Introduction: How to let children quietly do their homework well, how to let children concentrate on learning, how to let children have good reading habits like others, etc., these are the problems that many parents will pay attention to. And these contents are the content of the child's personal learning self-discipline and habits, which can drive the child to obtain a good learning growth result.
Therefore, when children go to school, parents always hope that their children can get good self-discipline and good learning habits, and how do we cultivate this? Children's self-discipline and learning habits at the primary school level are still in the formation stage, what should we do to give children a better state of development?
Here, self-discipline and habit can not be separated to talk about, the two must be a complementary process, good habits can prompt children to become more self-disciplined, and the improvement of self-discipline ability will in turn promote children to form better learning habits. But if you want your child to have a good learning life, then you need to start from the cultivation of habits.
As parents, how do we help our children form good learning habits? Here, Xiaobian has the following suggestions:
1. Give children reasonable learning arrangements
Good habits must have reasonable behavior arrangements, if you want to make your children's habits more durable, so that children can form enough self-discipline ability, first of all, the arrangement of behavior habits must be reasonable and relaxed. Start with small habits and slowly develop them, and then form a better behavior system.
Therefore, at the beginning of the cultivation of children's habits, do not arrange a full schedule, as far as possible to design some tasks that children can complete, such as reading for half an hour, memorizing an ancient poem every day, etc. These habits may be small, but they are better than the degree of completion and more persistent.
2, ignore the need for results and emphasize the implementation of the process
Many times when parents arrange their children to do things, they are often results-oriented, such as as as long as you do this well, you can go to watch TV, you can play after doing your homework, and so on. Results-oriented constraints allow children to not have enough sustainability in doing things, that is, after doing things, they have no motivation to insist.
Therefore, if you want to really cultivate your child's habits and let your child have enough self-discipline without too much supervision by parents, you need to ignore some result-oriented needs, and focus on the implementation of the process and the cultivation of a benign life model.
3, children need to have a good identity cognitive tendency
Many times, we develop all kinds of habits, often because our subconscious wants to be what kind of person we want to be. For example, we require children to be able to develop the habit of doing homework after class and then playing, so we need to let children have awareness of their own identity, which is a habit that only a child with good academic performance has.
For example, the habit of children reading books before going to bed is largely because children think that they are a person who loves to read books, so they have such a habit. Giving children a good cognitive tendency can allow children to plan and restrain their own behavior from the subjective consciousness, and form self-discipline and habits.
4, the formation of good habits and self-discipline needs to have good results feedback
A lot of times the reason why we habitually insist on doing something is largely because we can get happy feelings in the process of doing things, and this is positive result feedback, which can prompt us to stick to things. Therefore, in order to cultivate children's good learning habits and gradually form self-discipline ability of autonomy, parents need to give their children some "rewards".
Appropriate praise, or some substantial reward, can give the child more positive feedback on something, which in turn stimulates the child to have more motivation to insist on a thing. Of course, these rewards need to be related to habits, and blindly setting and giving will have a negative impact.
Important note: If you want to cultivate good learning habits and form strong self-discipline, you need to pay attention to reasonable arrangements at the beginning of the cultivation of children's habits, change your life from micro-habits, try to avoid results-oriented and turn to process confidence, give children a good identity, and constantly give children good behavior results.
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