Hope Father Jackie Chan
Last week, I saw a hot post on Sina Weibo, and I almost didn't have the pleasure of going back.
I have to say that this son pattern is too big.
Don't you realize that your time has come!
All day long, according to the child, ask the baby to fight for the front of the class, get the Olympic number award, take the English certificate, memorize ancient poems and ancient texts, fight art and sports, and evaluate the three good cadres... Going to a prestigious school, taking the exam focus...
Can't imagine that feng shui takes turns, the children have realized that they are alone in the roll, and the probability of success of the whole family is high.
Hope father Jackie Chan, filial piety hidden knife.
Although the chicken baby represents a new beginning and thousands of possibilities, but this passing pass, can not be admitted to a famous high school, can not be admitted to a good university, can not be admitted to graduate school, can not find a good job... Too many uncertainties.
On the contrary, the parents of chicken babies born in the seventies and eighties, most of them have a relatively good academic background, but also have a certain work foundation and social resources, if subjectively work harder, the probability of success is really bigger than the chicken baby, but also faster than the chicken baby.
Therefore, "chicken parents" may become a social phenomenon that will become increasingly popular in the coming period.
According to the blogger, the "son" mentioned above is also quite good, positive and self-motivated, and did not say that he did not work hard and lay flat.
This mentality, in fact, is very similar to the current chicken baby parents, not to say that they can't do it, but the more they go, the more they want to do it.
We often hear the "teachings" of "parents should be chickens" that seem to be not very friendly:
The chicken baby is not as good as the chicken itself, and the cow is cowed, so that the baby will have a father to fight in the future, that is called winning at the starting line!
You don't work hard yourself, so why call your child to work hard?
Chicken baby parents are some losers, only to put the hope of turning over on the child!
These words are actually not based on any basis, who told you that chicken baby parents are losers, not to taste the sweetness of learning, these people will not have such a big chicken baby motivation.
Chicken baby parents are generally some hard-working, competitive, goal-oriented, determined guys, excellent themselves, and hope that their children are also excellent.
Of course, the result of this is more and more volume. Parents stand still, hard chicken baby is not enough to roll, then "mutual chicken", it seems to be a reasonable development direction.
What qualifications do you have not to work hard? Can your school invite Zhong Nanshan to give a speech?
The 22-year-old "son" first entered the society, understood everything, and the supervision of his father was clearer and more specific.
So in the baby who seems to be full of childishness around us, do you see the signs of chicken parents?
I see it.
Every night when they came home, the two babies would ask:
How much traffic have you posted this morning? Fifteen thousand? Not so good, the thief fork is higher than your traffic today, right?
Over the weekend I said play more games, and screwed up:
Mom, didn't I say you, you're in the group again, a dozen hours, how many gold coins can you earn? What does it mean to always play this thing, did you write monday's article?
Then some time ago Dad quit his job to go to a startup, and they were worried:
Dad, you used to do a good job, why do you want to start a business, now there are few successful entrepreneurs, don't you know? I'm in my forties, and I'm still jumping around!
Oh this worry ah, see what, just give me the material, the big treasure dares to sacrifice the small self:
Mom I found that many of my words are mispronounced, for example, I call gardenia "Hungry Flower", pipe "bustling" called "bustling", sister corrected me today, we can collect it, you take this as a theme to write an article, guaranteed to be popular...
As a direct result, I am writing more and more diligently, the average traffic is getting higher and higher, and I can't turn back more and more on the chicken baby Internet celebrity route that I wanted to fade out.
There are also friends in the group who reflect that the fourth and fifth grade babies, all kinds of suggestions for their parents' business, analyze the distribution of the characteristics of their parents' work customers, pay close attention to the rise and fall of family real estate financial management, and urge their parents to read a higher degree...
Are the babies so worried now? You told them not to be nosy, and the people's eyes were clear, and they said earnestly:
That's a familiar one.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them
The Son loves his parents...
Laugh at you and I waste my mind, love to compete for the beauty of the mirror flower, afraid that luck will pass away in the blink of an eye, you chicken I come to my chicken you...
In such a two-way PUA, I don't know who is the ultimate winner.
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