will not feel that you are a liar, and will not think that you are unreliable.
In interpersonal communication, before you speak and do things, you must think, you can't have no sense of responsibility, you can't be indifferent, don't care about the attitude.
frank and outspoken
Knowing people, planning to be good friends, through getting along, you can find that being friends with him is not happy, feeling upset every day, and really don't want to see him again.
In fact, people are the same, and whoever they feel uncomfortable with, they are not willing to get along with anyone, and all they think about is to be farther away, farther away.
For example: if you meet a person who looks like he can have deep friendships, but after contacting him, you find that he cannot be friends, then you must not want to be friends with him again.
On the contrary, you do things with mud and water, talk but brain, always let people's hearts are not taste, that must not be able to retain people, all want to keep a distance from you.
Some words cannot be said, so people must pay attention to their mouths, do not want to say anything with their mouths open, and do not consider the consequences at all.
It has always been like this, then no one will get close to you, no one will think that you are not worth paying, and no one will really treat you.
summary:
There is a reason why people can't find an object all the time, and in the same way, there is a reason why people have not had true friends.
Like to calculate, every word you say is piercing, never talk about integrity, it is impossible to have friends, it is impossible to have someone to accompany you all the time.
As a person, you can't expect others to be bad, and you can't always think of hurting others.
You must know that people need help from one another, and only if you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely, and you will have a better life.
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Author: Not afraid of the future, do not read the past, can afford, can put down the free girl. Freelance writers, willing to use words to warm your heart, give you companionship, give you strength.