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Everything should be stopped in moderation, too late, saying that whether it is a person or a work, we must grasp a degree, do not go too far.
Life is so, and marriage is even more so.
Gao Jianmin, who lives in Changsha, recently encountered a troublesome thing, he claimed that he and his wife have been married for 39 years, the two have finally bought four houses in Changsha after years of hard work, and also bought a car, life is really getting better and better, but recently his wife Chen Li because he looked at the owner of the rice noodle shop next door, his wife suspected that he had an affair with the boss lady, and also moved away, what is going on?
01. Couples who have been married for 39 years.
After Gao Jianmin retired from the army, he worked in the Shishou Chemical Factory in Hubei Province, and later because he was on a business trip to Chongqing, he accidentally met 19-year-old Chen Xiaoli.
Chen Xiaoli not only looks beautiful, but also is very funny and humorous, and her family is also very good, and Gao Jianmin quickly moved her heart.
At that time, Chen Xiaoli just ended a relationship, he felt that this was a good opportunity, so he took the initiative to pursue Chen Xiaoli, and Chen Xiaoli at that time because of gambling, but also because he was too sad, so he accepted Gao Jianmin's pursuit, and soon left Chongqing with him.
However, after following Gao Jianmin back to his hometown, he learned that he was a rural baby, and there were many brothers and sisters in the family, not even a decent house, which was a bit unacceptable to Chen Xiaoli, who grew up in the city.
However, at that time, she gambled with Gao Jianmin, coupled with the fear of people's words, she had to follow Gao Jianmin away, and her parents were unhappy, her mother followed her to see Gao Jianmin's home, saw such a simple environment, and even knelt down for her, saying: "Such a poor family, how are you going to live?" ”
At that time, she also had regrets and struggles, but in the end, feelings still triumphed over reason, and she felt that if she went back like this, she would definitely be laughed at by many people, so she decided to be at ease with Gao Jianmin and slowly stabilized.
Later, in the second year of their marriage, she gave birth to a son.
At that time, Gao Jianmin was working alone outside, but he had done a lot of business and failed, in order to change this poor family, Chen Xiaoli and Gao Jianmin came to Changsha to work hard.
At the beginning, they also suffered a lot, until their son graduated from high school to learn the technology of car repair, they supported their son to open an auto repair shop, and in these years, they also owned 4 houses in Changsha, and their days got better and better.
However, recently his wife Chen Xiaoli had an unpleasant relationship with Gao Jianmin, suspecting that he had an improper relationship with the lady owner of the rice noodle shop in the shop next door.
So, is this really the case?
02. The owner of the rice noodle shop and the couple directly cried out for wrongs.
Under the leadership of Gao Jianmin, the reporter met the couple of the rice noodle shop, the rice noodle shop and their family's auto repair factory are 50 meters apart, they have been doing business in Shenzhen before, until last year in order to help their son and daughter-in-law with children, they returned to Changsha, where they opened a Changde rice noodle shop.
Seeing that the reporter came to inquire about this matter, Wang Xianglian, the owner of the rice noodle shop, said:
I see that the next door left and right do not want to quarrel, if the powerful woman has long let her (Chen Xiaoli) return my innocence, I do not want to quarrel with others, I grew up so big and never quarreled with others, people say that harmony makes money.
Wang Xianglian also said that when she went to the toilet at the auto repair factory, her husband accompanied her, and there was no relationship with the owner of the auto repair plant, she was too suspicious.
It turned out that there was only one public toilet in this area, and this toilet was just behind the auto repair plant, and suddenly one day, Chen Xiaoli found her and asked her not to seduce her husband, she felt inexplicable, but she did not pay attention to it, after all, there was no such thing at all.
Wang Xianglian also did not expect that this Chen Xiaoli actually had such a big contradiction with her husband because of this matter, and also gambled to move away.
Speaking, Wang Xianglian also had a look of incredulity. At this time, Wang Xianglian's husband also came forward to speak. He said that Chen Xiaoli wanted to have nothing and he had no way, because there was only one toilet, how he believed in his wife, Wang Xianglian saw her husband come forward to defend himself, and immediately took over his words: "After she told me that day, I will not go there to go to the toilet now, I don't want to mess with it." ”
It can be seen that the two mouths of this rice noodle shop are also quite helpless, and from the perspective of appearance, the owner of this rice noodle shop is much more handsome than the owner of the auto repair plant, Chen Xiaoli is more able to look up to her husband, think Wang Xianglian will seduce him?
Wang Xianglian opened the conversation box can not be closed, she also said that she and her husband have been married for decades, since marriage has never been separated, the original is also their own love, the feelings are good, her husband believes in her very much, and she does not have Gao Jianmin's WeChat and phone number, not to mention familiarity, how can it be related to him?
Unexpectedly, this Wang Xianglian also showed a lot of love in front of the reporter, she and her husband fell in love, walked through the ups and downs together for so many years, really have deep feelings, and also have great trust in each other.
Wang Xianglian's daughter-in-law also testified to her mother-in-law, telling reporters: "She sleeps after work and goes out for a walk at night, what contact is there with them." ”
Therefore, it can be seen that for Chen Xiaoli's groundless speculation, Wang Xianglian's family feels inexplicable.
But no matter what, Gao Jianmin still hopes to solve this matter, so he specifically found the owner of the rice noodle shop to help explain the misunderstanding.
After meeting the owner of the rice noodle shop, Gao Jianmin spat bitterly, he explained why Chen Xiaoli would suspect him in the first place, that is, once he came to help repair the stove, just when it was time to eat, Chen Xiaoli asked her granddaughter to call her grandfather to eat, and the granddaughter came back and said that her grandfather did not come back to eat.
Chen Xiaoli thought that her husband did not eat how to eat, and went to help others repair the stove so diligently, since then, Chen Xiaoli has become suspicious, slowly observed, it turned out that Wang Xianglian would often come to the toilet, so she suspected that her husband and Wang Xianglian had some abnormal relationship.
Saying that, Gao Jianmin felt very embarrassed and troubled their family, and the owner of the rice noodle shop said that the problem may be on you, we are all doing business here, usually not very familiar, there is no such thing at all, maybe your wife lacks roots in her head and there is no way.
Saying that, he also praised Gao Jianmin as an honest and responsible person, but it was just a misunderstanding, and it was good to say that it was open. And Gao Jianmin was still full of shame, he rushed forward to shake hands, and paid compensation to the owner of the rice noodle shop.
03 Untangled knots.
However, when this misunderstanding was solved, Chen Xiaoli said that she actually had a knot that she could not untie, that is, more than ten years ago, it was very late, her husband drank and said that he was going to go to the toilet, and he went out for a long time without returning, Chen Xiaoli was very aggrieved.
She said that at that time, the two episodes of the Archery Hero Legend had not returned, so she went out to look for it, only to see Gao Jianmin coming out of her sister-in-law's room, and she felt that it was 12 o'clock in the middle of the night, and the lone man and widow were in the same room, and something would definitely happen to the two of them.
Hearing Chen Xiaoli accuse himself like this, Gao Jianmin cried out one after another, and he swore to Chen Xiaoli that if he had any relationship with other women, then there would be thunder in the sky, and the descendants of the Gao family would not die well.
Seeing this, I think the reporter also felt too funny in his heart, right? The couple were more than a hundred years old, and how could they still play this young man's tricks. Since the mediation failed, the reporter had to ask the mediator to come and help.
04 Husband and wife reconciled, happy picture.
After the mediator Crepe Meihong arrived, he persuaded the husband and wife separately.
First of all, she advised Gao Jianmin that there was no people, and that he must be more considerate and concerned about his wife, and learn to take care of his wife's emotions. Since we know that our wife has suffered from mild depression a few years ago, we should care more about her and use love to touch her. Let her slowly get out of this knot.
As for Chen Xiaoli, she hopes that she can believe in her husband, since the two of them have gone through so many years together, then the rest of their lives should be sweet, do not indulge in the past.
Seeing that the time was ripe, the mediator asked Gao Jianmin to come and take Chen Xiaoli's hand, but Chen Xiaoli refused, saying that she was not used to this, which was very awkward.
Gao Jianmin saw the situation and quickly began to express his affection for Chen Xiaoli. He said:
My wife has been thoughtful, caring, and taking care of me for so many years. When I was hit by the goods, fortunately, you immediately sent me to the hospital and took care of me for so many days, so I was able to live to this day. In the future, I will love you and cherish you, and you will give me a chance to make up for it.
Saying that Gao Jianmin could not help but shed tears, and Chen Xiaoli had long been unable to cry, and the two people hugged each other.
The mediator saw that the two of them were so affectionate, and took advantage of the heat to cheer on the side, so that they must live a good life in the future.
When I saw this scene, I was also moved to tears, for their love, for their bravery.
In fact, there is any overnight feud between husband and wife, obviously they have walked together for so many years, and they are also deeply in love. Now that the two are more than half a hundred years old, cherishing each other is the most important thing they should do at the moment.
As a husband, Gao Jianmin obviously lacks love for his wife. Therefore, some of his behaviors will always make his wife insecure. Now he also promises that he will change himself in the future and care more about his wife.
I believe that at that moment, Chen Xiaoli's heart was warm.
In fact, whose married life can be happy forever? But even if there are flaws, quarrels, and contradictions, as long as they can finally reflect on each other and cherish each other, it is worth it.
So how do you see their marriage and welcome to leave your different voices?