Every parent wants their children to "have a chance", and it is understandable that they hope that their children will become dragons and that their daughters will become phoenixes. However, some parents have taken radical educational measures in the process of raising their children, causing irreparable harm to their children's physical and mental health.
Dr. "Tiger Daddy" chicken baby way is too terrible
A doctor " Tiger Dad" feels "caught in the fire" in the education of his children. The "tiger dad" has two children, the son is 7 years old, just in the first grade of primary school. The daughter is 5 years old and in kindergarten.
"Tiger Dad" is a doctor, but also a "Tiger Dad", very attentive to the child's education, from a young age to the child to teach knowledge at home, what to teach?
Children are often taught middle school and university knowledge, so that children can learn Literature and Higher Mathematics. Moreover, he often asked his two children to study until late at night, and often insulted and insulted the children in the process of educating them.
In desperation, my mother could only ask the local women's federation for help. The "tiger father" still does not recognize that there is a problem with his own education methods, but instead says that educating children is their household chore and refuses to let others interfere.
I have never seen a chicken baby, I have never seen such a chicken baby. That's how I felt after reading this report.
Two children a 7-year-old, a 5-year-old, such a small child, just learn literature and high numbers, really do not know what this "tiger father" thinks? So how can a child of several years of age understand the profound knowledge? Learning will not also suffer from the insults and insults of the father, so sad for these two children, the other children's childhoods are happy and loving, and the childhood of these two children seems to live in the nightmare of learning.
Parents need to be certified
Many netizens appealed: parents need to hold a certificate to work!
Very much so! All jobs require training, study and certification, and only parents can go directly to work without preparation.
If parenthood is also a job, then being certified is undoubtedly a good proof that parents are competent for this job.
The Zhejiang Provincial Department of Education once sent a news item that pushed the topic of parents ' "holding a certificate to work" on the hot search list, which triggered extensive discussion and attention.
According to the news, Zhejiang will try to install parents with certificates, and will try to implement the parent learning points system in the autumn semester, and will be implemented in the province when the time is ripe.
Many netizens applauded this.
Is it really necessary for parents to be licensed? Very necessary. Because some parents simply don't know how to be a qualified parent.
I wonder if you have seen the movie "Why Home"? The girl in the film is a commodity that can be exchanged for money; the boy is a tool that is responsible for supporting the family. Parents only care about birth, do not raise, and use their children as cash cows and free labor.
The protagonist, Zane, is only 12 years old, which should be a carefree age, but because the family is particularly poor, he has to shoulder the burden of earning money and supporting the family. His sister died of bleeding after becoming pregnant and did not receive timely treatment, and in anger, he injured the landlord and was sentenced to prison. Ironically, when his mother visited Zane in prison, she told him, "You're going to be an older brother, and you're going to have another brother or sister." ”
Zane collapsed and shouted, "You simply can't afford to have children, why do you have children?" ”
It will only be born, it will not be raised, and the child will not feel the love and care of the parents, but will hurt the child.
Take the "tiger dad", although he has a high degree and is a doctorate, from the perspective of the child, he is not a qualified father, and he does not know how to give the child the right education suitable for the physical and mental development of the child. This "tiger father" only meets his own expectations for the education of his children, and this wrong way of education will ruin the children.
Education does not mean that parents with high academic qualifications will definitely educate their children and educate their children well. Education should be attentive and loving, and it is a slow effort, can not be in a hurry, the result of pulling up seedlings can only be the death of seedlings.
Education should be in line with the characteristics of children's physical and mental development
Under normal circumstances, 5-year-old children can't even understand the addition and subtraction method within 20 years old, and 7-year-old children have just begun to learn literacy, writing, and simple addition and subtraction calculations.
Literature and high mathematics knowledge are like "heavenly books" for children of this age. Such advanced education obviously violates the level of children's psychological development and exceeds the range of children's comprehension ability.
"Tiger Dad" is so uplifting, perhaps the child will surpass the same age in a short period of time, but in the long run, the child not only loses interest in learning, but also may have a fear of learning.
This dad is obviously highly educated and has low emotional intelligence. A doctor, who does not know that he has exhausted his child's interest, will end up being just another "wounded Zhongyong", and the child is likely to spend his whole life to cure this is an unhappy childhood.
Perhaps, the original intention of this "tiger father" is good, but the method is too radical, forgetting what is "step by step" and what is "psychological trauma", and is too stubborn.
A netizen said it well, a doctoral certificate is not as good as a parent's qualification certificate. I hope that this "tiger father" can understand the drawbacks of pulling up seedlings and promoting growth as soon as possible, correct his own education methods in time, and return his children to a normal childhood.
@ I hope to meet today is a parenting record said: Parents must not impose "wishful fantasies, unrealistic obsessions" on their children, education should be rational and scientific, otherwise the victims are the children.
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