The world is very big, and if you accidentally turn around, you will not see each other; but the world is very small, and you will meet each other around the corner. Fate is really a wonderful thing, it prompts us to know each other, to meet, to fall in love, and then to separate, and perhaps to meet again.
But fate can also be very fragile, always very tolerant of being destroyed. Mother-in-law is also another kind of fate, but this fate often becomes very broken, the mother-in-law is not accustomed to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law can not stand the mother-in-law, like a gap that cannot be crossed. The mother-in-law does not understand the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law does not want to indulge the mother-in-law, and the two people are like gasoline, which is easier.
1. Use each one
Li Weiran's mother married at the age of twenty and gave birth to a child at the age of twenty-one, so when Li Weiran got married, Li Weiran's mother was only forty-four years old, and twenty-three-year-old Li Weiran and twenty-two-year-old Su Yu formed a family, which was too early for young people to get married at this age.
In this year of marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, like most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, is not very harmonious, and the mother-in-law is simply more nosy than the mother of Su Language, not allowing this, not allowing that.
"Su Yu, why are there so many couriers here, and what are you buying?"
"Oh, these couriers were bought for me by Aran, they were all cosmetics, skin care products, I dismantled them in the living room and took them in, I'll clean them up in a moment."
"Let Ah Ran buy it for you again, did you give him money?"
"Huh? My husband bought me something, why should I give him money? ”
"My son earns money very hard, can't let him fight everything alone, then how much pressure he has, you as his wife don't know how to share a little." 」
"Mom, you're not right about this, why didn't I help him share, did I let him cook and wash clothes when he came back from work, did I let him worry about things at home, you and dad went to the hospital for physical examinations are accompanied by me, I help him deal with the affairs of the rear, so that he has no worries, isn't this a sharing?"
"What do you share, he is very tired of making money outside, he has to deal with customer leaders every day, he has been saving money, you buy things alone, you have no financial pressure, of course, you don't know Aran's suffering."
"I spend his money just because I don't care about him, Mom, you don't spend less of his money, why don't you be considerate of him?"
"I'm his mother, is there anything wrong with his money, I raised him so big."
"I'm still his wife for the rest of his life, the one who gives him children."
"Okay, if you say so, then neither of us should use his money, but use your young people's AA system." The mother-in-law really couldn't say that this daughter-in-law, so she gambled to agree with her on the AA system.
"I have no problem, although I am at home every day, but Mom, don't forget that I have an income." Su Yu is a full-time novel writer, and the novels he writes are still very well read on the website, and there are a group of small fans.
"I have no income, but I have a retirement salary, enough to eat, I don't want you to buy everything." 」
Su Yu really didn't want to argue with her mother-in-law anymore, so she took her courier back to the bedroom and slammed the door shut. Seeing Su Yu's attitude, the mother-in-law said loudly directly in the living room: "I still lose my temper, I don't look like a junior at all, I really don't know where my son looks at you." ”
2. Pregnancy at the same time
In the evening, when Li Weiran returned from work, he felt that the atmosphere between his daughter-in-law and his mother was not quite right, and quietly asked Su Yu: "Did something happen to your mother today?" ”
"Your mom said we wanted AA."
"AA system, how come you suddenly did these things?"
"Your mother is distressed about her son, and thinks that her daughter-in-law always spends her son's money, and once she doesn't know how to share, your mother says she wants the AA system."
"My mom still understands the AA system, and it's quite fashionable."
"Li Weiran, are you mistaken about the point, I can't use my husband's money, I used my husband's money wrong?"
"Oh, don't be so real, this look will know that my mother is angry, you don't take it seriously, my money is your money, you can use it."
"If your mother knew this, I was afraid that I would have to say that I would have to eat again, and I only knew how to spend money."
"Then don't let her know."
After taking a bath and lying on the bed at night, Su Yu leaned on Li Weiran's shoulder, and the god mysteriously asked him: "Can you take a leave tomorrow afternoon?" ”
"What's wrong?"
"I want you to accompany me to the hospital."
"Where are you uncomfortable, where are you hurt?" As soon as Li Weiran heard that he was going to the hospital, he worriedly checked whether Su Yu was injured and almost threw up Su Yu.
"I didn't get sick, I just didn't come for two months, I guess it was... Pregnant. ”
"Really? I'm going to be a dad, that's great. Li Weiran excitedly hugged Su Yu.
"You're so happy too soon to be sure."
"It must be true this time, your menstruation has been very regular in the past."
"You kindly said that I didn't come for two months, and you didn't pay attention."
"I'm careless, I'm sorry, wife, we'll check tomorrow morning, I'll take leave now."
The next morning Li Weiran took Su Yu to the gynecological examination, the result was really pregnant, as soon as he returned home, he reported this good news to his in-laws and in-laws, and his father-in-law was very happy, and his mother-in-law was also very happy, and there was no hostility towards Su At the moment. But what I didn't expect was that a week later, the mother-in-law suddenly fainted at home, sent to the hospital for examination and was told that she was pregnant for a lifetime, Su Yu heard the news only shocked, her mother-in-law was pregnant at the same time as herself, Su Yu felt always strange, the mother-in-law was already forty-five years old, it was considered an advanced maternal age, she thought she would choose to beat this child, did not expect that she was going to give birth.
3. Divorce by abortion
After the mother-in-law became pregnant, she was even more arrogant, ran amok at home, did not treat Su Yu as a pregnant woman, and also made Su Yu do this and that, Su Yu did not dare to be angry with an elderly mother, if something happened, she could not afford to be responsible.
"Su, I'll tell you something."
"What's the matter, Mom?"
"My child is Aran's brother, Aran's father's salary can't support three people, so I won't continue with you under the AA system, and I think you know that I was talking angry that day."
"Mom, you mean to let Li Weiran help you raise your children, then isn't my husband more stressed, and he has to raise his own children, but also raise his own mother's children."
"So what," that's his brother."
"What's in my belly is his own son!"
"I said what's wrong with you, you as a daughter-in-law have no courtesy to your mother-in-law, like anything."
"If you want to have a child, even if you don't think about your son, you should think about your father, and your father will retire in a few years, so old, you still make your father work so hard." 」
"Isn't there still my son, even if we have his brother to take care of us after a hundred years, but I really don't feel at ease with you as a sister-in-law."
"Mom, just rest assured, I won't help you raise your children." Su finished speaking and went into the bedroom.
In the evening, when Li Weiran returned, he saw that the two were unhappy and asked the reason for the matter, and the mother-in-law said it. Li Weiran went to su to communicate: "Wife, don't be angry, the children are already five months old, be careful." ”
"Li Weiran, let me make it clear to you first, I will not help your mother raise a child."
"How do you get angry with my mother, my mother is also older, maybe she just wants to have a child by her side."
"She wants a child to accompany her, isn't there a grandchild right now, isn't there you?"
"She wants to be born, anyway, I pay for it, and you don't have to pay for it."
"Li Weiran, what do you mean, I am for your own good, not the problem of money."
"You are also too stubborn, don't think about this, go to bed early, I deal with customers and leaders in the company every day, tired to death, you don't add to the chaos." 」
"Do you know what your mother did to me at home, I am a pregnant woman, she treated me like a slave, and you still say that I am in a mess, and your family has not treated me as a pregnant woman?"
"I really don't want to talk about you, every day is so broken, all say for my good, but have not considered my feelings, this child I do not have children, divorce." 」
4. Tolerance and understanding
A family could have lived with a harmonious life, but always looking at others with a narrow mind, not only will not bring pleasure to themselves, but will make themselves more angry and depressed. If a family is like a mess, sooner or later it will be divided. Everyone needs to understand others, and we need to be understood by others, we need to tolerate others, and we need to be tolerated by others.
Someone said in the article: "Love is eternal patience and kindness." Love is enduring patience and kindness. Love is not jealousy. Love is not boastful, not arrogant, not shy. Don't ask for your own benefit. Don't get angry easily. Do not count the evil of man. Don't like injustice. Only like the truth. Be inclusive in everything. Believe in everything. Hope for all things. Be patient in all things. Love never ends. ”
Another person said in the article: "When getting along, you need to be tolerant, when you love, you need to be sincere, you need to share when you are happy, you need to communicate when you quarrel, you need to accompany when you are lonely, you need comfort when you are sad, you need to be calm when you are angry, and you need to cherish when you are happy." ”
It is not easy to meet, it is not difficult to get along, and it is even more wonderful to become a family, and learn to be tolerant and understanding.
Today's Topic:
If you met the mother-in-law in the text, what would you do?