The wife produced a baby because of the caesarean section, did not consult with the husband, the husband proposed divorce in anger, and said, afraid of pain, do not be a woman, if it hurts, it is necessary, otherwise you will not be a person.
Childbirth, for a woman, is undoubtedly a ghost door closed, and she may die at any time. But regardless of the way of delivery, shouldn't the safety of pregnant women and fetuses be put first? Why does this husband care so much about his wife's caesarean section? What's the secret?
Only twelve days after she gave birth to a child by caesarean section, her husband filed for divorce from him. When Sister Li was pregnant with her young son, she went to the hospital for examination, and the ultrasound showed that There were fibroids in Sister Li's abdomen, and the doctor said that if the fibroids were not removed as soon as possible, his life would be threatened. At that time, the situation was critical, and Sister Li did not discuss with her husband for a caesarean section. Who knew that after giving birth to his young son, his husband would be furious with himself because of this matter.
Afterwards, Mr. Wu also deliberately checked the Internet and said that the fibroids in his wife's abdomen would not affect natural production. If online knowledge can solve the problem, what else should the doctor do? Mr. Wu believes that the reason why his wife chose caesarean section is that she does not want to endure the pain of childbirth, as a woman, if she can't even stand this pain, then what kind of woman? For Mr. Wu, he could not tolerate his wife's disobedience to himself, so on the twelfth day after Sister Li gave birth, he filed a divorce application with the court, giving the reason that the younger son was born by caesarean section.
After Learning that her husband was going to divorce herself, Sister Li did not mention how wronged she was, but when she thought about it, she felt that this might just be her husband's angry words, for the sake of this family, let's put up with it first. But what Sister Li did not expect was that her repeated tolerance did not exchange for her husband's consideration.
Because the legal conditions for divorce were not met, Sister Li and her husband did not divorce, and in the days that followed, her husband scolded her, and the two often quarreled over some small matters. In addition, the husband also suspected that the younger son was not his own. No matter how Sister Li explained it, her husband still insisted on his own opinion. To prove her innocence, she asked her husband to have a paternity test, but he refused.
Recalling that during that time, Sister Li bluntly said that she was like living in hell, and it was better to live than to die. As time passed day by day, Sister Li was completely desperate for her husband. At this moment, a bold plan was quietly brewing in his mind. In order to get rid of her husband's control, she thought of running away. On the day of the escape, Sister Li wanted to leave with her two sons, but the eldest son Bobo cried and did not want to leave, and in desperation, he had to leave with his one-year-old son.
In order to support herself and her son, Sister Li, who has not worked for more than ten years, began to work everywhere, no matter how dirty and tired he was willing to do it. Although life was a little bitter, her heart was sweet. After her life stabilized, Sister Li began to turn to the Women's Federation, neighborhood committees and the media, hoping that they could help her rescue her eldest son.
The eldest son is 11 years old this year, but the husband does not let him go to school, so many years the husband is teaching the children at home, more worrying is that the husband will always show his son some negative news about the school, so that the son resists the school from the bottom of his heart. At the same time, the husband also restricted his son's freedom and never allowed him to come into contact with the outside world. Sister Li is afraid that in the long run, her husband's perverted psychology will affect the eldest son, so he must save his son from her husband's clutches.
Can Sister Li achieve her goal? Is Bobo, who has seen his mother, willing to go with his mother?
Because of their children's education, the couple has become enemies. In order to let the eldest son live a normal life, Sister Li also went to her father-in-law many times to communicate, hoping that he could help persuade her husband and let her children go to school. For his son's education method, Bobo's grandfather did not approve, and he went to talk to his son more than once, but each time he did not disperse happily, and in the end he could not do anything. Seeing that the matter could not be solved, Sister Li took the reporter to her husband downstairs, asked to see Bobo, and conducted a knowledge test on her son, but was rejected by her husband, and he also locked the door of the house to prevent anyone from entering.
Finally, the reporter found a lock company to open the door, and Sister Li finally met her eldest son Bobo. But what puzzled everyone was that after Bobo saw his mother again, he did not show happiness, but was very rejected. Sister Li saw that her son had become so indifferent, and she couldn't help but cry bitterly. Bobo's next words surprised the reporter even more, Bobo said that his mother was a bad person and wanted to kill him in the school. Subsequently, the reporter wanted to conduct a knowledge test for Bobo, and after being persuaded by everyone, Mr. Wu finally agreed that this was the first time he had walked into the school. Bobo is curious about everything in front of him, and according to Bobo's age, the school prepares a midterm exam paper for him in the fifth grade.
Through the test, the teacher told Mr. Wu that Bobo was a very smart child with strong logical thinking, but due to the lack of communication for a long time, there were problems with language expression and English pronunciation. Subsequently, someone proposed to let Bobo play with children of the same age, in the face of other children's invitations, Bobo also wanted to play with them, but the father on the side was constantly obstructing to hear his father's words, Bobo refused the invitation of the children, ran to a remote corner, crouched on the ground and thought about something.
In fact, Bobo is very eager to play with other children in his heart, but because of his father's existence, he does not dare to participate. Every time he answered a reporter's question, he had to figure out what his father meant.
Seeing her son become like this, Sister Li was once again in tears, and he did not dare to imagine how his son would live in society in the future. This incident also made Mr. Wu dissatisfied, he believes that his wife broke into the door, is a forced entry into the house, taking his son to do knowledge tests is to restrict personal freedom. He said these two events put a heavy strain on his spirit. For the education of his son, he is also quite proud and believes that he has cultivated his son very well.
Previously, the father and son lived a peaceful and happy life, while the wife tried to sabotage all this. Mr. Wu told reporters that he had excellent grades when he was a child and had always been the top student in the class, but in the third year of junior high school, because the school promoted a new set of broadcast gymnastics, several of which made him very disagree, so he took the initiative to quit school, although it was only at the junior high school level, but Mr. Wu said that he had been learning high school physics, which was no problem for educating his son.
In this way of education, is Bobo willing?
Bobo told reporters that since he can remember, he has been going to school at home, he has no choice, his father said what is what it is, and about friends, he only has one, or from the Internet to meet. During the reporter's conversation with Bobo, he was repeatedly disturbed by Mr. Wu, who corrected the reporter's question several times or asked questions according to his request. For this, Bobo remained silent and at the mercy of his father.
Bobo, who is only 11 years old, lives a life almost isolated from the outside world, and his only spiritual sustenance is his father, and this state of life makes people worry about him. We can understand Mr. Wu's love for his son, but his love deviates from the normal trajectory, such love is actually hurting the child, obviously such love is not conducive to the growth of the child. Finally, I hope that Mr. Wu can wake up as soon as possible and give his children a healthy and happy childhood.
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