Shakyamuni once said, "Whoever you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, no accident, he will definitely teach you something." ”
Therefore, life is constantly meeting, constantly saying goodbye. When the year is coming to an end, looking back on the road traveled, there will always be many emotions in the heart, and those who have helped themselves deserve to be grateful and kind for a lifetime.
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Grateful, sleepy friends who do not abandon.
There is a saying: "Love is the lamp, friendship is the shadow." When the lights went out, there were shadows all around. ”
When a person encounters a major setback in life, and even the most valued love quietly leaves, those friends who are still with them and do not abandon them become the most brilliant light in the dark night.
In the past year, the circle of friends has been swept up by such a message "Man borrowed money to buy a car with an old friend with terminal cancer and finally saw the world: until he couldn't walk".
The 54-year-old He Xiangmin and his friend Liang Cheng have many years of friendship, life is not rich, after learning that Liang Cheng has cancer, decisively decided to put his work and life aside, with the three thousand yuan saved and borrowed twenty thousand yuan to buy a second-hand car, take the pots and pans and pans and leave.
Along the way, they stopped and walked, watched the scenery, stopped on the side of the road when they were tired, set up a pot to cook when they were hungry, set up a tent and took out a guitar to play and sing when they were bored, and also started a live broadcast, which is not a friendship between relatives and relatives, which has touched many people.
It is said that it is often difficult to find true friends in good times, and only by sharing hardships can we see the truth. This sentence is not unreasonable, but it is also sad: some are sleepy, maybe the handle can make people out of the haze, some difficulties, perhaps it is a desperate situation, which means life and death.
True friends, always there, do not need you to greet, he is always paying attention to you, caring about you, in your most needy, always support you, if you can, I really hope that there will not be so many difficulties in their lives, someone to share joy and happiness, how good!
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Be thankful, the person who helps you regain your strength when you are down.
The greatest evil in human nature is that "I can't see others well, especially the people around me." ”
Therefore, in interpersonal communication, people who "dismantle the stage" can be seen everywhere, and there are very few people who "make up the stage".
Just like in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Jia Yu Village, which was deeply favored by Jia Fu, acted as the "vanguard" pushed by the wall and pushed by everyone when Jia Fu was defeated, and fell down the well with a fierce heart, without the slightest sense of gratitude.
And Jia Yun, who only received the care of Jia Fu once, after Jia Fu was raided, tried every means to rescue everyone, and together with Grandma Liu, who ransomed her family to redeem Qiao's sister, wrote the most "humane" chapter, showing the beauty of human nature of "the grace of dripping water, when the spring repays".
Comparing the two, the evil of Jia Yu Village and the goodness of Jia Yun are more and more distinct.
In the past year, we have met all kinds of people, no shortage of calculating villains, evil people with two sides and three knives, who hide in the shadows, all kinds of "bad", make people invincible, and also fall over the head, hurt feelings, and mess up everything.
But these rotten people and rotten things should not become an obstacle in life, but should be like handwriting on the beach, washed away by the waves.
And it should always be those who help themselves to regain their strength. They encourage again and again, remind them again and again, pretend to pass by again and again, but deliberately match, all in order to make you regain your confidence, re-establish goals, and start again.
When you can't stick to it, he will always use his own way to pave the way for you and cheer for you. It's not until you're back on track that you're relieved.
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Gratitude, the person who gives you hope in times of crisis.
Shakespeare once wrote, "No matter how long the night is, the day will always come." ”
When a person falls into a dangerous situation, the person who gives hope is like a bright light in the dark night, illuminating the way forward.
In the movie "Fanny's Journey", Mrs. Forman, who volunteered to help Jewish children escape in order to escape the German-Italian fascists, divided the children into groups and fled by train.
Sixteen or seventeen-year-old Itachi was chosen as the leader of a group and led eight children to sit in the same carriage. Itachi is a humorous, witty and brave big brother in his daily life, but when he sees the German fascists outside the car window, his look changes drastically, abandons everyone, and flees in a hurry.
In the midst of the crisis, Mrs. Forman appointed the nimble Fanny as the group leader and asked her to lead everyone to the designated meeting place. Ten-year-old Fanny was overwhelmed by the danger, but Mrs. Forman, who was unable to travel with her, encouraged her to "pretend to be calm in fear and be sure to succeed." ”
During the transfer, Fanny meets the arrested Ita, after which he gives Fanny a letter asking her to send it out and tells her not to look at it. The letter was a belief that Fanny had escaped, and she had been carrying it with her, but it was found to be a blank piece of paper.
But the empty letter became Fanny's strongest belief and hope, as she said to the desperate young men with this blank piece of paper: We will carry this letter across the border to safety.
As long as there is hope in the heart, use motivation to move forward, and bravely meet all challenges without fear of danger and fear.
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Conclusion:
Along the way, there are bitterness and joy, laughter and tears, those who make us "hurt our bones", forcing us to continue to grow, those who have helped us, let us always move forward with warmth and emotion.
Remembering gratitude in the heart and turning the emotion into strength, there is a string of solid and determined steps, moving in the direction of happiness.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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