Zhang Ailing said, "In the tens of millions of people to meet the people you meet, in the tens of millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, nor a step later, just caught up", love is a torturous thing, since ancient times, the literati rioters have a lot of wind, especially in the early stage of civilization and civilization in the Republic of China period, personal talent and emotional quality are not proportional, those famous masters who are highly respected by today's people have more or less some emotional flaws.
Among them, the most vigorous and the most talked about today is Xu Zhimo's love story, a man and three women's lifelong bondage, but all the love and hatred eventually disappeared with the tragic death of the male protagonist. When Xu Zhimo died in a plane crash, with a big hole in his head and half of his body broken, the death was tragic, but the eulogy of Wen Wan writer Bing Xin seemed to have something else to say, what did she really mean?
A generation of talented people love ups and downs
"Quiet is the parting of the Sheng Zhen, silence is tonight's Kangqiao", a song "Farewell to Kangqiao" let countless people recognize the great poet Xu Zhimo, and those poor children Yu Yuelongmen are different, Xu Zhimo was born in a wealthy family, his father Xu Shenru is the president of the local chamber of commerce, there are many industries under his name, Xu Zhimo has devoted himself to learning since he was a child, he has a solid foundation in ancient Chinese at the age of 3, and he has a solid foundation in ancient Chinese, and he has been reading books for many years, so that he can control the text very well, and he has also opened his own creative road.
In 1915, due to the words of his parents, he and Zhang Youyi were married, and the two did not have any contact or understanding before, but after marriage, although they could not say Qin Ser and Ming, they could also be regarded as respectful.
In 1918, Xu Zhimo took his wife Zhang Youyi to the United States to study in Britain, completely in the new culture of Xu Zhimo deeply felt that the gap between him and his wife was getting bigger and bigger, and at the same time he met Lin Huiyin, the daughter of his good friend Lin Changmin, he fell in love with this talented and beautiful woman at first sight, and then launched a passionate pursuit, even at the expense of divorcing the original Zhang Youyi, who was already pregnant.
However, Lin Huiyin did not agree to Xu Zhimo's courtship after repeated consideration, but chose to marry Liang Qichao's son Liang Sicheng, who lost his beloved Xu Zhimo for a period of time, but then devoted himself to literary creation, but Lin Huiyin became the white moonlight in his heart, and this woman who could not get it was different from all the women before and after.
Later, Xu Zhimo and his friend's wife Lu Xiaoman had a long-term relationship, which can be described as a friend's wife can not be deceived, Xu Zhimo's father also tried his best to oppose them together, but Xu Zhimo was not afraid of people's words, and he was determined to be with Lu Xiaoman, in 1926, he finally had to taste what he wanted to marry Lu Xiaoman, and at the wedding site, the witness scolded Xu Zhimo, which can also be regarded as a unique wedding.
At first, the husband and wife were inseparable, but with the passage of time, there was also a contradiction between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo's love life was constantly involved with these three women, but death ended all this alone.
The death of the British year is miserable.
In 1933, Xu Zhimo flew from Nanjing to Beiping, and since marrying Lu Xiaoman, Lu Xiaoman's extravagance forced Xu Zhimo to work hard, often traveling between many places, but this time there was an accident. At that time, when the plane passed through Jinan, the fog caused great trouble to the flight, because the line of sight was blocked, the plane hit the top of the White Horse Mountain, and the body began to catch fire in an instant, and then fell, and the final result was that all the personnel on the plane were killed.
That year, Xu Zhimo was only 35 years old, which was the best period for a poet, but he fell violently. The next day, the news of Xu Zhimo's death was published on the front page of the newspaper, and his good friend Shen Congwen and others immediately rushed to Jinan to deal with his aftermath.
In Shen Congwen's letter to his friend, we know that the scene at that time was quite tragic, the whole plane was burned, the captain had been burned into coke, the clothes on Xu Zhimo's body had also been burned, the left arm and left leg were all broken, there was a big hole in the head, and the image of the glorious moon in the past was no longer seen, and Xu Zhimo's tragic situation could not be seen directly.
The ice heart eulogy has a deep meaning
"Wave your sleeve, don't take away a cloud", Xu Zhimo quietly left, but left endless sorrow to relatives and friends, Xu Zhimo's death is a loss for the entire literary circle, and people from all walks of life have presented eulogies.
Although his ex-wife Zhang Youyi was ruthlessly abandoned, she still had love for Xu Zhimo in her heart, and her tie was unique and full of sorrow, which was endless regret and sadness for his wife Lu Xiaoman. Among the many eulogies, the eulogy of the female writer Bing Xin is more worthy of in-depth consideration, although Bing Xin and Xu Zhimo are in the same era but do not intersect much, she only expressed her views on Xu Zhimo's death in her correspondence with Liang Shiqiu.
She was sure of Xu Zhimo's talent, but she still had an opinion on Xu Zhimo, she said, "Shima is dead, using wisdom, under an inhumane, unbluminous behavior, people who are still welcomed by a group of people in society have got a home!" This eulogy is meaningful.
In the words, there is dissatisfaction with some of Xu Zhimo's behavior, and at the end of the letter, she expresses it directly, she said, "When it comes to women, is it "women who misunderstand him"? Or "he mistook the woman"? Shima is a butterfly, not honey, he can't get the benefits of women, and the disadvantages of women make him sacrifice", it can be seen that Bingxin mainly expresses dissatisfaction with that woman, and people who know a little about Bingxin know that the woman is Lin Huiyin.
Bing Xin has always disliked Lin Huiyin, even to the point of dislike, she did not hide this at all, before Lin Huiyin often invited some famous artists at home to hold salons, but most of them are men, in order to show irony, Bing Xin also published an article "Mrs. Huiyin's Living Room", pointing to Lin Huiyin.
And this time Xu Zhimo's death also has an indirect relationship with Lin Huiyin, at that time according to the plan Xu Zhimo was the next day to leave for Beiping, but that night Lin Huiyin had a speech in Beiping, in order to personally go to the scene, Xu Zhimo took the crashed plane, and finally died in Jinan, but it is a pity that he left the human world forever on the way to visit Baiyueguang Lin Huiyin, so Bingxin said that "the badness of women makes him sacrifice", which is Ming Huanghuang's dissatisfaction with Lin Huiyin.
Xu Zhimo's untimely death is indeed a pity, and his attitude towards feelings is indeed easy to criticize, but as far as love is concerned, it is indeed incomprehensible, so it is difficult to accuse Xu Zhimo from the emotional aspect. Although his death has a certain relationship with Lin Huiyin, Bingxin's view is somewhat subjective, after all, she has long seen Lin Huiyin unpleasant, and now these "old people" have disappeared one by one in the rolling red dust, leaving us with the classics that have been handed down to the world, as for those graces and grievances have long been dispersed with the wind.