As the saying goes, "Raising a child is like a pikan, and it is useless to be expensive." Adopted daughters are like cotton jackets, warm and happy. This sentence speaks to the hearts of many parents.
There is a really big difference between raising a son and a daughter. Yue Yue has two children, a man and a woman, in the eyes of many people, Yue Yue should live a very happy and happy life, after all, a dragon and a phoenix, is the most perfect family structure in the traditional family concept. However, for Yue Yue, this is not the case.
After the children were both complete, the mother summed up the difference between raising a son and a daughter, and the rules were incisive
Home: The son demolishes the house, the daughter guards the house
When the baby was just born, in fact, Yue Yue was still very happy, after all, in the minds of many people, the son shouldered more family inheritance missions.
Of course, Yue Yue is not a feudal person, so it is only because this is the first child of his own that he will be very excited.
However, in the process of raising children, Yue Yue could not be happy.
When the son was in infancy, he was still more likable and looked very clever, but when the son gradually had basic mobility, Yue Yue was in a situation of "facing collapse every day".
Yue Yue's son's behavior at home is almost like a "chaos demon king", jumping up and down, not for a moment of peace, not only making a mess of the living room, but also often rummaging through boxes and cabinets, and also tearing apart a lot of intact things, etc., which simply makes Yue Yue unbearable.
Later, when she had her second child, Yue Yue gave birth to a daughter. In fact, when giving birth to the second child, Yue Yue is more entangled, because Yue Yue wants to have her second child, but she does not want a "little bully".
Perhaps it is the heavens that listened to Yue Yue's wishes, the home performance of the daughter and the son is completely different, Yue Yue's daughter has not become as "barbaric" as her son as she grows older, but has become more and more elegant and quiet, seemingly a delicate doll, often intimate with her mother, so that Yue Yue feels endless spiritual comfort.
And such a situation also surprised Yue Yue, who did not expect that the difference between son and daughter was so great.
Out: The son is like the wind, the daughter is like the bell
Yue Yue sometimes takes her children out to visit shopping malls, supermarkets and so on. However, the two children behaved completely differently on the outside.
When Yue Yue brought the children to the mall, his son was like a wild horse that was out of control, if it were not for Yue Yue's eyes and fast hands, his son would be able to run to nowhere in minutes, which can be regarded as a "man with a wind".
Such a situation also makes Yue Yue very upset, after all, in this kind of public place, the crowd is dense, and if the child is lost in this kind of place, it will be a big trouble.
However, what warmed Yue Yue was that her daughter was completely different from her son. The daughter is like a mother's accessory, where the mother goes, the daughter will follow.
As long as the mother does not deliberately want to throw away the daughter, then the daughter will follow the mother very quietly.
And when two children encounter something they like, the son often runs over happily, regardless of whether the mother follows or not. Daughters are different, daughters often call their mothers first, and then go to see them with their mothers.
Overall, when Yue Yue takes the child out, the son is more worrying, and the daughter is very reassuring.
Hygiene: The son is "sloppy", and the daughter is exquisite
After giving birth to a son, Yue Yue finally understood the source of the "smelly man", in normal times, the son is really more "smelly" than the daughter.
In fact, this situation is also inevitable, because the son's activity in the usual amount is very large, and the activity items are many, and the pollutants exposed to, as well as the sweat secreted by themselves, may produce some odors.
But the daughter is different, the daughter is relatively quiet a lot, whether it is her own sweat secretion, or contact with pollutants, there will be less, even if the body has a peculiar smell, it will not be too strong.
In addition, the son is often less patient with hygiene, such as when washing his hands, the son is always reluctant to spend too much time.
But the daughter is different, the daughter will clean every inch of the skin on the hands very carefully, as if no speck of dust can hold it.
In terms of dressing, the son can only have clothes, but the daughter is different, not only to be clean and tidy, but also to be beautiful and fairy, so as to meet the image of "little princess".
In general, the son's concern for his own health is completely inferior to that of his daughter.
Habits: The son is rough, the daughter is meticulous
In ordinary life, Yue Yue also found that there is a big difference in the habit formation of the two children. For example, when eating, the son always has a feeling of wolfing down. But the daughter is different, the daughter is mostly chewing and swallowing.
When sleeping, the son often "sleeps in bed", but the daughter prefers to arrange her sleeping environment more warmly and happily when sleeping.
When there is also learning, often when the son is studying, he is "vigorous", one moment the foot is on the bench, and the other is tilted to the grandmother's bridge.
However, when the daughter studies, she is often very serious and upright, and she looks like a serious study.
Overall, the son's behavior habits seem to be more "unrestrained", while the daughter's behavior habits are more meticulous and restrained.
In summary, the performance of the two children is very different, many people also think that Yue Yue should be more like the daughter, do not like the son, but as far as Yue Yue is concerned, although her son is very noisy, she will not hate her son for this reason, after all, the two children are their own October pregnancy of the flesh and blood, are the same love.
Write at the end
It is true that the son is more difficult to carry than the daughter when he is a child, but both the son and the daughter have their own advantages and disadvantages, and more importantly, they are all our children, and they are all little angels sent by Heaven to save us, so whether it is a son or a daughter, we should treat them with the same love, you say?
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