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Loving others with measure and loving yourself unconditionally | Cheng Yi
Author: Rainwater Micro-Ann
Source: Meet Weian-studio
At a certain age, we will find that it is really silly to love so much that we are desperate.
No matter how much they love each other, girls must keep their bottom line in love.
Only you have an attitude and principles.
The other party will not hurt you without hesitation by taking your liking.
Don't be a third party, even if you like it again
True love must be frank and frank, and it can walk in the sun.
If a person and a relationship cannot make you introduce it to the people around you.
Then you'd better not continue.
You know, flowers that grow in the shadows don't bloom for long.
Feelings that can't take you to meet friends and family have no future.
Girls, remember at all times:
Even if you like it, don't be a third party in a relationship.
If you don't like it, refuse, don't be ambiguous
The ambiguity in the relationship will really hurt many people.
A lot of times, your hesitation and wavering can really hurt people.
There was once a boy who was frantically pursuing Leaf, and he tried with all his strength to be good to her.
But what about the leaves?
He enjoys his goodness with peace of mind, but keeps a secret about their relationship.
Every time the guy said to her, "Be my girlfriend," she always chose to avoid it.
Later, he found a new girlfriend, not Leaf.
There is a song that sings "Ambiguity makes people feel wronged".
If the person who really loves you really won't be able to bear to let you suffer this kind of wrong.
And you, don't be ambiguous with people you don't like.
Keep an appropriate distance from your girlfriend/friend/co-worker's boyfriend
Smart girls know,
No matter how close the relationship is, you must keep a certain distance from the boyfriend of the person next to you.
This is not only a basic courtesy, but also a basic principle of how to behave in the world.
After all, seeing green tea that everyone is "brother long brother short" is really quite superhuman.
Moreover, it will also make the people around you feel that you are lonely and empty and lack love.
In the long run, who are you bothering?
Don't shed too many tears for one person
In relationships, we've all experienced a lot of moments of collapse:
Lost love breaks up, misses true love.
I have also been sad because of the loss of a relationship, because of the departure of a person.
Sad to the point of not being able to eat, unable to sleep, sad to the point of drying up tears...
But looking back at myself at that time, I just think it's ridiculous.
There are really many things in this world that are more important than feelings.
There is no need to feel like the end of the world because of a breakup or failure.
Because a person's departure sheds too many tears is the least worthwhile.
Sooner or later you will know that the person who truly loves you will not leave you;
And the person who can leave you must not love you.
Please love yourself first
At any time, love yourself first.
The rules of operation in the adult world are actually very simple.
Your attitude toward yourself determines what kind of attitude others will use towards you.
Only if you take yourself seriously, will someone be willing to take you seriously;
Only if you treat yourself well first, will someone be willing to treat you well;
Only if you know how to please yourself, will someone be willing to spend time to please you;
Whatever happens, love yourself first.
You have to believe:
As long as you are well, there is still a chance to turn the tables against the wind and start again.
Walk through the streets of many cities and see the love stories of many people.
I just understood that the bottom line of falling in love is really important.
It is a ruler and a guideline.
It is also that we must always be alert to our own existence.
Many people are because of the lack of the bottom line, so they lose themselves step by step and slide into the abyss.
It doesn't matter where you are, what kind of work you do, what kind of friends you have around you.
I hope that when you talk about love, you will have a smile on your face and a light under your eyes.
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